From the song of the guy taking his fiancee to Japan... to the top cop in Tz who murdered his fiancee after educating her and she refused to marry him after...

So, let's say you have a wife and she is more gifted in the brain absorbing area than you while you are streetsmart, would you invest in her education if that's what she wants or would it make you insecure?

The drama of power and gender issues aside, the ideal situation is that both parties engage in continuous adult education. This is because life as a couple and family involves skills, knowledge and attitudes that have not been fostered in the formal educational system. (This brings a critical aspect. It is possible to engage in informal education). Therefore if the ideal holds for all, then the question may need to be modified.