@Wendz,Leona,thanks for the advice you are giving to a sista.
@Sukuma,wen i didnt hav a job,and was going out for dates,my mum used to give me cash,enough for whatever i eat,and also for a taxi. and she used to tell me not to order for something thats not within that budget.
Currently i go out with male friends,and pay part of the bill,if i am broke,i tell them(not first dates) i am broke,so from the word go,they know they are paying the whole of it.
And the day they are broke,i offer to pay the whole bill,and am sure they respect me.
Kwani this guy was supposed to sell his parcels of land to buy you pombe?
And as someone asked,why were you following him,to see anapanda gari gani?
Chic,u need help,and i think more prayers.
we can all see the reason you face the ceiling,u married the man for the wrong reasons!!
The real measure of your wealth is how much you'd be worth if you lost all your money. ~Author Unknown