You can never defeat these boys in argument yet it is mum who used to feed them, give them extras including pocket money & vuruta their makamasi bila pressure. Once they grow up they run back to 'Daddy'. Girls know who the pillar of homes are.

It is the dads who beat the hell out of us when we wanted to deviate, it is dads who stepped in... to intimidate the devious boys, playing role. It is the fear of our dads, not wanting to disappoint him, that made some of us real men here really focused and be who we are now.

Or raised by a father who has (upto) 4 wives and thus he is unable to pay attention to all his offsprings' emotional development.

That reminds me when my kids were in kindergarten. One day my daughter was telling us about school and she narrated that day they were asked about their parents, and one of her classmate said "my fathers are many"! I think she had single mother who used to change men and confusing the girl. It is serious matter.

You do not know what this statement really meant, you can only interpret it the way to perceive things ... often times, kids refer to them as uncle not as daddy, so I would be curious about the story than to make a conclusion.

Even in this case a man is present. Its very hard for a woman to spit that kind of language, that there was man talk - Ghetto man talk. So the thing is what kind of men are in this little boy's circle? They are failing him terribly.

I also think sharing a child's verbiage on social media is stooping as low as this child if not worse, it does not help the child turning into adolescence stage.

there are several communities in kenya where the brothers of one's father are referred to as one's father as well and not uncles.

sasa wametoa collabo na cuzo

https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=925425561168542

could he have been raised by a single dad?could it be he just has very busy parents who leave parenting to the housegirl?
arent there single mums who raise good kids ( boys ) without male help? arent there absentee fathers?@FRM2011 be realistic

@Maddie, we have already answered that question. You did not read, or you missed it.

Yes, there are single dads, there are busy parents, there are single mums who have done good job. In life, there always exceptions to the rule. So if there are single mums where they have raised great kids, and they have turned out perfectly normal, good for them, the statistics does not apply to them. But just because they are one of the rare exceptions out there, it does not disqualify the overwhelming majority of single mums out there producing kids and the statistics carried out by the U.S Department of Health and Census prove that 85% of children with behaviour disorders come from single mother households, which it says is 20 times national average!

This shows that a child needs both FATHER and MOTHER living in the house! Because when you don't have both parents, the chances of screwing in life is high!