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party continues....1st daughter
githundi
#21 Posted : Sunday, April 14, 2013 10:01:25 PM
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Impunity wrote:
Shak wrote:
githundi wrote:
spanner wrote:
Is she supposed to join the convent or whats your point?

such characters are only for partying company. Can't imagine introducing them as wives.

Characters who go for parties cannot make good wives? What backward thinking.


@Shak please tell us your forward thinking madam.
Would u be who yu are if your mother was those type of ladies being asked by bar maid at 3am "...tafadhali tokeni tunataka funga bar"?
How would yu feel if your mother was chips-fungwad to conceive yu?

Am with @ Impunity with this. We need sober wives to bring forth a sober generation.
Democracy does not belong to the dead
ecstacy
#22 Posted : Sunday, April 14, 2013 10:29:31 PM
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So it's OK for the guys to "go out" but somewhat "not wifely" if a lady did so?...guys stop being analogue in reasoning.
mawinder
#23 Posted : Sunday, April 14, 2013 10:37:41 PM
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ecstacy wrote:
So it's OK for the guys to "go out" but somewhat "not wifely" if a lady did so?...guys stop being analogue in reasoning.

The majority of men reason this way and you can do nothing.There are wife material who take care of the kids,the property and the home and there are women to just hang out with,the ones found in clubs and can even encourage you to sell your bed or house when broke.If a lady frequents clubs and bars,ni shida tupu but for a man it is tolerated.
ecstacy
#24 Posted : Sunday, April 14, 2013 11:00:44 PM
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mawinder wrote:
ecstacy wrote:
So it's OK for the guys to "go out" but somewhat "not wifely" if a lady did so?...guys stop being analogue in reasoning.

The majority of men reason this way and you can do nothing.There are wife material who take care of the kids,the property and the home and there are women to just hang out with,the ones found in clubs and can even encourage you to sell your bed or house when broke.If a lady frequents clubs and bars,ni shida tupu but for a man it is tolerated.


Ngina Kenyatta has no kids, husband or home. Somehow she is not marriage material. This being known in her teens.

That reasoning is closely tied to 'cultures' where affirmative action for women is required..to see whole Wazuans perpetuate cultural attitudes that are retrogressive is disappointing. Let's question the dialogue.

mawinder
#25 Posted : Sunday, April 14, 2013 11:12:59 PM
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ecstacy wrote:
mawinder wrote:
ecstacy wrote:
So it's OK for the guys to "go out" but somewhat "not wifely" if a lady did so?...guys stop being analogue in reasoning.

The majority of men reason this way and you can do nothing.There are wife material who take care of the kids,the property and the home and there are women to just hang out with,the ones found in clubs and can even encourage you to sell your bed or house when broke.If a lady frequents clubs and bars,ni shida tupu but for a man it is tolerated.


Ngina Kenyatta has no kids, husband or home. Somehow she is not marriage material. This being known in her teens.

That reasoning is closely tied to 'cultures' where affirmative action for women is required..to see whole Wazuans perpetuate cultural attitudes that are retrogressive is disappointing. Let's question the dialogue.


Kwani the grandmother whom she is named after was married at what age and at what age did UK identify the mum as a wife material and how old is this drunkard?Answer the questions honestly.
ecstacy
#26 Posted : Sunday, April 14, 2013 11:29:08 PM
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mawinder wrote:
ecstacy wrote:
mawinder wrote:
ecstacy wrote:
So it's OK for the guys to "go out" but somewhat "not wifely" if a lady did so?...guys stop being analogue in reasoning.

The majority of men reason this way and you can do nothing.There are wife material who take care of the kids,the property and the home and there are women to just hang out with,the ones found in clubs and can even encourage you to sell your bed or house when broke.If a lady frequents clubs and bars,ni shida tupu but for a man it is tolerated.


Ngina Kenyatta has no kids, husband or home. Somehow she is not marriage material. This being known in her teens.

That reasoning is closely tied to 'cultures' where affirmative action for women is required..to see whole Wazuans perpetuate cultural attitudes that are retrogressive is disappointing. Let's question the dialogue.


Kwani the grandmother whom she is named after was married at what age and at what age did UK identify the mum as a wife material and how old is this drunkard?Answer the questions honestly.


Focus. Ngina Kenyatta, daughter to President Kenyatta. Let's discuss the topic subject..
faa
#27 Posted : Monday, April 15, 2013 7:37:35 AM
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Any woman who partys cannot make a good wife.

Few women who drink alcolhol make good wives.

Warning to unmarried men- never ever take your girlfriend in a bar to drink with you. Let her stay at home.

If you do,and marry her,you will suffer alone

But if she is just for banging and company,that's allowed
famooz
#28 Posted : Monday, April 15, 2013 7:57:29 AM
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I like the holier that thou attitude/stances taken by people here. I think the issue is not about whether she is marriageable materiel,unless you grew up in the village like some of us,people of this age are in college,and we all know college students have a life that can only be called that "campus life".Most of you have sisters and brothers who act just like her at this age.So the question is not if she is marriage material ( now where did that even come from?),i think it is about image and perceptions.Is it what should define the 1st daughter,i think is the question......
chepkel
#29 Posted : Monday, April 15, 2013 8:20:02 AM
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There is nothing wrong with a girl having some fun. Ngina doesnt look intoxicated in these pictures neither is she indecently dressed as is the norm with female party goers. she seems like a very resonsible girl.

I think men get themselves into trouble because of their stereotyping and ridiculous way of thinking. You might pick a wife using the cultural definition of a "god wife" only to discover that she is a worse devil. An individual makes a good wife and not what the society defines her to be.

We party hard until a certain point when we realize that things have changed and we have to behave in a different way. Its all about responsible behaviour and focus.

Nevertheless, women who drink hard and (are in the brink of alcoholism) do not make good mothers or wives. The same goes for the men. If you exhibit the same behaviour then by God you will not make it either.

A Man who spends his nights drinking mpaka Barman anamfukuza is also not a husband material!!!!!
Bigchick
#30 Posted : Monday, April 15, 2013 8:37:40 AM
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First I think we have detoured from the topic.
Second I believe we have gals who party and make good wives just like we have homes that have broken due to Keshas by the wives.

To this topic;-When and where were they taken? If its 9th April, I would say its ok we were all celebrating.Where would be of concern due to her security and image and by extension image of the president.

The photos do not suggest alcohol.I can see a glass with a straw suggesting juice and another where she is holding a bottle which could be non alcoholic wine.

All the same I agree perception is everything and this is not what was expected of a 1st daughter.
Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
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