The speech by Monica at Starehe was very telling, she said they had a very good 21 years and there are things that happened but nothing that could not be forgiven.

I would have given this so called lover some kind of respect if she posted pictures of her taking care of him when he was ailing.

You'd do this kid a favor by not plastering his pictures everywhere. You and the mother should seriously think about that. Pesa ni maua

It seems some people on wazua are going to inherit from Ken. What's all this bile on his wife. The real wife. Not the girl who got pregnant. Being pregnant doesn't make you anyone's wife.

If he left a will and decided to leave that child 10 bob, then 10 bob it shall be.

It really is none of your business.

Ken was a great man. His wife is a great woman to stand by her man even when he was weak and powerless. I am very sure IF he had a child he told his wife. As men usually do. And the child was taken care of.

This other one. I would suggest she gets another man to sleep with. It's seems that's her career objective.

Already cremated!!!

@hardwood and other young dads, one more lesson.

If you ever hear a woman tell you how a child strongly looks like you, that is a screaming red flag. Go to Kemri and do a DNA. 9 out of 10 times you will need therapy after seeing the results.

A child is not like a pet dog that you buy hapo peponi road, then you have the dog "taken care of "by putting in a cage and giving it some mifupa. A child grows up within an ecosystem which is very complex and money is just but one parameter. Even if Ken wrote his son a cheque of 20m, that would still be zero coz you cant put that kid in a room with a bag of 20m and think that "you have sorted the son". A kid needs parental love and care and now that the dad is gone, Anita has a huge task ahead of her raising the child alone, and note that this is not a child ya single mother who never knew the dad, but this is a child who was used to being raised by two loving parents.

That woman you people have called takataka is key to the boys success in life, not a brown envelop. It is that woman who will nurture the boy. It is that woman who will provide parental love to the boy. Its is that woman who will take the boy to church ever sunday to ensure he grows spiritually. It is Anita who will be there on the boy's graduation day, its Anita who will be there on the boys wedding day, its anita who will be there when the boy is sworn in as Nairobi gabana in 2050. All am saying is that Anita is central to the realization of the dreams that ken had for his son. So you cant divorce the boy from his mother. Therefore saying that "the boy was taken care of" is the most stupid statement any one can make. Kazi sii kuzaa (kuzalisha?) na kuwekelea a briefcase with cash on the table "to sort the kid", kazi ni kulea mwana.

Also one cant claim to love the boy and the same time hate the mother, after all half of the boy came from the mother (Genetics 101).

Who secretly cremates someone at 3am? Hii dunia ina mambo.

Like I said

The people who wanted to eat a whole cow in the funeral can now make as much noise as they wish.

Cremation seems to be the answer for widows who are harassed by johnny come lately relatives.

RIP Ken. Your wishes have been granted. As for the kid, if it's proven it's his, I'm sure Monica shall take care of him appropriately. Chances are as FRM2011 can allude to, it's all hogwash.

Wewe endelea ku"mbrog"

He's no longer here for you to payuka about.

But you are allowed to continue shouting in the streets about traditions, Anita and other nyef nyef topics.

See if anyone cares.

If that was his wish then it supercedes everybody body else's including mum, wife, children etc