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BEATEN BY FATHER IN LAW
mwanafunzi
#1 Posted : Sunday, February 28, 2010 8:27:49 PM
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It stated as a small family quarrel,the wife in tears calls her dad claiming her husband has become violent.the father shows up moments later,manhandles this jamaa ruthlessly of cause he cant fight back his father inlaw.he sustained injuries now wants to sue.
murenj
#2 Posted : Monday, March 01, 2010 4:25:28 AM
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sue? will the daughter testify against the over protective dad? not likely. another case of insufficient evidence. which ehtnic group(s) are involved here? most traditions have some mechanisms to sort out similar issues
centerbolt
#3 Posted : Monday, March 01, 2010 5:09:54 AM
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men in this day and era STILL beat their wives!!!!! :(
Marty
#4 Posted : Monday, March 01, 2010 5:43:53 AM
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This man beating the wife probably deserves a beating. There are better ways of solving issues.
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Much Know
#5 Posted : Monday, March 01, 2010 5:56:14 AM
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Pia mimi napiga yeye kabisa if you lay a finger on my daughter, i flatten u kabisa. I have done it before to an inlaw and the violence stopped
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Njung'e
#6 Posted : Monday, March 01, 2010 6:30:20 AM
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Much Know wrote:
Pia mimi napiga yeye kabisa if you lay a finger on my daughter, i flatten u kabisa. I have done it before to an inlaw and the violence stopped


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Suppose the jamaa was innocent??.There are better ways of dealing with issues other than kusambaziwa makonde...lol
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#7 Posted : Monday, March 01, 2010 7:43:45 AM
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what if the jamaa ni 1st bodii? Hauwesmek kumtandika.Better ways of dealing with such exist,@centrebolt..also asking the same que.
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atiriri
#8 Posted : Monday, March 01, 2010 8:35:55 AM
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He should not sue the father in law. The wife should also sue him then. I recommend him for not exchanging blows with the father in law.

Though at times women are also bad. They provoke men to beat them. In some communities, if they are not beaten they dont feel loved. So it depends.Akitaka apelekwe out ataleta kichwa.
Much Know
#9 Posted : Monday, March 01, 2010 8:51:40 AM
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@njung'e imagine your daughter calling you to lie? One thing i have come to see is that people who prey on the weak with violence can only understand violence.
@ja-kom If he is a first bodi he better be well protected because nitampiga na mawe(i hope that bodes well with the 'better ways' you are talking of). BTW i dont think the judge will take him seriously as there is a lot of reasoning in law.
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gadj
#10 Posted : Monday, March 01, 2010 9:13:17 AM
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The father in law did not solve the problem he simply scratched the surface. He needs to set up dialogue between the couple to solve the problem, what if the daughter reports to him that the hubby refuses to have sex will he come and f**k his daughter.
bkismat
#11 Posted : Monday, March 01, 2010 9:19:50 AM
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gadj wrote:
The father in law did not solve the problem he simply scratched the surface. He needs to set up dialogue between the couple to solve the problem, what if the daughter reports to him that the hubby refuses to have sex will he come and f**k his daughter.

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Ray
#12 Posted : Tuesday, March 02, 2010 9:31:25 AM
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The guy should sue the father in law.There is no marriage between the daughter and the jamaa - it ended the day he beat him up.If i were the husband, i'd have asked the old man to leave right away with the daughter.You can't beat me up and expect me to remain married to your daughter.There are better ways of solving disagreements.
Intelligentsia
#13 Posted : Tuesday, March 02, 2010 10:22:12 AM
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the countdown has begun for this marriage...marriages are for 2 people, this one has 3(couple + rogue dad-in-law).

BTW, where is this kamzee getting these excess energies from? It needs an outlet/ a safety valve to let it out - wapi mum-in-law!

IMMEDIATE ACTION: Tell the bozo to move out very far - & immediately, lest the dad marshals his sons as well and comes screaming war songs at him when he is served with the suit papers!

MORAL OF THE STORY TO COUPLES:
Do not live near your in-laws (esp bros and dads who may have a history of boxing & rough sports),lest they forcefully and irreversibly re-arrange your dental formula without seeking either your consent or the benefit of anaesthesia...
Euge
#14 Posted : Tuesday, March 02, 2010 11:07:40 AM
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This is a crowded marriage. Three people are a crowd. Lady had better learn to involve her parents in her domes as a very last, last, last resort.
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centerbolt
#15 Posted : Tuesday, March 02, 2010 11:15:37 AM
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murenj
#16 Posted : Tuesday, March 02, 2010 4:15:17 PM
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these guys should be from nyeli.........
McReggae
#17 Posted : Wednesday, March 03, 2010 6:52:33 AM
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How can you be beaten by your father in law and then you continue staying with the daughter.......somethings I cant understand and will never fathom!!!!!
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#18 Posted : Wednesday, March 03, 2010 10:51:25 AM
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Beating is not a good thing to do. it only complicates issues and is also a recipe for more fights. i would propose dialogue with the wazees.
Wa_ithaka
#19 Posted : Wednesday, March 03, 2010 11:52:35 AM
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The father-in-law should be congragulated for administering a beating if his daughter has been beaten. Its no longer acceptable 4 domes to turn into boxing training regimes for the hubby. There are better ways, like going down the pub and whipping a few of your drunken friends or maybe playing rugby or the type of footbal played by Stoke, Blackburn, Bolton et al.

My bro-in-law would require extensive cosmetic surgery if he ever even pushed my sister.

There is no way you can beat up your wife and expect your relationship with her to be normal...
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