Don't kid yourself, men gradually lose the ability to make it stand as often and as rock hard as during late teens and twenties, and women lose tightness, juiciness....everything becomes flaccid.
Hiyo ni life

I suspect we're being insensitive to women.

Motherhood in our times isn't a simple thing, perhaps it has never been, but we need to give women space to express themselves. And not just that, we need to understand the gendered worlds.

For example, if a lady is employed by a media station probably because of the mixture of skill, beauty and youth; don't you think it a big challenge for such a person to embrace motherhood and age, even when we think that such a move requires a career plan B, that we aren't willing to facilitate?

Another example is on the dynamics of the c-section option. How are men involved in it? Have medical practice and pop wisdom directed the use of this option for the sake of capital and self enrichment?

I think it important that we don't neglect the seemingly trivial and mundane things in our lives if we're really serious about optimizing our relationships and experiences.

@Tycho what happened to you?

very right Hardwood!