Just thinking out loudly & wondering: When doing an asset transfer (specifically leases/sublease) i.e. land (sublease) and apartments like (sublease). The lawyer asked for this three documents: 1. photocopy ID of spouse - easy to get without her knowledge 2. passport photo spouse- easy to get without her knowledge 3. Fill a form with signature- easy to draw I am just wondering how difficult is it to get this things from a partner or ex? The only difficult thing here is the signature, i think it is very easy to copy a signature kama ni kubaya. The only challenge may be the lands board- but i hear you can hire a slay queen to represent the ex. By the time inajulikana umepocket $$

Wow! We have some diabolical minds in this Wazuastan. I have to start avoiding dark alleys

why go through all this when you can avoid this by being a man and buy all the properties in your name without asking support from your lady. Her money is her's while your money is for both of you but the property is yours

Kama ulioa mtu: Plead and beg and try to come to a level headed agreement that is beneficial for all parties involved. Look to the future and do what is best for both of you even if you have disagreements now. Kama ulioa nyoka: Refer to post #10 above.

@swenani The property i was transferring was in my NAME. Everything was in my name but i was given a form and asked for all those consent documents. This is what is happening currently, you need consent ata kama iko kwa jina yako tu. I was astonished for a second after being asked for this 3 documents yet clearly everything was in my name, then i began thinking "What if.." so now i have ID/Passports stashed somewhere.