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Rank: Member Joined: 10/26/2007 Posts: 31
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30x should not be a big worry,i have met ladies in this category .they are mature and very responsive to most aspects of life . this often happens when one looks to achieve specific academic goals or career that she puts away marriage and in such would be worthy an admiration to men. There are men who would love to meet such women and so you should not give up.
On the other hand,those who have a trail of failures in between and would not explain the gap in social (including failed marriages),career or academic areas would have alot of convicing to do.
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/24/2009 Posts: 200
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The truth of the matter is when a woman hits thate...she well knows what she want in life and she cannot take any less than her standards..
wines tastes better with age ...(no one can take her for granted)
Expect less and you will not be disappointed!! Ce'st Vrai
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/9/2008 Posts: 2,824
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@sukuma.......if am am 70 yes i would lakini if am younger than that no way. If you have money that you expect to start using in five years,it now belongs in stocks. When I have money, I get rid of it quickly, lest it find a way into my heart.
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/29/2009 Posts: 85
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It is possible to get married at 30,but your target group should be men from 35++. Reason is men generally marry younger ladies due to 'submissive' causes. Since most men marry around 30,they prefer age 25 +/-,whom they can start life with.
Most ladies at 30 have seen it all,and r sometimes difficult to bring into the box. All in all,age is just a number.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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I have a friend who is hitting 39 ( pretty young if you ask me - from my side of the age barrier) and she is still waiting for a Mr. Right to sweep her off her feet... Well educated,chumed,and loving her life..... (well,from a distance).
There is this friend of hers who,I dont know if she was being unrealistic but she did suggest that my friend gets a kid and forgets about thinking or waiting for a Mr. Right to come by.... if he comes,well and good,if he doesnt,so be it...... Now,good people,is this lady misleading my friend or is she being realistic... the advise was given in good faith but of course,my friend didnt take it very kindly... I dont know if to support my friend or her other friend (They were in college together and the other has since been married with 3 kids)
Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 5/8/2007 Posts: 885
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wendz ... she can get a sperm donor and quit waiting for a 'mr right'... all the good men in her age range are probably gone anyway... unless she wants to cradle snatch
He who laughs last thinks slowest..
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 11/4/2008 Posts: 1,289 Location: Nairobi
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It is not the age that counts. Some ladies complain about men yet they are undateable. They have no space for no one. Even if a good guy walks in,they won't see. When I was 33,I dated an agemete. But of cource at 35+,if the man wants kids he might keep away. BTW people marry for various reason not only to get babies. Be positive,get over that boyfriend (most women cannot get over their first boyfriend or their ex-fiance) and move on.
Fundamentals + Sentiments = Position
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/13/2008 Posts: 1,565
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I know someone who got married at around 36 (and she had a 11 year old son)....and now she had a 4 year old daughter (which she had at 37). Never give up. And I agree with whoever said the person should only expect a 40+ guy to take this up.
Caveat: It also depends on who you are and why you are still not yet married at 3x.....with some,its really and truly the quest for 'THE ONE' with others,well,lets say they repel men either because they are too loud (I personally HATE loud women),overly independent (guys need to be needed),etc. Am no jingoist but I believe there are certain parameters within which marriage material can only be found.
The problem with equality is that we desire that it be with those that have more than us rather that those that have less
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/3/2008 Posts: 55
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@Wendz,i thing your friend,friend was telling her the truth. she should get a kid and for get about Mr. right,but also to get i guy at that age who will not use a cd its also impossible. See me for consultation services to her.
arsenal fanatic
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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@Kinyee
As for donors,she has no problem getting. Problem is,she is a lady of the cloth (she is saved) and the donors who are available,are married guys (pls note she is not in a relationship with them - just those old time friends who tease her/or may be they are serious). now this is against her faith.... the more reason i dont know what to advise without sounding a devil's sister!
Some deals are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.
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