We'll go back in history and rediscover humanity, God and and religion using contemporary terms and all will be well.
Imagine someone like Origen who cut his balls off and contrast with Pell or Milingo. What's the common pattern?
Then, what do we know about how humans work, at the moment? Let's take computational theories of mind into consideration. How do they help us to review the matter of sexuality and God?
In my opinion the issue becomes much easier!