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Attractive versus unattractive
atiriri
#1 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 6:28:30 AM
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Which one do you prefer for a partner
chepkel
#2 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 7:16:37 AM
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Attractive. But beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder and specifications vary. What you find attractive may not move me at all and vice versa.
sheep
#3 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 7:22:34 AM
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Just thinking aloud,why should one prefer an unattractive partner? Is it even possible? Just imagine dating a woman who in your eyes is very unattractive and telling her she is beautiful,is it not mischief even in the eyes of God? It simply goes against the very law of nature.
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Wendz
#4 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 7:51:57 AM
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sheep wrote:
Just thinking aloud,why should one prefer an unattractive partner? Is it even possible? Just imagine dating a woman who in your eyes is very unattractive and telling her she is beautiful,is it not mischief even in the eyes of God? It simply goes against the very law of nature.


I bet it depends on what attraction that is. You could find someone who is not attractive physically but has the most beautiful hear in the world... and by seeing the beauty of her heart, the attraction comes from within.... you wont be lying to tell her she is attractive. Have you noted something, there are many of the 'most attractive' women are single, and many of the 'not so attractive' are married. Ask yourself why?

Men want to be seen with attractive women for show... when it comes to choosing who to live the rest of their lives with, they go beyond the physical attractiveness. If it comes as a package, now thats what you call a lucky man - and they arent many! If men are honest, they will tell you their wives are not the most physically attractive women on land but for what they hold in their hearts, they wouldnt trade them for JLo and her drama!
Intelligentsia
#5 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 8:10:07 AM
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spot on wendz.
Very beautifl women are mostly regarded as trophies to show off to pals, inner beauty takes time to discover but stays longest long after the looks have faded.

@ sheep beauty is not only in the eyes of the beholder but is also in the eyes of the BEERHOLDER!!

mwenza
#6 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 8:21:41 AM
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A beautiful lady is not necessarily an attractive one, if you see what i mean.

I have seen very many ugly women who are very attractive. The converse is also true.
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atiriri
#7 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 9:27:44 AM
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I believe in the inner beauty. Inner beauty that leaves good prints after you have gone to the next world. Even some men are attractive and some are unattractive.
mlefu
#8 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 9:40:42 AM
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atiriri..you must be one of the EVE editors....be posting your editions here coz i dont know where they sell the standard in my area.
And1589
#9 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 9:51:32 AM
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mwanamke ni tabia.

my 2 birrs.
Jaina
#10 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 10:14:09 AM
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Atiriri,

Men's attractiveness is in his Wallet.

cruso
#11 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 10:37:57 AM
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@Wendz...u hv nailed it.

Physically attractive ladies can cause unnecessary distractions in life! There is a scripture that goes something like, ''like a gold ring in the nostrils of a swine, is a beautiful woman without wisdom.''

But the most important version of attraction comes from within acompanied by BRAINS.......talk of self-discipline, self-worth, self-esteem, self-respect, self-understanding....and all the virtues that ooz out of a human heart...And these virtues can be found in both the attractive & unattractive.
RELIGION = MAN LOOKING FOR GOD AND SALVATION = GOD LOOKING FOR MAN.
mwenza
#12 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 11:01:26 AM
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And1589 wrote:
mwanamke ni tabia.

my 2 birrs.



Tabia cannot exist in a vacuum. Same as this thing people call love.

Sample this.......Marry a so-called very disciplined lady. Six months down the line, no food in the house. Two or three days, let her sleep on an empty stomach.......I can bet my life, that imagined good tabia will go through the window.
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RVP
#13 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 12:23:14 PM
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You want an attractive woman for a one night stand. You want a wise woman to raise your kids. If you can get a two-in-one, the better, but the latter is definitely the main priority.
Amurabi.
#14 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 12:58:37 PM
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@Wendz.Why don't you try being a motivational speaker and let your target be young women. Otherwise i always feel that you are so rich in between your ears.
Some have been thought brave because they were afraid to run away.
Wendz
#15 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 1:48:39 PM
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@Amurabi... hehehehe... thanks for spotting potential where i had not seen it... i might start stalking these newly weds and hit some reality into their heads you know! I dont blame them. it comes with age and experience.
simonkabz
#16 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 3:50:23 PM
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@jaina, the beauty of a man is not only in his wallet, but his d*%# too!
TULIA.........UFUNZWE!
2012
#17 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 3:56:07 PM
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atiriri wrote:
Which one do you prefer for a partner


@atiriri, What's the catch?

BBI will solve it
:)
Zakumi
#18 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 5:05:43 PM
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Beauty lies *read cheats* in the eyes of the beholder!
The Strong Do What They Want,The Weak Do What They Must!
kadonye
#19 Posted : Tuesday, May 18, 2010 5:41:40 PM
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Beauty makes my heart beat faster but I wouldn't want to fall for beauty without character.I've seen someone who married a dazzling beauty,the kind that even kids like and fall for.But from the word go she was a disaster.There was chaos daily n she was openly rude n abusive to inlaws.Now he's all stressed up coz she's made the home inhospitable n he cant leave her
What a wicked man I am!The things I want to do,I don't do.The things I don't want to do I find myself doing
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