KulaRaha wrote:There is no solution but the hard one...let her cry for 2 to 3 days and she will adjust. I had to do it to my older one, broke my heart, but he managed.
Growing up, my dad used to work away from home, being the last born i had the opportunity to enjoy sleeping with my mum, you can imagine what would happen, when this stranger showed up every three months and i was kicked out of that bed.
I was never happy whenever my dad was around when it came to bedtime....
Now i grew up somewhere where horror stories about witches and wizards and night runners were common, this is the reason i never wanted to sleep in my room. My reason for not wanting to sleep in my bed was i was scared.
Find out why your daughter does not want to sleep in her bed, is she scared of something or she is just attached to that bed, maybe she feels more secure there...What Muheani said is what my mum devised, she would trick me, let me doze off in her bed and ship me to my bed later on, a couple of times i would wake up and scream in the middle of the night on discovering i was sleeping alone, my mum would come tell me it was okay, there was no one to harm me, at times she would get into my bed only to leave once i dozed off again, eventually i woke up in the morning in my room alone so many times and realized there were other things to worry about than the witches....
all the best, breaks my heart nikiskia mtoto analia, hata wa neighbor, i could call cradle on you...