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aemathenge
#11 Posted : Friday, December 08, 2017 11:17:51 AM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 10/18/2008
Posts: 3,434
Location: Kerugoya
Angelica _ann wrote:
Sasa munataka tufanye?

My Lady, I cannot speak for the male fraternity in the Virtual Republic of Wazua, but when it comes to Leadership, I want you to go out there and LEAD.

Male Chauvinism, disguised in outdated customs, should be a mere irritation to overcome and not a hindrance to the Leadership you have to offer.

Today, I have been invited by a nephew to partake all the nyam chom I can handle at Nice City here in Mwea.

The kid had a good Rice Season, which is a miracle in a drought season.

Her Excellency Waiguru offered Leadership through the negotiation of an irrigation water rationing program that watered land that would have otherwise been dry and barren.

As a result, my nephew is not knocking at my door for handouts or sending "Please Call Me" texts.

He will send, and pay for, a bodaboda to pick me up and accompany him as he unlocks the lock at a local "high-end and expensive" joint.

Contrast this with her political frenemy who, under the counsel of, the blessing, and in deference to her husband, has opted for confrontational politics clothed in copycat initiatives like the Sonko Rescue Team.

Go out there My Lady and give us Leadership from your heart and not what some man "advises" you to offer.
2012
#12 Posted : Friday, December 15, 2017 11:56:09 AM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 12/9/2009
Posts: 6,592
Location: Nairobi
Kaigangio wrote:
Our modern day generation women have simply lost the respect for family and don't really understand why they are in it to start with.




Sometimes I wonder if these are simply natural adaptations to the changing world. Everything including the weather, fashion, communication, entertainment, work etc. has changed. At some point we knew the family set-up would be affected too, but we did not know how to prepare for it.

BBI will solve it
:)
Amores
#13 Posted : Friday, December 15, 2017 12:27:07 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 11/25/2011
Posts: 2,103
Location: Nrb
2012 wrote:
Kaigangio wrote:
Our modern day generation women have simply lost the respect for family and don't really understand why they are in it to start with.




Sometimes I wonder if these is simply natural adaptation to the changing world. Everything including the weather, fashion, communication, entertainment, work etc. has changed. At some point we knew the family set-up would be affected to but we did not know how to prepare for it.


I think so too...and the sentiments of @mahegoat say it all. No need to disguise male chauvinism with outdated norms. A woman who is clear in her head knows it is not a competition, and the man who is clear in his head knows how to support ambitions of his woman. If the marriage doesn't work, it is not because of a women wanting to achieve more from her chosen path ( be it in leadership, politics or running a business)
All this happening in a rapidly changing world, refuse to adapt at your own peril.
So @ muchr, no, it is not the woman who needs to read stories and tuck the kids in bed, this is parenting- meant for both parents, not mother / woman roles.


I am happy
Dahatre
#14 Posted : Friday, December 15, 2017 6:06:52 PM
Rank: Member

Joined: 12/21/2009
Posts: 602
Angelica _ann wrote:
Sasa munataka tufanye?

Swali nyeti, that only men can answer.

Want a ride or die chick who loves you and your/her kids as well as her job? enjoy the comfort of two incomes? Then you want an ass-kicking career woman who loves what she does and is happy with her choice. She may come home later than you, travel and expect you to tuck in those kids and read to them---even when she is home and tired.

Want a diehard Mom who loves homeschooling her kids, attending to their needs and keeping a fantastic home, and who is also happy playing this role?

Something in between? All are out there...choose accordingly and check-in regularly to make sure she is happy with HER choices--adjust accordingly...

What you cannot do is stop the world from changing. Women are not property anymore....

Mseto binti
#15 Posted : Friday, December 15, 2017 10:10:54 PM
Rank: Member

Joined: 3/9/2012
Posts: 144
aemathenge wrote:
Angelica _ann wrote:
Sasa munataka tufanye?

My Lady, I cannot speak for the male fraternity in the Virtual Republic of Wazua, but when it comes to Leadership, I want you to go out there and LEAD.

Male Chauvinism, disguised in outdated customs, should be a mere irritation to overcome and not a hindrance to the Leadership you have to offer.

Today, I have been invited by a nephew to partake all the nyam chom I can handle at Nice City here in Mwea.

The kid had a good Rice Season, which is a miracle in a drought season.

Her Excellency Waiguru offered Leadership through the negotiation of an irrigation water rationing program that watered land that would have otherwise been dry and barren.

As a result, my nephew is not knocking at my door for handouts or sending "Please Call Me" texts.

He will send, and pay for, a bodaboda to pick me up and accompany him as he unlocks the lock at a local "high-end and expensive" joint.

Contrast this with her political frenemy who, under the counsel of, the blessing, and in deference to her husband, has opted for confrontational politics clothed in copycat initiatives like the Sonko Rescue Team.

Go out there My Lady and give us Leadership from your heart and not what some man "advises" you to offer.


Mahegoat....ditto...you shud invite some wazuans to see her excellency in action in that county, maybe they can learn a thing or two... and of course show us where to partake some of that original muratina.....
I found meaningful work🤓
washiku
#16 Posted : Friday, December 15, 2017 11:05:59 PM
Rank: Chief

Joined: 5/9/2007
Posts: 13,095
alma1 wrote:
So that the hegoat doesn't somea me with loaded poetry, I'll say this.

Real men, know it's always the woman. That's why we look for the strong woman. The "other" women are just for our ego issues.

But we don't have to be told who's the leader in the house.

We just know.

If in your life you find yourself talking about women liberation and the man child issues, then you have mental issues that only God can help you with.

Every strong man wants a woman who is strong. The problem is that there is a school of thought that imagines that this means that the said woman has a powerful job a safaricom.

mmmhhhh

My mother did not work at safcom. She is very powerful. She looks at me and I keep quiet. My father on the other hand has to explain himself.

I just don't get young people.

Know your place. Stop reading books and forums. You are a man depending on what your wife tells you. Not according to chocho mendia.

Marry according to your own level...Hii ingine wachana na people who are paid to write how men are bad and ow women are using men. As they do that, have 100 babies and grow old with wonderful great grandchildren.

As they cry about the family unit, yours is just fine and fantastic. Wewe lea familia yako, wale wa chocho mendia wewe soma tu. Then hold your gashungwa even closer.


Applause Applause This is really good. Thank you. This must have been under the influence of the black viceroy. Thank you once more. Well summarized.
washiku
#17 Posted : Friday, December 15, 2017 11:07:52 PM
Rank: Chief

Joined: 5/9/2007
Posts: 13,095
alma1 wrote:
So that the hegoat doesn't somea me with loaded poetry, I'll say this.

Real men, know it's always the woman. That's why we look for the strong woman. The "other" women are just for our ego issues.

But we don't have to be told who's the leader in the house.

We just know.

If in your life you find yourself talking about women liberation and the man child issues, then you have mental issues that only God can help you with.

Every strong man wants a woman who is strong. The problem is that there is a school of thought that imagines that this means that the said woman has a powerful job a safaricom.

mmmhhhh

My mother did not work at safcom. She is very powerful. She looks at me and I keep quiet. My father on the other hand has to explain himself.

I just don't get young people.

Know your place. Stop reading books and forums. You are a man depending on what your wife tells you. Not according to chocho mendia.

Marry according to your own level...Hii ingine wachana na people who are paid to write how men are bad and ow women are using men. As they do that, have 100 babies and grow old with wonderful great grandchildren.

As they cry about the family unit, yours is just fine and fantastic. Wewe lea familia yako, wale wa chocho mendia wewe soma tu. Then hold your gashungwa even closer.


Applause Applause This is really good. Thank you. This must have been under the influence of the black viceroy. Thank you once more. Well summarized.
2012
#18 Posted : Saturday, December 16, 2017 10:02:17 AM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 12/9/2009
Posts: 6,592
Location: Nairobi
alma1 wrote:
So that the hegoat doesn't somea me with loaded poetry, I'll say this.

Real men, know it's always the woman. That's why we look for the strong woman. The "other" women are just for our ego issues.

But we don't have to be told who's the leader in the house.

We just know.

If in your life you find yourself talking about women liberation and the man child issues, then you have mental issues that only God can help you with.

Every strong man wants a woman who is strong. The problem is that there is a school of thought that imagines that this means that the said woman has a powerful job a safaricom.

mmmhhhh

My mother did not work at safcom. She is very powerful. She looks at me and I keep quiet. My father on the other hand has to explain himself.

I just don't get young people.

Know your place. Stop reading books and forums. You are a man depending on what your wife tells you. Not according to chocho mendia.

Marry according to your own level...Hii ingine wachana na people who are paid to write how men are bad and ow women are using men. As they do that, have 100 babies and grow old with wonderful great grandchildren.

As they cry about the family unit, yours is just fine and fantastic. Wewe lea familia yako, wale wa chocho mendia wewe soma tu. Then hold your gashungwa even closer.


Very well put!

Let me just add from experience. Guys, we have to shed traditional thinking in an untraditional world. I don't mean you drop your traditions because that is who you are but the thinking. The jobs most of us do did not exist in the days of our grand parents so you cannot use their thinking to navigate today's world. Women, don't marry a 'made man' or in other terms 'the money' unless you too are a made woman otherwise you'll just be setting yourself up for disappointment because he will not respect you and the people who made him will always be more important than you, even a new trophy eventually loses its shine & glamour. Your work will be to mother his kids in his absence. Marry a friend, someone you can grow from scratch with that way you will be celebrating each other's achievements without Jealousy even if one becomes CEO of safaricom. And most importantly as I interpreted @alma's thoughts, ignore what the world has to say, 90% of it will be in the negative anyway.

BBI will solve it
:)
aemathenge
#19 Posted : Saturday, December 16, 2017 1:38:35 PM
Rank: Elder

Joined: 10/18/2008
Posts: 3,434
Location: Kerugoya
Mseto binti wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
Angelica _ann wrote:
Sasa munataka tufanye?

My Lady, I cannot speak for the male fraternity in the Virtual Republic of Wazua, but when it comes to Leadership, I want you to go out there and LEAD.

Male Chauvinism, disguised in outdated customs, should be a mere irritation to overcome and not a hindrance to the Leadership you have to offer.

Today, I have been invited by a nephew to partake all the nyam chom I can handle at Nice City here in Mwea.

The kid had a good Rice Season, which is a miracle in a drought season.

Her Excellency Waiguru offered Leadership through the negotiation of an irrigation water rationing program that watered land that would have otherwise been dry and barren.

As a result, my nephew is not knocking at my door for handouts or sending "Please Call Me" texts.

He will send, and pay for, a bodaboda to pick me up and accompany him as he unlocks the lock at a local "high-end and expensive" joint.

Contrast this with her political frenemy who, under the counsel of, the blessing, and in deference to her husband, has opted for confrontational politics clothed in copycat initiatives like the Sonko Rescue Team.

Go out there My Lady and give us Leadership from your heart and not what some man "advises" you to offer.


Mahegoat....ditto...you shud invite some wazuans to see her excellency in action in that county, maybe they can learn a thing or two... and of course show us where to partake some of that original muratina.....

That may not be necessary after all, My Dear.

Her Excellency has taken on a National Role as The Vice Chair of the Council of Governors.

Her Leadership capabilities and failures will be right there on a National Pedestal for all to see.

Source Link From The Sub Standard
radio
#20 Posted : Saturday, December 16, 2017 3:02:27 PM
Rank: Veteran

Joined: 11/9/2009
Posts: 2,003
aemathenge wrote:
Mseto binti wrote:
aemathenge wrote:
Angelica _ann wrote:
Sasa munataka tufanye?

My Lady, I cannot speak for the male fraternity in the Virtual Republic of Wazua, but when it comes to Leadership, I want you to go out there and LEAD.

Male Chauvinism, disguised in outdated customs, should be a mere irritation to overcome and not a hindrance to the Leadership you have to offer.

Today, I have been invited by a nephew to partake all the nyam chom I can handle at Nice City here in Mwea.

The kid had a good Rice Season, which is a miracle in a drought season.

Her Excellency Waiguru offered Leadership through the negotiation of an irrigation water rationing program that watered land that would have otherwise been dry and barren.

As a result, my nephew is not knocking at my door for handouts or sending "Please Call Me" texts.

He will send, and pay for, a bodaboda to pick me up and accompany him as he unlocks the lock at a local "high-end and expensive" joint.

Contrast this with her political frenemy who, under the counsel of, the blessing, and in deference to her husband, has opted for confrontational politics clothed in copycat initiatives like the Sonko Rescue Team.

Go out there My Lady and give us Leadership from your heart and not what some man "advises" you to offer.


Mahegoat....ditto...you shud invite some wazuans to see her excellency in action in that county, maybe they can learn a thing or two... and of course show us where to partake some of that original muratina.....

That may not be necessary after all, My Dear.

Her Excellency has taken on a National Role as The Vice Chair of the Council of Governors.

Her Leadership capabilities and failures will be right there on a National Pedestal for all to see.

Source Link From The Sub Standard


@mahegoat, you ignored her muratina query. I also want to know if I can find some when I'm around Nice.
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