Here is my strategy:
I assess potential value versus the chances of success.
At the moment I have very low chance of success in GoK tenders, even though the potential value is large.
So I don't struggle to acquire them.... unless they come calling and asking me to bid.
It happened 2yrs ago with Kenya Pipeline. They advertised the tender and called me to alert me about it. They knew I was the only person in the country who could provide the required service, but they had to advertise.
As it turned out, I was the only bidder--- In the end, they decided they did not need that service so much after all.
No sweat; life goes on.
Nothing is real unless it can be named; nothing has value unless it can be sold; money is worthless unless you spend it.