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Rank: New-farer Joined: 12/17/2009 Posts: 1 Location: nairobi
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hey guys..ever heard that old saying.."people hate what they cant have"...well thats the case with me and my wife's sista.she a college student and i stay with her.problem is..she is ten times hotter than my wife(her sista).anytime i see her,my heart skipps a beat with curvacious figure and silky soft skin..i honestly can help myself when near her..so i have made it a point to avoid her at all costs,never sharing a dinner table with her,and of late,i have started hating her so much coz i just cant f***IN HAVE HER..good pple,any suggestions on how to cope with this coz i know that hatinh her aint gonn help shit..we r supposed to have cordial relations..right?but i hate her soo much coz i cant have her..pls help
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 12/2/2009 Posts: 82 Location: kenya
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see how she can exit from your house. Is it possible to have her put up in a hostel? Opportunity may knock once, but temptation bangs on the front door forever..
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/5/2008 Posts: 183
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I can't believe such stories!! Why didn't you take her before you took the sister? Divorce the sister and marry her, if that will make you happier! Taunet Neelel ..... New Beginning .....
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/18/2008 Posts: 3,434 Location: Kerugoya
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Welcome to www.wazua.com/Have carnal knowledge with the lady in question.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 10/6/2007 Posts: 1,177 Location: Nairobi - Kenya
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another crazy SK threads...? hope you're not trying... i mean wewe si JARIBU! welcome to club SK.. When you hear what I say, you will not understand. When you see what I do, you will not comprehend
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Rank: Elder Joined: 9/15/2006 Posts: 3,907
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Decided to give your post the benefit of doubt though considering your a newbie, don't know whether you landed at the wrong port. @Mzazii is right on the money. I'd venture your facing an unconcious bias. At a certain level, women are the same. At another level there are many more successful, creative, attractive, sexy women than your wife's sister for that matter. Only difference between humans and animals is intellect - so use it. Shape your environment (get her out of it) and you don't need to get along (no need to rationalise otherwise). And believe it or not, YOU most probably married the better sister. Further reading http://www.slate.com/id/2227808/
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/18/2008 Posts: 3,434 Location: Kerugoya
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Have you had carnal knowledge yet? By the way, how old is she and how old are you?
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/15/2009 Posts: 21
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Focus on what attracted you to your wife first,have positive thoughts and appreciate your wife.Distance will also help but its all in the power of your mind. How would you feel if your wife kept lusting after your brother? life is a swinging pendulum,dont stay up too long to forget that you could come down]
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/26/2009 Posts: 1,793
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>> @everest, There was an almost identical thread during the Sk better days , i recommend you dig up the past threads...before we started serious talks.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 9/11/2007 Posts: 816
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Choice of Solutions1. Set her up with your best buddy and get him to 'bang' her....& as you say she's supuu, he's bound to have several repeat performances.(the thought of sharing will put you off). 2. Tell your wife that you just want to bang her ... just a one-off. It's not like you want to have an ongoing relationship with her... Your wife might just understand.
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/9/2009 Posts: 169 Location: Syokimau
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@JkMwatha, Honestly i wanted to contribute but your choice number 2 is the bomb.....LOL....wawawa,ati she might just understand?? Say that again!! ;)
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/1/2009 Posts: 2,436
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@Everest
- Don't throw away the 80% good that u have (a good loving wife) merely because she lacks the 20% (curves,etc) that her sister has, Really,its a poor exchange rate,
- It is possible u r attracted to her because u actually see your wife in her! Maybe ur wife looked the same at her sister's age, so deep down u could be subconciously expressing your resentment that ur wife no longer looks the same, has neglected herself. In short u really love ur wife, but resent that part of her that does not take care of herself the way married women are wont 2 do,
- The grass maybe greener on the other side but that's because the other side (ur sis-in-law)tends to it, waters it and takes care of it. That means help your wife hit the gym to tone her body, take care of her what she eats and her grooming too,
- Sexual tension is building up within u (maybe her too) and it will become palpable at some point. Women r good at sniffing changing patterns of interest in them, too much eagerness in passing the salt to younger sister at the dinner table, the sudden change in the atmosphere when sis jnr enters the room, roving eyes, etc and so she will sooner or later latch on to ur designs - and then staying with her will be as safe as going hunting with Dick Cheney,
- Finally, remember: no matter how beautiful a woman is somewhere some dude is tired of her sh*t. So at some point sis jnr u will get tired of sis jnr at some point, and will ur wife still be there waiting 4 u? Hp u haven't u reached there with ur wife yet...
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/31/2008 Posts: 7,081 Location: Kenya
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...Jacob did have two sisters and God had no problem with that...
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/7/2009 Posts: 155
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@Intelligentsia, Your last statement is very true!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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Thank God i dont have a younger sister.... hii ni stress tupu kukaa na younger sisters in the house!!!! After reading so much of this, even if i had a sis, she aint living with me one day.... hostel ama akae kwa mama yake!!
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/12/2009 Posts: 925
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@ Everest, 1. you need to continue climbing your mamas mountain as per the pact in sad times or good times(ring a bell ???..it wasnt a nightmare).
2.maybe you were over-working mama and she decided to bring in a "helping hand"
3.seriously now...kick her out on flimsy excuses,talk to the higher mountain and say she appears to be making passes on you...Mama will p.o. box her so fast
4.and this last one is a must...go check in yourself to the nearest rehab and join the once prawling or was it sprawling Tiger !
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/23/2008 Posts: 234
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thats the reason i can't stay with my married sister never may be visit for 2 days. sitaki hii matatizo.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 5/20/2008 Posts: 1,126 Location: Nairobi
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@ Kamaa
The first thing I thought when I read this was Jaribu....I wonder where the guy went...kinda hope he changed his name and moved on to serious talk about wealth...
@Everest Anyway Everest...that's called lust and you should deal with it seriously ...do things that make you more in touch with your wife...discuss with her about the temptations and if need be you might need to let off sis for some time if need be...your wife can tell her the reasons...then you deal with yourself that at some other point the feelings won't come...google purity and work on having pure thoughts... there are plenty of good Spiritual marriage books that you can read to help on that... quot; at the end of the day it is what we allow on our minds that gets us confused...have a great marriage JOIN MY FREE MINI-COURSE FOR WRITERS. CLICK HERE
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 1/19/2010 Posts: 33 Location: Nairobi
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Make sure she is far from you...that way ur feelings to her will change..hostel option is kul!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/22/2008 Posts: 2,718
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I agree with Pinket above. Have the girl sent to a hostel. It is not good to bang any other girl (even if she happens to be your hot sister in law) on your matrimonial bed. Send her to a hostel that is near your work place.
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