When growing up in the village, our mother used to tell us that "when your wife gives birth, your brother's wife also gives birth". What she meant is that despite the tight family set up, a time comes when everybody defines his path and sets own priorities in life. Hi biashara of my brother can never take one anywhere.Let the guy map out his future.
"You've never lived until you've almost died; for those who have fought for it, life has a flavour the protected will never know."