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Wendz
#1 Posted : Thursday, February 24, 2011 12:27:55 PM
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I need help...

If you have been having quarrels with a galfriend who you have told severally you moved on and wont listen. She moves into your house, you try all means of sorting issues diplomatically and throwing her out but she stays put..... in one of the confrontations, she throws a glass to you and in the heat of moment, you loss control and hit her with an object, hurt her, calls a well connected family member and goes to hospital... how would you save your skin?

Practical solutions only on the way forward! condemnation at this point in time is no use.

My advise is

1. call the said brother and explain the story from your point of view so that he has full picture

2. go to the police and report (at the risk of being arrested)...

3. run and hide! (i dont know!)

Need your input brothers (and sisters who are on the guy's side - not supporting his actions but if he was your brother/friend/family)
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chemos
#2 Posted : Thursday, February 24, 2011 12:34:47 PM
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First apologise.

An apology goes a long way.
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K22
#3 Posted : Thursday, February 24, 2011 12:38:19 PM
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Location: illobi
The said galfriend now has Leverage after being hit (& hurt)- i would advise him to take option 3 above!

A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find such a man
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Gordon Gekko
#4 Posted : Thursday, February 24, 2011 12:46:12 PM
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Dyke (slang)
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Dyke is slang terminology referring to a lesbian or lesbianism. It originated as a derogatory label for a masculine or butch woman, and this usage still exists. However, some attempt to use it in a manner they see as positive, or simply as a neutral synonym for lesbian.[1] To some extent the word has been reappropriated.
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Wendz
#5 Posted : Thursday, February 24, 2011 12:50:17 PM
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Gordon Gekko wrote:
Dyke (slang)
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Dyke is slang terminology referring to a lesbian or lesbianism. It originated as a derogatory label for a masculine or butch woman, and this usage still exists. However, some attempt to use it in a manner they see as positive, or simply as a neutral synonym for lesbian.[1] To some extent the word has been reappropriated.


And how is this narration in connection with my question? Could you please expound.
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Robinhood
#6 Posted : Thursday, February 24, 2011 12:53:16 PM
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@Wendz,

GG thinks this is a romantic situation between two girls!!! My thinking.

My advice,

These situations will never resolve unless very firm action is taken. One has to be ready to involve the police and get her arrested for trespass. I am not sure whether you can get a prohibition order from the courts so that the person is jailed should they ever set foot in your property ever again - lawyers please advise.

The downside is that you may be arrested for battery and charged, but if you can prove self defense.. Again lawyers in the house should assist.

My two cents.
Great men are not always wise, neither do the aged understand judgement...
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sukums
#7 Posted : Thursday, February 24, 2011 12:54:53 PM
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Location: nairobi
@wendz mulipigania nini kwanza ndo tuanze kesi
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segemia
#8 Posted : Thursday, February 24, 2011 12:55:24 PM
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@ Wendz,

You may wish to borrow a leave from one Ojinga who had almost similar problem.

Scan through this:

http://www.wazua.co.ke/f...aspx?g=posts&t=4368

You never know, you might find a long lasting solution.smile
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McReggae
#9 Posted : Thursday, February 24, 2011 12:57:54 PM
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Location: Nairobi
...she throws a glass at me, did it hit me, am I also hurt???

I will call a police friend of mine to enquire she has reported the matter to the police, if she has not, I will be the 1st to report and from then it's my word against hers!!!
..."Wewe ni mtu mdogo sana....na mwenye amekuandika pia ni mtu mdogo sana!".
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callaspade
#10 Posted : Thursday, February 24, 2011 12:58:09 PM
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Joined: 11/12/2009
Posts: 925
....let the guy gather his camera crew(you inluded)to the other clans village.

....the intention is to deliver and apology but ensure you have the muthuara/githongo gadgets.
....once he apologises,let him ask her to apologise as well and then proclaim some imaginary love.
......take her back home for a week,and then on monday,head straight into a cop station and claim you chick has chapad you badly.
.......there is no crisis hencforth.
..... but next time advise your rela to style up,dont give him to much weed if it makes him violent.
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