Consider also the real possibility that the some of the calls on the FM stations are staged and acted out by professional actors... all with the aim of captivating the audience...
With that in mind, my people say "ndiakagwo ta ya wakini" ....loosely translates to "haijengwi kama ya rafiki" or "you don't build like your friend.
Marriage is a covenant: you promise yourself, your God, your partner, your family, your friends etc.... that you will love and live with this man/woman till death.
As they say, don't marry the person you can live with; marry the one you cannot live without.
Nothing is real unless it can be named; nothing has value unless it can be sold; money is worthless unless you spend it.