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Sex at work while working
There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much They must find it difficult....... those who have taken authority as the truth, rather than truth as the authority. -G. Massey.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/9/2009 Posts: 6,592 Location: Nairobi
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tom_boy wrote:There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much She knows it and is sending a message and not only to you, it's to all men including your bosses. Don't rush, take your time, you might eventually find it was wiser that you never approached.
BBI will solve it :)
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/20/2007 Posts: 767
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There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much. I have wanted to speak to her direct boss but I dont want to appear a weakling who cant handle basic desires. I believe she needs to dress decently or at least conservatively, but who will bell this cat. They must find it difficult....... those who have taken authority as the truth, rather than truth as the authority. -G. Massey.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/4/2006 Posts: 13,821 Location: Nairobi
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tom_boy wrote:There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much.
I have wanted to speak to her direct boss but I dont want to appear a weakling who cant handle basic desires. I believe she needs to dress decently or at least conservatively, but who will bell this cat. So could you draw a dotted line between what you have written and "Sex at work while working" All Mushrooms are edible! Some Mushroom are only edible ONCE!
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/20/2007 Posts: 767
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 masukuma wrote:tom_boy wrote:There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much.
I have wanted to speak to her direct boss but I dont want to appear a weakling who cant handle basic desires. I believe she needs to dress decently or at least conservatively, but who will bell this cat. So could you draw a dotted line between what you have written and "Sex at work while working" Depends on when you believe sex begins They must find it difficult....... those who have taken authority as the truth, rather than truth as the authority. -G. Massey.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/19/2010 Posts: 3,504 Location: Uganda
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you have already had sex with her in your mind .so stop asking run to the nearest priest and repent. Christ is gracious, he will forgive you. otherwise your next thread will be how to deal with gold diggers punda amecheka
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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tom_boy wrote:There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much.
I have wanted to speak to her direct boss but I dont want to appear a weakling who cant handle basic desires. I believe she needs to dress decently or at least conservatively, but who will bell this cat. Do you want to speak to her about her dressing or your thirst? If former, mind your biz. If later, you can easily tell whether you can take a risk based on how your interactions are If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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2012 wrote:tom_boy wrote:There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much She knows it and is sending a message and not only to you, it's to all men including your bosses. Don't rush, take your time, you might eventually find it was wiser that you never approached. Bollocks. What if she is lesbian? We should stop assuming that wall women dress to impress men If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Swenani wrote:2012 wrote:tom_boy wrote:There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much She knows it and is sending a message and not only to you, it's to all men including your bosses. Don't rush, take your time, you might eventually find it was wiser that you never approached. Bollocks. What if she is lesbian? We should stop assuming that wall women dress to impress men I remember once we had this most beautiful gal in our organization and all men were drooping to be the first to chew, after like 1 year no one had got the title. Then she said she is going back home in US to get married. She sent pictures of her LESBIAN wedding. You can imagine how beauties some times waste their God given beauty Life is an endless adventure
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/20/2007 Posts: 767
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Swenani wrote:tom_boy wrote:There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much.
I have wanted to speak to her direct boss but I dont want to appear a weakling who cant handle basic desires. I believe she needs to dress decently or at least conservatively, but who will bell this cat. Do you want to speak to her about her dressing or your thirst? If former, mind your biz. If later, you can easily tell whether you can take a risk based on how your interactions are I want to speak to her about both but I am afraid of provoking her and she goes #me too, on me. I however feel already provoked by her dressing. Why is it that its ok for her to provoke all my senses and sensibilities yet I am prohibited from acting upon the provocation. Not fair. They must find it difficult....... those who have taken authority as the truth, rather than truth as the authority. -G. Massey.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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tom_boy wrote:Swenani wrote:tom_boy wrote:There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much.
I have wanted to speak to her direct boss but I dont want to appear a weakling who cant handle basic desires. I believe she needs to dress decently or at least conservatively, but who will bell this cat. Do you want to speak to her about her dressing or your thirst? If former, mind your biz. If later, you can easily tell whether you can take a risk based on how your interactions are I want to speak to her about both but I am afraid of provoking her and she goes #me too, on me. I however feel already provoked by her dressing. Why is it that its ok for her to provoke all my senses and sensibilities yet I am prohibited from acting upon the provocation. Not fair. Have you considered that you could also be provoking her with your conservative dressing? If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Swenani wrote:tom_boy wrote:Swenani wrote:tom_boy wrote:There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much.
I have wanted to speak to her direct boss but I dont want to appear a weakling who cant handle basic desires. I believe she needs to dress decently or at least conservatively, but who will bell this cat. Do you want to speak to her about her dressing or your thirst? If former, mind your biz. If later, you can easily tell whether you can take a risk based on how your interactions are I want to speak to her about both but I am afraid of provoking her and she goes #me too, on me. I however feel already provoked by her dressing. Why is it that its ok for her to provoke all my senses and sensibilities yet I am prohibited from acting upon the provocation. Not fair. Have you considered that you could also be provoking her with your conservative dressing? Itina wewe!!!! Receive with simplicity everything that happens to you.” ― Rashi
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/20/2007 Posts: 767
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Lucky for me, I was able to pour out my frustrations on mama watoto. She has an open door policy, never had a headache since I knew her. I am just too darn lucky. Wonder what other guys in my office do to end their frustrations. They must find it difficult....... those who have taken authority as the truth, rather than truth as the authority. -G. Massey.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/19/2010 Posts: 3,504 Location: Uganda
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tom_boy wrote:Lucky for me, I was able to pour out my frustrations on mama watoto. She has an open door policy, never had a headache since I knew her. I am just too darn lucky. Wonder what other guys in my office do to end their frustrations. so sida ilikuwa kupour.sawa tu.Good you did the right thing. sin no more punda amecheka
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Rank: Elder Joined: 12/9/2009 Posts: 6,592 Location: Nairobi
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Swenani wrote:2012 wrote:tom_boy wrote:There is this girl in the office who is smoking hot. I happen to be her senior though not her boss. Problem is her dress code is a bit too revealing at times. How far can I go without being posted on #me too. I have a rep to protect lakini the temptation is too much She knows it and is sending a message and not only to you, it's to all men including your bosses. Don't rush, take your time, you might eventually find it was wiser that you never approached. Bollocks. What if she is lesbian? We should stop assuming that wall women dress to impress men Oh please, men know when a woman does it with intentions, and if you are not sure as a man, just ask another woman to analyze it for you, they know better. As for "those confused with their sexuallity" , that's not hard to figure out as they will stop you at your tracks and they are a bit more open now.
BBI will solve it :)
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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newfarer wrote:tom_boy wrote:Lucky for me, I was able to pour out my frustrations on mama watoto. She has an open door policy, never had a headache since I knew her. I am just too darn lucky. Wonder what other guys in my office do to end their frustrations. so sida ilikuwa kupour.sawa tu.Good you did the right thing. sin no more You did the right thing @tom_boy to pour it at home. This is why I teach the men here they should lower their gaze and respect women. I have said several times hereAlphdoti wrote:I agree it isn't easy. It's hard not to stare. It's difficult to look away when it's all there. But, don't feed your lust nor set it ablaze. Let me speak for myself. We are taught to remember the order, to lower your gaze. If you notice something which is 'really something' in front of you, politely ask her to rather walk behind you. Or turn around and go home, ask your wife to abandon everything she's doing. Even if she works, you can call her to drive home immediately... to attend to an urgent situation 
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/20/2007 Posts: 767
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AlphDoti wrote:newfarer wrote:tom_boy wrote:Lucky for me, I was able to pour out my frustrations on mama watoto. She has an open door policy, never had a headache since I knew her. I am just too darn lucky. Wonder what other guys in my office do to end their frustrations. so sida ilikuwa kupour.sawa tu.Good you did the right thing. sin no more You did the right thing @tom_boy to pour it at home. This is why I teach the men here they should lower their gaze and respect women. I have said several times hereAlphdoti wrote:I agree it isn't easy. It's hard not to stare. It's difficult to look away when it's all there. But, don't feed your lust nor set it ablaze. Let me speak for myself. We are taught to remember the order, to lower your gaze. If you notice something which is 'really something' in front of you, politely ask her to rather walk behind you. Or turn around and go home, ask your wife to abandon everything she's doing. Even if she works, you can call her to drive home immediately... to attend to an urgent situation What happens when wife is non compliant or always has a headache. I believe this is the main reason that men cheat. They must find it difficult....... those who have taken authority as the truth, rather than truth as the authority. -G. Massey.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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tom_boy wrote:AlphDoti wrote:newfarer wrote:tom_boy wrote:Lucky for me, I was able to pour out my frustrations on mama watoto. She has an open door policy, never had a headache since I knew her. I am just too darn lucky. Wonder what other guys in my office do to end their frustrations. so sida ilikuwa kupour.sawa tu.Good you did the right thing. sin no more You did the right thing @tom_boy to pour it at home. This is why I teach the men here they should lower their gaze and respect women. I have said several times hereAlphdoti wrote:I agree it isn't easy. It's hard not to stare. It's difficult to look away when it's all there. But, don't feed your lust nor set it ablaze. Let me speak for myself. We are taught to remember the order, to lower your gaze. If you notice something which is 'really something' in front of you, politely ask her to rather walk behind you. Or turn around and go home, ask your wife to abandon everything she's doing. Even if she works, you can call her to drive home immediately... to attend to an urgent situation What happens when wife is non compliant or always has a headache. I believe this is the main reason that men cheat. A woman may fail to satisfy the needs (physical) of the husband because say illness. For me I am allowed, polygamy has closed the door to extramarital affairs like cheating. So if you as the man is able to marry two, or three, or four wives and you treat all justly, then there is nothing wrong. As long as you can fulfill the rights of all the wives. The women have the right to be treated justly with love and respect. Of course, it is not easy for the former woman to accept this. But it is for the better, than cheating.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/19/2010 Posts: 3,504 Location: Uganda
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AlphDoti wrote:tom_boy wrote:AlphDoti wrote:newfarer wrote:tom_boy wrote:Lucky for me, I was able to pour out my frustrations on mama watoto. She has an open door policy, never had a headache since I knew her. I am just too darn lucky. Wonder what other guys in my office do to end their frustrations. so sida ilikuwa kupour.sawa tu.Good you did the right thing. sin no more You did the right thing @tom_boy to pour it at home. This is why I teach the men here they should lower their gaze and respect women. I have said several times hereAlphdoti wrote:I agree it isn't easy. It's hard not to stare. It's difficult to look away when it's all there. But, don't feed your lust nor set it ablaze. Let me speak for myself. We are taught to remember the order, to lower your gaze. If you notice something which is 'really something' in front of you, politely ask her to rather walk behind you. Or turn around and go home, ask your wife to abandon everything she's doing. Even if she works, you can call her to drive home immediately... to attend to an urgent situation What happens when wife is non compliant or always has a headache. I believe this is the main reason that men cheat. A woman may fail to satisfy the needs (physical) of the husband because say illness. For me I am allowed, polygamy has closed the door to extramarital affairs like cheating. So if you as the man is able to marry two, or three, or four wives and you treat all justly, then there is nothing wrong. As long as you can fulfill the rights of all the wives. The women have the right to be treated justly with love and respect. Of course, it is not easy for the former woman to accept this. But it is for the better, than cheating. slowly buying the idea of 2 wives as midlife crisis soars. most women cant allow that crap though.lakini 3 to 4 is a crowd ,how so you satisfy that crowd/community punda amecheka
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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newfarer wrote:AlphDoti wrote:tom_boy wrote:AlphDoti wrote:newfarer wrote:tom_boy wrote:Lucky for me, I was able to pour out my frustrations on mama watoto. She has an open door policy, never had a headache since I knew her. I am just too darn lucky. Wonder what other guys in my office do to end their frustrations. so sida ilikuwa kupour.sawa tu.Good you did the right thing. sin no more You did the right thing @tom_boy to pour it at home. This is why I teach the men here they should lower their gaze and respect women. I have said several times hereAlphdoti wrote:I agree it isn't easy. It's hard not to stare. It's difficult to look away when it's all there. But, don't feed your lust nor set it ablaze. Let me speak for myself. We are taught to remember the order, to lower your gaze. If you notice something which is 'really something' in front of you, politely ask her to rather walk behind you. Or turn around and go home, ask your wife to abandon everything she's doing. Even if she works, you can call her to drive home immediately... to attend to an urgent situation What happens when wife is non compliant or always has a headache. I believe this is the main reason that men cheat. A woman may fail to satisfy the needs (physical) of the husband because say illness. For me I am allowed, polygamy has closed the door to extramarital affairs like cheating. So if you as the man is able to marry two, or three, or four wives and you treat all justly, then there is nothing wrong. As long as you can fulfill the rights of all the wives. The women have the right to be treated justly with love and respect. Of course, it is not easy for the former woman to accept this. But it is for the better, than cheating. slowly buying the idea of 2 wives as midlife crisis soars. most women cant allow that crap though.lakini 3 to 4 is a crowd ,how so you satisfy that crowd/community @newfarer, that was not meant for you. This for those who have the need, and can afford. Yeah right, most women wouldn't allow, but we're not talking most, we're talking about one @tom_boy and there definitely some women do not mibd sharing... i woukd never advocate cheating, which you don't seem to mind... it seems when one talks of legally marrying another wife, it does not go down your throat, but you turn blind eye to mpango wa kandos...
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