https://www.bikozulu.co.ke/five-year-contract/

Came across this article by Biko and I thought this is the most appropriate thread to put it.

Here is a gentleman who I would rate as a perfect husband and father. An AA rating no doubt. But he got paired with a selfish narcissist and he won't quit.

How has he not figured out that she is obviously shagging someone else out there ?

And why not slap the bi#*h to restore factory settings ?

No man should take this crap. It will affect his kids in future. The son will always have self-esteem issues around women. The daughter will never respect any man after seeing the dad being treated like a doormat by the mom.

Disclaimers;
1. I don't believe in love so my rantings should be understood from that standpoint.
2. I don't believe anyone should stay in a marriage because of kids. That is cowardice.
3. I am not a good husband. A great father yes, but husband, maybe not.

HE IS DOING EVERTHING WRONG. HE IS THE ONE FEEDING IT.

kind of father who bathes his kids, I make breakfast every Saturday morning while she sleeps, while most men I know are nursing a hangie or even never showed up at home! As in when she wakes up and finds breakfast ready do you know what she says when she sits at the table what bullshit is this!. It should be like once half a year or never.

I see guys who are the opposite of me, they don’t do shit at home, they run around shagging girls, but their wives seem to appreciate them, yet I, who does things by the book, my wife thinks I’m no good?!!”
he knows the solution he is just afraid of getting out of comfort zone.

Every year I take the family for a holiday. Church is important to her so I choose to take it seriously even though I’m in a crisis of faith somewhat at this moment in my life. I have made what’s important to her important to me but it’s not enough and I feel unappreciated. I’m not enough for her.”
he needs to put Him as 1st priority, always! not kids, not wife, HIM. that way he can be there for the kids in future. without him being 1st priority in his life, he might die of depression and never be there for the kids

He says that he is the one who goes for all the children’s school activities; prize giving, sports day, open days, swimming galas. He takes cake to the school during birthdays, waiting around to cut it, sing and blow balloons. “When I go to these school events, I’m always one of the three dads at the function.”

He needs to act busy even when he is not. Create fictitious work on a saturday and go to the 'office'. Divert on the way and have a full body massage with happy ending. He will be smilling at home with empty balls and the wife wondering, 'is this guy on drugs?

Evilness on steroids

@Ngogoyo, you are the real deal. Our brother @swenani should chip in and tell wazuans that the "massage" business is the fastest growing in the city. He should know because he has one outlet in Kilimani.