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Life without TV in sitting room
Thitifini
#1 Posted : Thursday, November 09, 2017 10:41:47 PM
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Hey guys,

Been thinking...if a family removed the TV from the sitting room, how would life be? Say you tuck the thing to a far away 'tv room' away from the main room (for occassional news).

I find it so disruptive to family bonding....

Your ideas.....(don't tell me to experiment now as I'm yet to move to a house with such many rooms)..

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Sansa
#2 Posted : Thursday, November 09, 2017 10:51:24 PM
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Doable! You soon forget about it and involve yourself in many other activities.
Mseto binti
#3 Posted : Thursday, November 09, 2017 10:59:03 PM
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Thitifini wrote:
Hey guys,

Been thinking...if a family removed the TV from the sitting room, how would life be? Say you tuck the thing to a far away 'tv room' away from the main room (for occassional news).

I find it so disruptive to family bonding....

Your ideas.....(don't tell me to experiment now as I'm yet to move to a house with such many rooms)..


Very possible...10yrs without one... they got used to it....u won't miss it imagine💯
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Thitifini
#4 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 1:49:06 AM
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Sansa wrote:
Doable! You soon forget about it and involve yourself in many other activities.


Ata don't want other activities. Just using time when the whole family iko nyumbani we kukaa and bond - or activities leading to family bonds.

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Thitifini
#5 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 1:51:11 AM
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Mseto binti wrote:
Thitifini wrote:
Hey guys,

Been thinking...if a family removed the TV from the sitting room, how would life be? Say you tuck the thing to a far away 'tv room' away from the main room (for occassional news).

I find it so disruptive to family bonding....

Your ideas.....(don't tell me to experiment now as I'm yet to move to a house with such many rooms)..


Very possible...10yrs without one... they got used to it....u won't miss it imagine💯


10 years!Applause Applause Applause Applause

In your opinion, has it improved family's quality of life/time?

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quicksand
#6 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 10:31:22 AM
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Thitifini wrote:
Hey guys,

Been thinking...if a family removed the TV from the sitting room, how would life be? Say you tuck the thing to a far away 'tv room' away from the main room (for occassional news).

I find it so disruptive to family bonding....

Your ideas.....(don't tell me to experiment now as I'm yet to move to a house with such many rooms)..


Can I presume your kids are in their preteens? When they reach teen age, they will always be in the tv room. They will prefer to be in the tv room, and it will be fights to get them to join the rest of the family.
But it doesn't necessary have to be the case, just saying it could be a byproduct of this particular cause of action. If the tv is in the main room you can always order it to be off during certain hours, and you are there to enforce it.
One of the reasons I am against this is because it puts the tv on a pedestal, something that is unusual and to be indulged rarely,.squared off in another area..it will achieve the notoriety of stealing the car, or sneaking off to go dancing in the night. I think it should remain accessible, in a common place, but controlled and with rules, just like any other distractions in life...

To deviate a little bit ...one of the things I tell myself is I will teach boys about alcohol. That's right, at age 18, after high school, it will be down to the pub, buying his very first (hopefully) beer. And with the beer will come a lesson (or lessons) on how a man should handle beer. My personal opinion is that it is vital to do this, and kids should learn from their parents, and not the internet or media. They will make better decisions if you have laid some foundation
Julie
#7 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 2:54:16 PM
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Totally agree with quicksand.
I was introduced to alcohol by my Dad in similar fashion.
There was not much excitement when my age mates got their freedom to indulge...
hardwood
#8 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 3:04:04 PM
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You should not impose your choices on other family members. If you do not want to watch tv that's your problem, not a family problem. Don't blame the TV for your failure to work on family relationships.
Fullykenyan
#9 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 3:24:37 PM
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The most stupid thing visiting a kenyan Family, is that a visit is not a visit, but a tv waching session. We have a hobby room. Anybody, who wants to watch TV can go there
muganda
#10 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 3:42:16 PM
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Thitifini wrote:
Hey guys,

Been thinking...if a family removed the TV from the sitting room, how would life be? Say you tuck the thing to a far away 'tv room' away from the main room (for occassional news).

I find it so disruptive to family bonding....

Your ideas.....(don't tell me to experiment now as I'm yet to move to a house with such many rooms)..


Commendable. Perhaps you should start with a test phase:
Life without mobile phone in the bedroom smile
aemathenge
#11 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 4:02:36 PM
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hardwood wrote:
You should not impose your choices on other family members. If you do not want to watch tv that's your problem, not a family problem. Don't blame the TV for your failure to work on family relationships.

This is shocking !

Five thousand and seventy six posts from @Hardwood and this is the first one whose sentiments I agree with wholeheartedly.

Damn.
innairobi
#12 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 4:26:03 PM
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sioni shida na tv. the problem is when it becomes the epicenter of life for kids and parents. if you as an adult feel you have this irresistible urge to watch the 9pm news everyday, iko sida. tv can take away not just bonding but also productivity and positive energy. this is not just true for tv. spending too much time on facebook, wazua, twitter, instagram na kadhalika is unhealthy.

kwanza news siku hizi is almost zero value and no new information. from 9pm to midnight, it is just jubilee said this, nasa said that.
All my friends are heathens, take it slow. Wait for them to ask you who you know. Please don't make any sudden moves.
hardwood
#13 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 4:28:11 PM
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aemathenge wrote:
hardwood wrote:
You should not impose your choices on other family members. If you do not want to watch tv that's your problem, not a family problem. Don't blame the TV for your failure to work on family relationships.

This is shocking !

Five thousand and seventy six posts from @Hardwood and this is the first one whose sentiments I agree with wholeheartedly.

Damn.


hehesmile
Thitifini
#14 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 5:05:50 PM
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aemathenge wrote:
hardwood wrote:
You should not impose your choices on other family members. If you do not want to watch tv that's your problem, not a family problem. Don't blame the TV for your failure to work on family relationships.

This is shocking !

Five thousand and seventy six posts from @Hardwood and this is the first one whose sentiments I agree with wholeheartedly.

Damn.


This is not imposing things. Those who want to watch can do it in the tv room, but we have the main living and dinning rooms for bonding.

Visitors wakija no tv (cant access the tv room).

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tom_boy
#15 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 5:55:52 PM
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I have never owned a TV. Best decision ever!
They must find it difficult....... those who have taken authority as the truth, rather than truth as the authority. -G. Massey.
Muheani
#16 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 6:05:22 PM
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tom_boy wrote:
I have never owned a TV. Best decision ever!



In this digital age? Haiiii


Coz i would love my parent to teach me lifeskills...and the evils there in.


By the way...when you go visiting...do you/they watch?

Sansa
#17 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 6:40:04 PM
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Thitifini wrote:
Sansa wrote:
Doable! You soon forget about it and involve yourself in many other activities.


Ata don't want other activities. Just using time when the whole family iko nyumbani we kukaa and bond - or activities leading to family bonds.


That's what I meant. I don't have a TV but that's easy coz I don't have kids. But I know a family that limits screen time to child friendly documentaries or educational shows. They spend the rest of the time playing indoor/outdoor games, reading, cooking, baking, crafts, cycling, and having meaningful conversations. They've been doing this since the kiddos were babies and now the eldest is about to start high school.
harrydre
#18 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 6:44:50 PM
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I have no Tv in the sitting room. Actually we call it the family room because we get to talk, catch up etc.

I have a separate media/gaming room where kids TV & Video games is on a limited basis.

I have another TV in the bedroom where I catch up with news just before retiring to bed.
i.am.back!!!!
Sansa
#19 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 6:45:06 PM
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quicksand wrote:
Thitifini wrote:
Hey guys,

Been thinking...if a family removed the TV from the sitting room, how would life be? Say you tuck the thing to a far away 'tv room' away from the main room (for occassional news).

I find it so disruptive to family bonding....

Your ideas.....(don't tell me to experiment now as I'm yet to move to a house with such many rooms)..


Can I presume your kids are in their preteens? When they reach teen age, they will always be in the tv room. They will prefer to be in the tv room, and it will be fights to get them to join the rest of the family.
But it doesn't necessary have to be the case, just saying it could be a byproduct of this particular cause of action. If the tv is in the main room you can always order it to be off during certain hours, and you are there to enforce it.
One of the reasons I am against this is because it puts the tv on a pedestal, something that is unusual and to be indulged rarely,.squared off in another area..it will achieve the notoriety of stealing the car, or sneaking off to go dancing in the night. I think it should remain accessible, in a common place, but controlled and with rules, just like any other distractions in life...

To deviate a little bit ...one of the things I tell myself is I will teach boys about alcohol. That's right, at age 18, after high school, it will be down to the pub, buying his very first (hopefully) beer. And with the beer will come a lesson (or lessons) on how a man should handle beer. My personal opinion is that it is vital to do this, and kids should learn from their parents, and not the internet or media. They will make better decisions if you have laid some foundation


I think introducing alcohol at 18 will be too late ... based on what I saw in my teenage years. These discussions should take place during early teenage years ... offer them a sip or two, drink in moderation around them, and don't make a habit of coming home drunk out of your mind.
Thitifini
#20 Posted : Friday, November 10, 2017 7:52:04 PM
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Sansa wrote:
quicksand wrote:
Thitifini wrote:
Hey guys,

Been thinking...if a family removed the TV from the sitting room, how would life be? Say you tuck the thing to a far away 'tv room' away from the main room (for occassional news).

I find it so disruptive to family bonding....

Your ideas.....(don't tell me to experiment now as I'm yet to move to a house with such many rooms)..


Can I presume your kids are in their preteens? When they reach teen age, they will always be in the tv room. They will prefer to be in the tv room, and it will be fights to get them to join the rest of the family.
But it doesn't necessary have to be the case, just saying it could be a byproduct of this particular cause of action. If the tv is in the main room you can always order it to be off during certain hours, and you are there to enforce it.
One of the reasons I am against this is because it puts the tv on a pedestal, something that is unusual and to be indulged rarely,.squared off in another area..it will achieve the notoriety of stealing the car, or sneaking off to go dancing in the night. I think it should remain accessible, in a common place, but controlled and with rules, just like any other distractions in life...

To deviate a little bit ...one of the things I tell myself is I will teach boys about alcohol. That's right, at age 18, after high school, it will be down to the pub, buying his very first (hopefully) beer. And with the beer will come a lesson (or lessons) on how a man should handle beer. My personal opinion is that it is vital to do this, and kids should learn from their parents, and not the internet or media. They will make better decisions if you have laid some foundation


I think introducing alcohol at 18 will be too late ... based on what I saw in my teenage years. These discussions should take place during early teenage years ... offer them a sip or two, drink in moderation around them, and don't make a habit of coming home drunk out of your mind.


My intro was after the big initiation. I got manners, was taught not to abuse anything when tipsy except the darn olcohol.

Have been faithful all along especially regarding the latter.

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