its not right to put your private life in public(media or office).unless you are a hypocrite .your issues with your spouse either cheating on you or his gay.confront him and resolve it.do not take your issues to the office and tell everyone about your spouse,for sympathy reasons.that is the wrong channel.you will create gossip in your workplace.which is very unhealthy.always remember your vows . be honest to each other and communicate alot.

...so they should then share the experience of both being entered and sort out there matters out of public.
.....can a person go tell the friends that my jama faces the wrong direction or my mama swings left and right? i doubt.
.....but again ,in this kind of weather,entering seems to be top of the agenda.

@Truth

Nani alikusema?

The Elder and the Veteran beat me to it.

@truth

The worst are your relatives. Some are good and some are bad. Some will only celebrate when you have problems cause of envy and jealosy. As for Wazua, they are friends who cannot mislead you because they have nothing to gain or lose. After all you are also a grown up, you know which advice to take and which one not to. They advice you and the final decision is yours. Personally I have learnt alot.