Ngai fafa (to quote Guka). Now that's wildly funny, but sad too!

This is true @ombaalbt. It is an escape route when he cannot provide evidence to his claims.

Which Holy Bible version with 66 books are you referring to, the 1952 or 1971 or 2012?

You are funny.

But on this you could be wrong. In Kenya, the comfort economy grows in inverse ratio to the regular economy, a reverse of the skirt lengths predictor of bear markets.

The security sector, mpango wa kando, twilight girls, massage etc, have been doing roaring business since 2017. Equity reported some time back that deposits into female owned accounts tend to spike on Monday morning. I imagine withdrawals from male owned accounts spike on Friday afternoons. Why do you think that is?

In short, the Sabina girls are doing just fine.

Ask Mugundaman.

Lucifer is very smart: in a devious and incorrigibly evil way. He is definitely not kurazy. He knows exactly what he is doing. If you could defect from atheism you would prolly have some potential.

Alphdoti apologies but I cannot engage you any more. You are like an irritating fly buzzing round a lion's nose.

So what? Geeks who code as a hobby, live in Macedonia,
studied astrophysics and love playing Yahtzee are also a minority and I do not see how this is relevant to anything, least of all to the objective truth of Christ as Lord

Boss, keep praying for a good spouse,knowing a spouse can make or break you.
You can get one with most of the above critical qualities (God-fearing, good-looking, bila ndrama)- I should know, bcoz I got one like that and am comfortable in my marriage.
Mine didnt have a uni degree but i took her for 4 years of Uni to boost her personal growth and employment prospects.

Its misleading that a lot of folks pour scorn on marriage yet I know many happily married men and women in our midst- I guess bcoz the human mind is attuned more closely to what is negative than +ve and happily married people do not come out to talk about their marriages all the time - again I should know bcos I was with 5 other such couples this past sato till late all of us with our spouses, merrily discussing over food and drink what we achieved as a couple and as a group in 2018 and what we plan to achieve in 2019. We have been meeting for years, and we tackle issues in our marriages in an open christian setting.

As humans, we are not perfect and marriage reveals your true personality to the closest person in your life - if you had insecure, broke, addiction, etc issues in your life and upbringing even before you got married, then they will manifest themselves in your marriage - it doesn't mean your marriage brought then on and is therefore bad but rather you need to understand your self more closely and see the areas of your personal growth than need attention.

But who says a narrow gate cannot be wide open?
Which schools did you attend? Please join your fellow fly Alphadoti on the bench as haghuna ghitu ya maana sasa mnasema beyond spamming this noble thread with internet detritus.

@Intelligentsia,

Shukran bradza! It took 255 posts to finally get to one with good advice based on my criteria . Speaks to the state of the fallen world we live in IMHO.

Asante for the great tips. I want to join your club so bad bro. I definitely know couples like yours exist even though they may be few and far between compared to the negative, broken and unhappy marriages among the secular crowds.

Awesome tips on marriage bringing out issues in one's life and upbringing. I think relationships do that too - or at least a few signs of those issues start to pop up and a couple should be able to put them on the table and discuss them in a Godly, ndrama free way. But if the lady is not a believer (or is a churchgoer who is not really born again) I think you will agree with me that all is lost!

In my experience, I always seem to attract pretty, well educated churchgoer girls who are not really born again even though they claim so. Call me a bit paranoid when it comes to Christian dating but when I notice red flags kindogo kindogo that send alarm bells ringing my instinct is to run very fast.

Like a lady who tells you all these nice things about herself and her testimony then you discover kanatwanga fombe "socially" fuaaaaa (I do not know what that means) and sees nothing wrong with it. Vodka included (yikes!). Or a lady who claims to be born again and floods her FB with Bible verses yet when you start dating she starts pressuring you for sex way before marriage. Isatragedy.

Halafu there are the "secret Christian" ones. They claim to be a believer but there is no evidence whatsoever of the same. Bible is opened only on Sunday, weekdays they live like an unabashed pagan and unrepentantly so. Social media haghuna hata any sign or symptom of being a believer. All her friends are non-believers and she has never shared the gospel with any of them. But she will dance the hardest in church and shed tears of emotion during service. And so on.

It's crazy days out here in the dating world bro. If I was you I would get on my knees, say a dozen hallelujahs and recite psalm after psalm of praise to our Lord Almighty and endless paeans of joyful worship for blessing you with a Godly wife bila ndrama that you are compatible with! My friend such women are rare as hair on a camel's teeth. Blessed are you!