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ninja1
#1 Posted : Monday, September 07, 2009 1:59:00 PM
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hi guys am a 34 year old guy and now ready for marriage i have few girl friends aged 23,24,27,28 am confused I kinda have stronger feelings for the younger ones.....what is the best age diff........if a married the 23 would it be a proble cos she is the most prefered now ?
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Wendz
#2 Posted : Monday, September 07, 2009 2:06:00 PM
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@ninja

Problem is not age,but the qualities that you are looking in the person you intend to settle down with. If she has the qualities,then all the better. if not,then re-think your decision because those qualities will come in handy when the 'fire/energy' and the age go through the roof because she wont remain 23!!

Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.
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#3 Posted : Monday, September 07, 2009 2:47:00 PM
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You mean you haue been able to maintain the 4 (four) up to the marriable level? There's a problem my bro but you could marry the quadruple according to islam laws.

A likely impossibility is always preferable to an unconvincing posibility.
African parents don't know how to say sorry.. the closest you will get to a sorry is a 'have you eaten'
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Tebes
#4 Posted : Monday, September 07, 2009 3:21:00 PM
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@ninja

And when you turn 50 the girl at 23yrs now will still be very active and will leave you at the sofa to attend 'urgent' official work.

Anyway it might all depend on the personallity of the sweet 23 and your perceived desired traits of your ms right.


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Ali Baba
#5 Posted : Monday, September 07, 2009 4:09:00 PM
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NINJA 1/ SOBER,

Yes,you can marry all of them in the islamic fashion.If we assume you are christian,you can marry one the christian way,then others under african customary law.it works.Remember former Budalangi MP Chris Wanjala?? He said an african man should have several wives.Jacob Zuma,SA president has four,too.Myself? I have two,one Kenyan,the other american !!And I'm still dating others. So,come join our club!!


Ali Baba
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jaribu
#6 Posted : Tuesday, September 08, 2009 10:34:00 AM
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The 'half-your-age-plus-seven rule' is 'thumb rule' used in MANY cultures defining a mathematical formula to judge whether the age difference in an intimate relationship is socially acceptable. So coz you are 34,half of that is 17....add 7 you get 24. Anyone you engage with in a relationship should NOT be under 24. You dig? Mathematically,'the half plus seven' rule in symbolized thus......






bY aNy MeAns NecEsSaRy.....
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ninja1
#7 Posted : Tuesday, September 08, 2009 2:44:00 PM
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thanks alot pple...okay the truth of the matter is that i fear commitment...i ddnt grow up in a very good family...i dread marrying someone who will force me to a divorce situation....year 10 to 11 years diif is just too much.....if there is a lady out there who was married while young....and the hubby was like 10 years older please give me a word of advice.....do you still feel this guy......from a gals point of view can she be really in love with a 10 years older guy ? ....ama ni chapaa na security she is after
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ninja1
#8 Posted : Wednesday, September 09, 2009 4:32:00 AM
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hey hey.......especially ladies or men who have been in my position and lived to tell tale....
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