Hi All

I make my humble contribution to this website to get your feedback on one issue I have been dealing with.

I married a 21yr old lady 2yrs ago. I am 35. AS always the 1st year was bliss but I got to see her true colours in the last year. Not only has she refused to work but she also refused to get kids (she is medically ok)

My issue is when by the time we got married I had bought a 5ac plot in Syokimau which is in my name. After we got married I took a mortquage in my name to buy the apt we live in. Now I want a divorce. My predicament is this new constitution.

CHAPTER FOUR - THE BILL OF RIGHTS
Section 45, says Parties to a marriage are entitled to equal rights at the time of the marriage, during the marriage and at the dissolution of the marriage.

My issue is, does the above mean that i will have to give her half of what I have.

This I foresee will be an problem issue for progressive men and women in future esp from gold diggers.

@John, divorce her before August 4th.....otherwise pole sana

What you owned BEFORE you got married in yours. But she can claim half of what you have bought since you married. Even under current Constitution. Go see a good lawyer before you institute divorce proceedings.

ur 35 and shes 23? where is the problem? to be honest i didnt get beyond this stage of ur post

this thread is rather useless without pics..of her

...hio ni kama ABC..
....sell that plot and put the money in your socks (which is an offence under the new CBK regulations)
.......take her to Mombasa to the cheapest hotel without aircon for a holiday.
......Give your brother the apartment key and move houses to Kayole.....Rent out the apartment.
...after coast,sell your car and start javelin with her....
.........and please do not try this at home.....get another 21 year old also dont follow my advice and sue me ! Goodluck and lets meet after

Weeeee Kizee!!!! Kwani you want to inherit the dude's mess?

@John K Msee wangu, Marriages with such an age diff tend to have major issues unless both partners are very committed. Both of you just never get to see things the same way. It may be best to just part ways. That said, just prepare to pay for your mistake as she will take some of your property with her on divorce. A smart lawyer may be able to help you ensure that the financial paid is minimal.

I am sure the issue may not be with me or her. She just refuses. She just wants to have fun.

Anyway, to say the truth I believe I married a gold digger. Looking back, her back ground was really modest and she was down to earth. Any of you guys (esp. Kizee) would have fallen for her. I know she met some mamas in our Apt block who have really poisoned her with lots of crap.

About the grounds of divorce, i dont know. Maybe Ill just separate.

Seroiusly whats the legal position according to this new constitution.

If you really really really need help, the answers above are sufficient to help you move to the next level.

JK
You have a serious problem.
And that problem is you, not her.
Pliz,pliz leave the Katiba out of your marriage mess.

I fail to understand how you can live with a 21yr old for 2 years and she fails to get pregnant if she's medically OK.

You have a story you are hiding and some flimsy excuses about mama's in apartment, ati she is refusing to have a baby, ati she's a gold digger etc.

What exactly is your problem with her?. Failing to get kids or refusing to work or what?. or mama's in your apartment spoiling her or Katiba?.