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banyamulenge
#31 Posted : Tuesday, January 08, 2013 4:15:18 PM
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Joined: 8/11/2009
Posts: 481
Querry wrote:
Thanks all for your advice and congratulations.


Boy or Girl, does it really matter?

Some parents struggled up to baby no. >5 lookin for a child of a particular Gender, a family friend has 8 kids. 1st born in high school all gals except No 1and No.8 .
Would you struggle that much for a son?


wololo. I feel for your 'family friend'. Lakini bora you can feed, educate and clothe them. smile smile

"The longer the fuse the mightier the blast!"
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ZZE123
#32 Posted : Tuesday, January 08, 2013 6:44:49 PM
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Joined: 6/21/2008
Posts: 2,490
Querry wrote:
Thank you all for the wishes.
Yesterday I attended a party in the evening and all my friends tell me am glowing; my face has become a shade lighter and smoother, my hair and nails are strong and growing very fast and generally I feel good.
The cleavage and the hips are also bigger.

The only negative physical change is my feet which are soo huge and swollen you'd think I have elephantiasis.

Wapi Picha?smile
The man who marries a beautiful woman, and the farmer who grows corn by the roadside have the same problem
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Querry
#33 Posted : Saturday, January 12, 2013 11:24:08 PM
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Joined: 1/22/2011
Posts: 193
Location: nairobi
I am still enjoying my pregnancy.

The swollen feet are now near normal- I have been resting well, eating well and reduced the time on my desk @work.

Currently what I have are fears of parenthood like;
will I be responsible enough,
am scared of breastfeeding,
staying up till night.
Nannydrama.

I believe tutamake it
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sherrif
#34 Posted : Sunday, January 13, 2013 12:01:50 AM
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Joined: 7/27/2012
Posts: 169
Querry wrote:
I am still enjoying my pregnancy.

The swollen feet are now near normal- I have been resting well, eating well and reduced the time on my desk @work.

Currently what I have are fears of parenthood like;
will I be responsible enough,
am scared of breastfeeding,
staying up till night.
Nannydrama.

I believe tutamake it


I hate it when women fear breastfeeding.
Breasts serve two purposes.Foreplay and milk.
Foreplay got you pregnant but now roles have changed.Please give the baby its share and you will reduce your visits to the clinic for small ailments.

If you are responsible enough to get pregnant then you must be responsible to bring up the baby.Truth is kuzaa sio kazi.Be prepared to sacrifice your sleep and social life and beauty routine.smile to some extent.

Staying up all night is no big deal.You get used to it. Besides if you have an understanding partner it gets much easier.

The challenge for new mommies is,you spend the whole night awake and the whole day receiving visitors.Then depression slowly kicks in.

Just be psychologically prepared and you will enjoy it.
Wish you the best.
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Impunity
#35 Posted : Sunday, January 13, 2013 2:28:48 AM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 3/2/2009
Posts: 26,331
Location: Masada
sherrif wrote:
Querry wrote:
I am still enjoying my pregnancy.

The swollen feet are now near normal- I have been resting well, eating well and reduced the time on my desk @work.

Currently what I have are fears of parenthood like;
will I be responsible enough,
am scared of breastfeeding,
staying up till night.
Nannydrama.

I believe tutamake it


I hate it when women fear breastfeeding.
Breasts serve two purposes.Foreplay and milk.
Foreplay got you pregnant but now roles have changed.Please give the baby its share and you will reduce your visits to the clinic for small ailments.

If you are responsible enough to get pregnant then you must be responsible to bring up the baby.Truth is kuzaa sio kazi.Be prepared to sacrifice your sleep and social life and beauty routine.smile to some extent.

Staying up all night is no big deal.You get used to it. Besides if you have an understanding partner it gets much easier.

The challenge for new mommies is,you spend the whole night awake and the whole day receiving visitors.Then depression slowly kicks in.

Just be psychologically prepared and you will enjoy it.
Wish you the best.



Nuff said.
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You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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youcan'tstopusnow
#36 Posted : Sunday, January 13, 2013 10:16:16 AM
Rank: Chief

Joined: 3/24/2010
Posts: 6,779
Location: Black Africa
Impunity wrote:
sherrif wrote:
Querry wrote:
I am still enjoying my pregnancy.

The swollen feet are now near normal- I have been resting well, eating well and reduced the time on my desk @work.

Currently what I have are fears of parenthood like;
will I be responsible enough,
am scared of breastfeeding,
staying up till night.
Nannydrama.

I believe tutamake it


I hate it when women fear breastfeeding.
Breasts serve two purposes.Foreplay and milk.
Foreplay got you pregnant but now roles have changed.Please give the baby its share and you will reduce your visits to the clinic for small ailments.

If you are responsible enough to get pregnant then you must be responsible to bring up the baby.Truth is kuzaa sio kazi.Be prepared to sacrifice your sleep and social life and beauty routine.smile to some extent.

Staying up all night is no big deal.You get used to it. Besides if you have an understanding partner it gets much easier.

The challenge for new mommies is,you spend the whole night awake and the whole day receiving visitors.Then depression slowly kicks in.

Just be psychologically prepared and you will enjoy it.
Wish you the best.



Nuff said.


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GOD BLESS YOUR LIFE
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Dash
#37 Posted : Sunday, January 13, 2013 12:15:38 PM
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Joined: 3/24/2010
Posts: 677
Location: Nairobi
sherrif wrote:
Querry wrote:
I am still enjoying my pregnancy.

The swollen feet are now near normal- I have been resting well, eating well and reduced the time on my desk @work.

Currently what I have are fears of parenthood like;
will I be responsible enough,
am scared of breastfeeding,
staying up till night.
Nannydrama.

I believe tutamake it


I hate it when women fear breastfeeding.
Breasts serve two purposes.Foreplay and milk.
Foreplay got you pregnant but now roles have changed.Please give the baby its share and you will reduce your visits to the clinic for small ailments.

If you are responsible enough to get pregnant then you must be responsible to bring up the baby.Truth is kuzaa sio kazi.Be prepared to sacrifice your sleep and social life and beauty routine.smile to some extent.

Staying up all night is no big deal.You get used to it. Besides if you have an understanding partner it gets much easier.

The challenge for new mommies is,you spend the whole night awake and the whole day receiving visitors.Then depression slowly kicks in.

Just be psychologically prepared and you will enjoy it.
Wish you the best.



And many women do not realise when they fall into that trap of depression. Theres an obs gyn who believes that all women post partum suffer a degree of depression and that its just the degrees that varies and it takes very little to tip over that edge because of those hormones.
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sherrif
#38 Posted : Sunday, January 13, 2013 3:55:20 PM
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Joined: 7/27/2012
Posts: 169
I usually avoid visiting new mommies during the first 2 months because I know the stress associated.
Her body is weak,she is up the whole night,the baby's cries drive her crazy,her hormones are all over the place and you expect her to sit relax and chat?
It is unfair.I can only excuse the shags delegation because there is no way of explaining such.

But most town dwellers lack manners.
They will accompany the new mother home from maternity and sit waiting to be served.
And everyday from work they will be her house to see the baby and EAT her mukimo or porridge.LOL!
Give her space to recover or else she falls into post partum depression.
And you ask why mothers cry when babies cry?
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Kaka M
#39 Posted : Thursday, January 17, 2013 10:41:19 AM
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Joined: 4/18/2011
Posts: 459
sherrif wrote:
I usually avoid visiting new mommies during the first 2 months because I know the stress associated.
Her body is weak,she is up the whole night,the baby's cries drive her crazy,her hormones are all over the place and you expect her to sit relax and chat?
It is unfair.I can only excuse the shags delegation because there is no way of explaining such.

But most town dwellers lack manners.
They will accompany the new mother home from maternity and sit waiting to be served.
And everyday from work they will be her house to see the baby and EAT her mukimo or porridge.LOL!
Give her space to recover or else she falls into post partum depression.
And you ask why mothers cry when babies cry?



With those Msomos u r giving people the name Sherrif suits u.
Did u choose it or someone else did?
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Manyala
#40 Posted : Thursday, January 17, 2013 11:06:50 AM
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Joined: 11/8/2011
Posts: 482
Location: Nairobi
Congratulations,pray that all goes well.EDD? March 4th?
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