As they say all wanaume ni maumbwa. You see the way Ken is smiling while dancing with Monica, mpaka kitu imesimama, kumbe he has wamlambez manenos elsewhere.

@hardwood, your posts alone tell me you are in your early 30s. You believe in so many fairy tales. And you don't understand zilch about women, especially our (kikuyu) women.

Listen and take this as advice from an older brother (40-plus) to a younger one.

1. Never use the word love when one of the parties is already married to someone else. It is called prostitution, albeit a sanitized version. For okoth, she brings her young body to the table, Ken brings money and power.

2. Sex-and never forget this-has never, is not and will never be offered for free. It is always sold. When you bargain and pay upfront we call the provider a commercial sex worker. Also happens to be the cheapest.

MWKs offer same service with commercial sex workers but while the latter will ask you to "ongeza pesa nipige nduru", the former will ask you to add money to feign love as well. In both cases you have no right to demand exclusivity. Dp ruto has been paying dearly for a single encounter with Mama Abbey. I have a feeling that one goes down as the most expensive landing in Kenya's history.

I suspect you wouldn't understand the transactional nature of sex within marriage. I will give you another 7 years then we shall come back for that lesson.

True that. ..
And it has always been so. Safe for fairy tales, there has never been a time the poorest fellow won the heart of the most beautiful girl. Because what the female needs in a relationship is just security; for herself and the offspring.

When did the 2 meet and fall in love? That is where we should start.

They met when Ken was a broke community organiser in kibera and the lady was a "high flying nurse" at Aga Khan University Hospital. Then the two fell in love, later Ken won Kibera seat, and woman was nominated coz of her passion for gender and youth empowerment issues. If you read the newspaper article I put up there, you will see that the two walked through the filthy alleys of kibera even before ken became Mp working with the community and later campaigning for ken. How many gold digging slay queens have you ever seen in kibera working with the poor? The lady also used to volunteer for medical camps run by sonko. That tells you the kind of a honorable and selfless woman Anita is. Even in the current court case, it's all about Ken's son and his welfare and not her.

I know that you will say that Ken lobbied for her nomination but I know that you know that Baba and Ohuru also lobbied for the nomination of their relatives. So there is nothing wrong with Ken also lobbying for the nomination of his relative aka bibi mdogo (sonko said that is how Ken referred to her). The leaders always look out for their own kin.

@hardwood wewe tulia.

First, you have mentioned ati what if she were Achieng. If she were not Muthoni, you would not have written anything here for the woman. But alas see how many paragraphs you are writing!

Secondly, about love. Just like @FRM2011, I may also be your dad or older brother. Let me tell you even if I had 4 wives, all of them would be with me due to the conditions I always put across: maintenance (physical ability, financial ability and time availability). There is no condition like love in relationship. All are what is in it for me. Period. So today, if you stop hustling kutafuta hela, you won't get anyone to marry, leave alone huko Karumaindo!

So man brings money, the woman brings what the man wants: food & food, one on the stomach and another 6 inches below!

And there is nothing wrong with polygamy, as long as you have the ability. In fact, I'm against mipangos. Anyhow, I say, Muthoni has right on ken's estate.

@hardwood, I agree with you Monica she is so calm and seems reasonable. Me think she was in privy of the whereabouts of the young boy. And who knows maybe Ken had had a discussion about that. Let us hope this ends well for all: Shosh, Monica, Ann and the boy.