Kwani dry spell imekushika miezi ngapi? Isn't it women who usually push for commitment while the man is just happy to land? If the man is pushing for commitment iko shida mahali

Hahaha @ MugundaMan, why would u wanna marry? Life is so much better & stress free as a bachelor dude. #Kirubi. #Moi style...trust me ur about to make the biggest mistake of ur life living with a woman . Take it from me who's bn married, divorced her, lived come-we-stay twice ....they're ALL sumbua tupu! All of 'em .

Now I enjoy peace & serenity living alone, a loving father to my kids, dating different chics, driving a bachelor sports car, doing what i wanna do when i wanna do, with who i wanna do it with...again, just ask Kirubi or Moi. This is the life right here

Women/relationships are awesome when ur dating so i date lots, but usiwahi ishi nayeye....ever ever.
Not to mention, if u divorce for any reason as 50% of all marriages do... the court will give her half of all ur investments not to mention a monthly alimony payment from ur income . What for?? To hell with marriage bro...bachelor life rocks! .

But if u insist on splitting ur wealth with some nagging wife, hit me up. I have a couple of pretty chic-friends in Nairobi who i can set u up for blind dates. I'm serious! All the best bro.

You sound like you are not a believer so you wouldn't understand. Nyinyi mnajua tu dry spell and swinging your dingaling in anything that moves. How many baby mamas and STD's have you accumulated "penalty shootouting" with all the slay queens in Nairofi all these decades

Well over 100 responses in to this thread in one day. Dunia kuna mambo. Seems wife hunting is a a topic that touches a raw nerve on Wazoo. Hata amorphous people who are not Wazoo members are commenting "indirectly" through others

The level of ignorance is amazing
Ladies, these are the type of men you sleep with I feel sorry for you both.



My mbradza, please go get checked at a proper hospital. You are most probably an asymptomatic carrier of HPV, Herpes and Syphilis and you do not even know it

Spikes,
Does obeying God's law make one "holier than thou"?
That is the lamest excuse on the planet given always by those who are in love with their own sin (and its consequences )
If you tell your child stop playing with fire, is your attitude 'holier than thou' towards them? Of course not.

As for virginity, where in God's Holy Book does it say the wife you marry MUST be a virgin?
I'm not looking for a perfect wife, just one forgiven in Christ!

@MugundaMan if you find a lady saved and speaks in tongues in the middle of the church service but whose past is tainted with 7kids during her slayqueen lifestyle or with 10 excruciating abortions, will you marry them?

No. And here is why

1. I don't believe the gift of "speaking in tongues" continued after the Apostles era. And most Pentecostals who claim to speak in tongues do not even do it Scripturally (an interpreter must be present) which tells me 99% of them are bandia. I wouldn't date a Pentecostal for that reason alone.

2. The Bible gives leeway for CHOICE in finding a wife. God does not say He will find a specific wife for you but says:

"He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord." - Proverbs 18:22.

Also implicit in the Apostle Paul's call for those who are single to remain single is the fact that marriage is a choice and so is the process of finding a suitable wife. She has too many kids and traumatic baggage so she would not be my type.

3. If she met my all my other criteria and the only holdup was the 7 abortions BEFORE she became a believer that is another story altogether. But if she is NOT a believer, no further analysis is required even if she appears outwardly to be a saint in morals and behaviour Like the fake Mother Theresa who claimed to be holy yet was as Satanic as they come.

So from your decades of escapades, how many STDs are you asymptomatic carrier?

This thread sounds like a tired debate between conservatives and liberals.