Anyway..whether you are married or not...marriege is tied to your purpose in this life... I doubt God would have let those whom your preacher mentioned to be married considering the purpose they Held..

..imagine John Going home in the evening in wet camel hair having been in river Jordan all day...bytheway...nothing stinks as bad....imagine the trauma his family would undergo when he got jailed and eventually beheaded... the same to all those others...
...paul spent his entire life after conversion on "the road" preaching the Gospel.... He taught that if anyone neglected his family he is worse than a heathen...

your marriage Magigi...is tied to your purpose in this life.. Coz the one who marries you..has the grace to have your back.

..the same time..the one whom you marry..u have the grace to hold them up while they achieve that which they came to this world to do...

...literally...behind every successful person..is a spouse that stayed with them when everything seemed to be destroyed..

Marriage is totally an amazing phenomenon... but again.. depends with your perspective..
my 2 cents.

@ProverB

Very insightful posts.

Knowledge is power and a slayer of ignorance.

As long as you aren't sure you love them, you shouldn't marry them.

I think that adultery finds its way to a spouse who married without loving the partner, for why would one cheat on someone they love?

Marriage is a complex institution will mostly work if there is commitment and sacrifice from both partners, love is just a value addition.

one should never marry for love, a perfect partner is one you can stand for the rest of your life.