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Rank: New-farer Joined: 2/19/2019 Posts: 32 Location: France
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It's all about your relationships! Women are much more excited about cheat than even men cause it's more emotionan and harder to do, I mean to decide this all with all pressure around them if somebody will discover all this shit going on lately. So be sure to stay calm anyway.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/23/2008 Posts: 3,017
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FRM2011 wrote:https://www.bikozulu.co.ke/five-year-contract/
Came across this article by Biko and I thought this is the most appropriate thread to put it. Here is a gentleman who I would rate as a perfect husband and father. An AA rating no doubt. But he got paired with a selfish narcissist and he won't quit. How has he not figured out that she is obviously shagging someone else out there ? And why not slap the bi#*h to restore factory settings ? No man should take this crap. It will affect his kids in future. The son will always have self-esteem issues around women. The daughter will never respect any man after seeing the dad being treated like a doormat by the mom. Disclaimers; 1. I don't believe in love so my rantings should be understood from that standpoint. 2. I don't believe anyone should stay in a marriage because of kids. That is cowardice. 3. I am not a good husband. A great father yes, but husband, maybe not. The woman has no problem, the guy is weak and seems to be suffocating her. The woman wants a man to be a man and I bet she is cheating on him coz he is not getting the hint. "The purpose of bureaucracy is to compensate for incompetence and lack of discipline." James Collins
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 2/12/2019 Posts: 58
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What do you mean by that seriously ? I simply do not understand all that things for sure. Woman are somewhat stimulated by cheating and that's sort of that case. But you don't wanna do that with your wife correct ? Then so be it totally. I don't understand.
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 5/11/2019 Posts: 28
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Women are very very unpredictable anyway no matter how you research them they could dump on you any moment of your life so please be prepared to that totally and completely anyway. How do we go around that ? I am done really.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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Sagamand863 wrote:Women are very very unpredictable anyway no matter how you research them they could dump on you any moment of your life so please be prepared to that totally and completely anyway. How do we go around that ? I am done really. Pole. Now you know that female only care about themselves. Read the book Who Moved My Cheese and look out for signs that come before. Then dump her before she dumps you. If your case is a wife, then she did not start it now, she was always like that, only that you did not notice and married a wh0re.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/9/2009 Posts: 6,592 Location: Nairobi
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Sagamand863 wrote:Women are very very unpredictable anyway no matter how you research them they could dump on you any moment of your life so please be prepared to that totally and completely anyway. How do we go around that ? I am done really. Live your life my friend. If you go around carrying everyone's emotions you'll die having not lived. Get a spouse who's sure about themselves...
BBI will solve it :)
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 12/27/2018 Posts: 7 Location: Germany
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Because it's in their nature anyway for many many reasons out there. They are always looking for some mighty person who can take them and that's really it no matter what for whatever reason being there. How do you want it ? I am not getting that.
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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washiku wrote:https://www.sde.co.ke/thenairobian/article/2001265314/this-is-why-i-sleep-with-my-mpango-four-times-a-month-cheating-wife This reveals how women are so dependent. She stays with the man for financial support, as a result she burdens him to a point he gets stressed, then as a reward she abandons him and goes spreading her legs to another man! If she was honest with herself, why doesn't she leave him. But not she needs him. This is why I always tell men pre-marital affairs are very, very dangerous. Those women who have gone through other men before you should be a red flag.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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I always tell you guys stoning to death should be introduced. Now see how people abuse marriages. If you are to cheat why get married? But no! You need the financial support of the man, that is why you have to marry him even you are going to cheat on him!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/7/2012 Posts: 11,908
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We cannot all be the same, the world would be a boring place to live in. In the business world, everyone is paid in two coins - cash and experience. Take the experience first; the cash will come later - H Geneen
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,236 Location: Vacuum
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Angelica _ann wrote:We cannot all be the same, the world would be a boring place to live in. Nipe hio kitu nipepete kama jiko ann If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/5/2010 Posts: 2,459
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I was in the village over the weekend and one incident left my heart broken.
I gave a lift to an old mzee. It was raining so I took him to his home. I was blown away by his new very beatiful bungalow. I told him as much. I actually thought he would invite me in but he didn't seem interested in discussing his house.
Back home, I mentioned to a cousin about the incident and he jogged my memory to the early 90s. The mzee's wife went wild at some point in the 90s, openly getting into an affair with a neighbour. Took a sitting by elders to resolve the matter.
I never got know it but a child was conceived out of that affair. She stands out because she resembles the neighbour's kids.
In a strange twist of fate, that girl born out of an adulterous affair, became the most successful in a family of 6.
She is the one who constructed the house I saw for the parents.
The mzee vowed never to step inside that house, and he made good his vow.
The mzee must have thought I knew, and that maybe I was mocking him. Yet I have been away from the village for so long, I am no longer updated.
An old man tormented by an affair 30 years ago. Every morning as he opens the door of his timber house, a magnificent bungalow is there to remind him of the fruit of that affair.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/8/2013 Posts: 4,068 Location: At Large.
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FRM2011 wrote:I was in the village over the weekend and one incident left my heart broken.
I gave a lift to an old mzee. It was raining so I took him to his home. I was blown away by his new very beatiful bungalow. I told him as much. I actually thought he would invite me in but he didn't seem interested in discussing his house.
Back home, I mentioned to a cousin about the incident and he jogged my memory to the early 90s. The mzee's wife went wild at some point in the 90s, openly getting into an affair with a neighbour. Took a sitting by elders to resolve the matter.
I never got know it but a child was conceived out of that affair. She stands out because she resembles the neighbour's kids.
In a strange twist of fate, that girl born out of an adulterous affair, became the most successful in a family of 6.
She is the one who constructed the house I saw for the parents.
The mzee vowed never to step inside that house, and he made good his vow.
The mzee must have thought I knew, and that maybe I was mocking him. Yet I have been away from the village for so long, I am no longer updated.
An old man tormented by an affair 30 years ago. Every morning as he opens the door of his timber house, a magnificent bungalow is there to remind him of the fruit of that affair. 30years is a long time to live in agony.He should accept the situation.Else they can sell the house and move to another area if the issue is shame. #SerenityPrayer Love is beautiful and so are those who share it.With Love, Marriage is an amazing event in ones life time, the foundation of joy, happiness and success.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,236 Location: Vacuum
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Bigchick wrote:FRM2011 wrote:I was in the village over the weekend and one incident left my heart broken.
I gave a lift to an old mzee. It was raining so I took him to his home. I was blown away by his new very beatiful bungalow. I told him as much. I actually thought he would invite me in but he didn't seem interested in discussing his house.
Back home, I mentioned to a cousin about the incident and he jogged my memory to the early 90s. The mzee's wife went wild at some point in the 90s, openly getting into an affair with a neighbour. Took a sitting by elders to resolve the matter.
I never got know it but a child was conceived out of that affair. She stands out because she resembles the neighbour's kids.
In a strange twist of fate, that girl born out of an adulterous affair, became the most successful in a family of 6.
She is the one who constructed the house I saw for the parents.
The mzee vowed never to step inside that house, and he made good his vow.
The mzee must have thought I knew, and that maybe I was mocking him. Yet I have been away from the village for so long, I am no longer updated.
An old man tormented by an affair 30 years ago. Every morning as he opens the door of his timber house, a magnificent bungalow is there to remind him of the fruit of that affair. 30years is a long time to live in agony.He should accept the situation.Else they can sell the house and move to another area if the issue is shame. #SerenityPrayer Schupid old man. What if he finds out all the 6 kids are none of his sperms? If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/19/2010 Posts: 3,504 Location: Uganda
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Swenani wrote:Bigchick wrote:FRM2011 wrote:I was in the village over the weekend and one incident left my heart broken.
I gave a lift to an old mzee. It was raining so I took him to his home. I was blown away by his new very beatiful bungalow. I told him as much. I actually thought he would invite me in but he didn't seem interested in discussing his house.
Back home, I mentioned to a cousin about the incident and he jogged my memory to the early 90s. The mzee's wife went wild at some point in the 90s, openly getting into an affair with a neighbour. Took a sitting by elders to resolve the matter.
I never got know it but a child was conceived out of that affair. She stands out because she resembles the neighbour's kids.
In a strange twist of fate, that girl born out of an adulterous affair, became the most successful in a family of 6.
She is the one who constructed the house I saw for the parents.
The mzee vowed never to step inside that house, and he made good his vow.
The mzee must have thought I knew, and that maybe I was mocking him. Yet I have been away from the village for so long, I am no longer updated.
An old man tormented by an affair 30 years ago. Every morning as he opens the door of his timber house, a magnificent bungalow is there to remind him of the fruit of that affair. 30years is a long time to live in agony.He should accept the situation.Else they can sell the house and move to another area if the issue is shame. #SerenityPrayer Schupid old man. What if he finds out all the 6 kids are none of his sperms? For once I agree with you 100%.the man should actually be buying the neighbour tea ,coffee for kutoa genes za ujinga na umasikini from his genealogy.A child born under your roof becomes yours.if you want to die young start thinking about the owner of the sperm.Ukichengwa tulia ufunzwe punda amecheka
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/3/2008 Posts: 4,057 Location: Gwitu
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Angelica _ann wrote:We cannot all be the same, the world would be a boring place to live in. Za wizi tamu! Tamu sana. By the way all wazua Bots have contributed to this thread  Truth forever on the scaffold
Wrong forever on the throne
(James Russell Rowell)
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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newfarer wrote:Swenani wrote:Bigchick wrote:FRM2011 wrote:I was in the village over the weekend and one incident left my heart broken.
I gave a lift to an old mzee. It was raining so I took him to his home. I was blown away by his new very beatiful bungalow. I told him as much. I actually thought he would invite me in but he didn't seem interested in discussing his house.
Back home, I mentioned to a cousin about the incident and he jogged my memory to the early 90s. The mzee's wife went wild at some point in the 90s, openly getting into an affair with a neighbour. Took a sitting by elders to resolve the matter.
I never got know it but a child was conceived out of that affair. She stands out because she resembles the neighbour's kids.
In a strange twist of fate, that girl born out of an adulterous affair, became the most successful in a family of 6.
She is the one who constructed the house I saw for the parents.
The mzee vowed never to step inside that house, and he made good his vow.
The mzee must have thought I knew, and that maybe I was mocking him. Yet I have been away from the village for so long, I am no longer updated.
An old man tormented by an affair 30 years ago. Every morning as he opens the door of his timber house, a magnificent bungalow is there to remind him of the fruit of that affair. 30 years is a long time to live in agony.He should accept the situation.Else they can sell the house and move to another area if the issue is shame. #SerenityPrayer Schupid old man. What if he finds out all the 6 kids are none of his sperms? For once I agree with you 100%.the man should actually be buying the neighbour tea ,coffee for kutoa genes za ujinga na umasikini from his genealogy.A child born under your roof becomes yours.if you want to die young start thinking about the owner of the sperm. Ukichengwa tulia ufunzwe That is why divorce is a blessings. And it should be made less dramatic, as it seems it was made very difficult for this mzee. May God save us from such torments, amen!
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Rank: Member Joined: 1/15/2015 Posts: 681 Location: Kenya
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AlphDoti wrote:newfarer wrote:Swenani wrote:Bigchick wrote:FRM2011 wrote:I was in the village over the weekend and one incident left my heart broken.
I gave a lift to an old mzee. It was raining so I took him to his home. I was blown away by his new very beatiful bungalow. I told him as much. I actually thought he would invite me in but he didn't seem interested in discussing his house.
Back home, I mentioned to a cousin about the incident and he jogged my memory to the early 90s. The mzee's wife went wild at some point in the 90s, openly getting into an affair with a neighbour. Took a sitting by elders to resolve the matter.
I never got know it but a child was conceived out of that affair. She stands out because she resembles the neighbour's kids.
In a strange twist of fate, that girl born out of an adulterous affair, became the most successful in a family of 6.
She is the one who constructed the house I saw for the parents.
The mzee vowed never to step inside that house, and he made good his vow.
The mzee must have thought I knew, and that maybe I was mocking him. Yet I have been away from the village for so long, I am no longer updated.
An old man tormented by an affair 30 years ago. Every morning as he opens the door of his timber house, a magnificent bungalow is there to remind him of the fruit of that affair. 30 years is a long time to live in agony.He should accept the situation.Else they can sell the house and move to another area if the issue is shame. #SerenityPrayer Schupid old man. What if he finds out all the 6 kids are none of his sperms? For once I agree with you 100%.the man should actually be buying the neighbour tea ,coffee for kutoa genes za ujinga na umasikini from his genealogy.A child born under your roof becomes yours.if you want to die young start thinking about the owner of the sperm. Ukichengwa tulia ufunzwe That is why divorce is a blessings. And it should be made less dramatic, as it seems it was made very difficult for this mzee. May God save us from such torments, amen! The pain that is in this mzee for 30yrs....he would better have devorced and charted another path 30yrs earlier.
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/6/2009 Posts: 587
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So you guys think the old man carries some pain. I doubt it. You see he let everything go but he made a satisfactory choice... Never to step into that house.
That is why he has lived for those 30+ years and he is still very much alive. I wonder how many of us here would last that long after that kind of ordeal!! Suicides... Kukunywa ndawa ya panya na marathion... Kujigongesha miguu kumi... Kuruka kutoka 20th floor...etc
A question... Before the construction of this house, who was the contact person or more preferably, the construction manager, the father or the mother?
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