@ Djinn, I cannot but support you in this discussion.

Lazy men exist, they give us a bad name, but support and understanding from BOTH sides is necessary for a marriage to work.........up to a point of course.
One more thing, there are going to be good times and bad times for both parties, this is in connection with the bread winning part, so when this time comes, the pressure it creates, oh yes there will be pressure, stress, whatever you want to call it, will reveal your true self. Not to your spouse, but to yourself.

@ Rasilio, nobody is talking about your marriage, so why are you so defensive. This is a general disscusion, so personal attacks are uncalled for. If your union is bliss 24/7/365, then great, fantastic. The reality is there are people, men & women who go through a hard time, so don't get hot under the coller.

@Rasilio
Please look at the tones on this site. As Albratross informed you this is a place we talk of issues.

Being your first day on the site, arrogance of your type does not assist us. We dont care about you and your diarrhoea respect the people you met ama go back to masharda or wherever you came from.

@ rasilo
please watch your tone this site exist for mutual coexistance .
if it doesnt bother u it affects other
Came slowly

@rasilio
in this forum we do raise issues which sometimes are not really what we are going through but basically what is happening in our community/society, and you find most of us do benefit from it in one way or another. being new try to learn the wazuarian's culture if not tradition.