Reason why I declined from being a youth member of our catholoc church after high school.
90% of brothers and sisters were bonking one another mercilessly in pretext they have gone to practice songs and so on.
Youth trips were sex trips and on the face value people could see the guys as so holy.

My mother was mad when I pulled out of the group but unffotunately I cud not tell her what was wrong but the reality is most brothers and sisters are stealing in the name of the Lord.This is across the board whether Catholic but worse in pentecostal churches.No pun intended.

Disclaimer : This is my opinion and not a recommendation.

Hi Ngwono,

Most of these people comenting here have heard the same experiencies. What i can advice lady #1 is to hold on to what she has. She is the one on the throne and should not mind what these other dudes are saying. This will happen even after she is married. Some women are crazy and never give up easy.

Am married for the last eight years and together with my wife we still face these things once in a while. Ladies i dated like ten years ago still call me or write sms to my wife,how they get our numbers only their devil knows. Tell her to sit using both Bt*':@#^&ks because if she leaves any space someone will try to fix in.




BOBB