Yeah, and they say "don't ask me, it's my business".
The question is, what are you doing about it!
My suggestion is:
1. Change the culture totally
2. Let us keep ourselves busy, idle minds are devil's workshps
3. Let us remove bad material from the TV (how? I don't know)
4. Let our young peole marry early, parents should support them startup, and if they don't have money, let them fast often
5. Let our big brothers marry more than one woman, if he can afford (this will minimise free women from the society, hence no one to play with as mpango wa kando). This is not a must, if you cannot afford, then fast more often and stick with one woman
6. Stop copying the West!!!