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housewife or career woman?
stonemimi
#21 Posted : Tuesday, June 23, 2009 10:12:00 AM
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'if you had an option,would you marry a housewife or a career woman? why?'. That is the question you have been asked. Dont give too many stories. Just answer the question SK Gentlemen.

For me,I have no option. or rather. decline to take the option.
livie
#22 Posted : Tuesday, June 23, 2009 10:19:00 AM
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very interesting thread.....
it started when women wanted to go out and hunt with men....traditionally they were to stay behind and raise the tois,now theres nothing wrong with them goin out to hunt.

thing is thats an added responsibility they have bestowed upon themselves,so on top of hunting and bringing back the food,they MUST figure out a way to continue with their previous duties.

if you take up extra work voluntarily at your place of work then its because you can handle both your normal duties plus the extra...my 2cents.
If you are going to be thinking only one thing, you might as well be thinking big. -Donald J . Trump
mkristo
#23 Posted : Tuesday, June 23, 2009 11:18:00 AM
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Prov. 31:10-31 describes the character of a nobble wife. that wife descbribed there sounds to me like a career and a house wife. In other words,ladies are gifted to manage both at the same time.

What they need though is the necessary support from us men (husbands) first by appreciating them and in addition loving them as well as encouraging them to grow in their career. Getting interested in their career,congratulating them when they get a promotion,paying for their MBA etc. You know what am saying? Yah,that way you will have your woman perform both roles,house and career without a problem.

What is happening on the other hand is we have many men who do not know how to love their wives. When their wives feel negleted,they result to what has more meaning to them,career. So the husband ends up thinking that the wife is not being submissive kumbe the problem begun with him.

I go for a career lady who has potential to be a house wife. Mine is both.



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wavidani
#24 Posted : Tuesday, June 23, 2009 2:05:00 PM
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Career woman by my definition means high up ( or enroute) the ladder,big money and long hours away from home.Maybe even frequent trips away to head office etc etc. My problem is with the long hrs away.This is INCOMPATIBLE with upbringing a good family.

However there is a happy equilibrium.A working wife is a great asset.There are plenty of good jobs,regular 9-5,that don't detract from but enhance family life.

A housewife,while great for the kids n yourself,with time,may stop caring for herself coz she's going 'nowhere' doesn't bother ever looking good.Another problem is the boredom which seeps in after a while.What to do while kids are in school? etc etc

On the other hand,there are no universal rules,if u put in the work u can make almost any situation work for you.All u need is a desire to make it work.
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