Now am tempted.
Use cutlery in this order.From outside in.
Cutlery depends on the no.of courses.
The ones that are away,from the plate, are the ones that we have to use first. And then continue with the rest following the same order.
Know what is used to wash hands.
Know the function and what is served.
Understand the crowd.Is it the shaking hands type or?
Napkins sio bibs.Laps.
Be bold and ask ask ask.
etc etc

Ditto.You can also mirror what guys on the table/around you are doing.

you know ...kuuliza sio ujinga. In my experience, at one time I wasnt getting why the waiter wasnt taking the plate and other things away. Happens that you are supposed to put the cutlery on the edge facing down ..something like that. Such fussery.
On another occasion, some two dudes at an opposite table were brought two bowls, with water and lemons ...usually used to dip the hands into or something. They looked at the bowls puzzled, perhaps wondering the mode of water delivery. One took the lead, touched the bowl to his lips and drank. The other promptly followed. They even fished out the lemon slices and ate them. I had a hard time trying not to laugh out very loudly.

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Oh,and there's no ugali saucer there so if you ask for more you will be charged extra.