I think there should be a degree of submission,but not such that the wife becomes subservient,rather,plays her part while the man plays his part - this,irrespective of education,money,etc. Just like the game of rock,paper and scissors,at any given point,one comes out on top. Men are USELESS with shopping lists and such while WOMEN can't park cars

Still men can fix small electrical issues and women will get the best deals in fresh food....so,it has to be symbiotic - no host and parasite....no master and slave....that also reminds me about the arguement the body parts where having and it turns out the most filthy body organ had a point to make....
The problem with equality is that we desire that it be with those that have more than us rather that those that have less