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Taurrus wrote:hardwood wrote:Bigchick wrote:AlphDoti wrote:After reading this story, I noticed this "wife" had too much freedom to do what she wanted to do anytime she wanted without any question from the late husband. Is this the women liberation you gguys have been agitating for? Why would your wife be driving herself out at night alone to "buy" sth (actually to.see the off the emn) leaving you (man) in the house waiting for chips....!!! I agree.This man sounds like he was sat on.From the story the woman was in charge of the relationship.That is why it is her who picked him to go sleep in her house in Kiambu.It is her who was showing him where a plot was being sold in Witeithie,she went to buy chips instead of cooking a home meal for her husband. That story alludes to a loveless marriage where there was little respect for the man. Evil woman she is,hope she is hanged. This case just reveals the level of hurt a spouse goes through when she is cheated on and the lengths she would go to "save the marriage". In Plan A, the lady wanted to deal with the mpango wa kando Mpesa lady i.e "the devil" that was ruining her marriage. But when that did not work out, she embarked on Plan B and decided to deal with the man. Here i see a loving and devoted wife who was greatly betrayed by the husband, a woman who did try to save her marriage but when things didnt work out she said kama mbaya ni mbaya. She couldn't live with the hurt and betrayal. Love makes people do crazy things. Also who knows, maybe the husband may have infected her with some deadly disease. FYI many evil women would hire some thugs to shoot you at the gate, but this one seems to have had "love and compassion" and wanted the husband to suffer as little as possible and thus the drugging plot. This woman needs counselling so that she can heal, she doesn't need hanging or jailing. Thought it was a joke,PHD iko na some damages ..  I suspect hardwood comes to wazua to make arguments for fun. Just like some other fellows come to bring their personal issues here But then again, it could be an issue of too much theorizing. Like this Blaine guy in Chimamanda's book 'Americannah'. He(Blaine) and his friends had a discussion on why many black women in the states are fat. They come to an educated conclusion that it's a form of resistance against racism and assertion of virtues of blackness!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/28/2015 Posts: 9,562 Location: Rodi Kopany, Homa Bay
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Lolest! wrote:Taurrus wrote:hardwood wrote:Bigchick wrote:AlphDoti wrote:After reading this story, I noticed this "wife" had too much freedom to do what she wanted to do anytime she wanted without any question from the late husband. Is this the women liberation you gguys have been agitating for? Why would your wife be driving herself out at night alone to "buy" sth (actually to.see the off the emn) leaving you (man) in the house waiting for chips....!!! I agree.This man sounds like he was sat on.From the story the woman was in charge of the relationship.That is why it is her who picked him to go sleep in her house in Kiambu.It is her who was showing him where a plot was being sold in Witeithie,she went to buy chips instead of cooking a home meal for her husband. That story alludes to a loveless marriage where there was little respect for the man. Evil woman she is,hope she is hanged. This case just reveals the level of hurt a spouse goes through when she is cheated on and the lengths she would go to "save the marriage". In Plan A, the lady wanted to deal with the mpango wa kando Mpesa lady i.e "the devil" that was ruining her marriage. But when that did not work out, she embarked on Plan B and decided to deal with the man. Here i see a loving and devoted wife who was greatly betrayed by the husband, a woman who did try to save her marriage but when things didnt work out she said kama mbaya ni mbaya. She couldn't live with the hurt and betrayal. Love makes people do crazy things. Also who knows, maybe the husband may have infected her with some deadly disease. FYI many evil women would hire some thugs to shoot you at the gate, but this one seems to have had "love and compassion" and wanted the husband to suffer as little as possible and thus the drugging plot. This woman needs counselling so that she can heal, she doesn't need hanging or jailing. Thought it was a joke,PHD iko na some damages .. I suspect hardwood comes to wazua to make arguments for fun. Just like some other fellows come to bring their personal issues here But then again, it could be an issue of too much theorizing. Like this Blaine guy in Chimamanda's book 'Americannah'. He(Blaine) and his friends had a discussion on why many black women in the states are fat. They come to an educated conclusion that it's a form of resistance against racism and assertion of virtues of blackness! Fact is if there was no adultery, everyone would be happy and well. People like to condemn the victims of adultery (and the actions they take after learning of the betrayal) instead of focusing on the culprit who cheated and caused all the manenos. If you rattle a snake, you cant blame the snake for biting back. Also our newspapers are full of stories nearly daily of men who slash others to death when they find them in bed with their wives, with the wives sometimes being slashed too. And yet we never call for the hanging of people who commit those crimes. In such cases society normally says that the cheating spouse and the lover deserved what they got. So why should it be different in this case ya madam principal. She also reacted to extreme provocation and dispatched the cheaters to the next world - at least one is lucky to be alive. Remember too that not so long ago a certain prominent figure is said to have dispatched a guy who was eating his wife to the next world, and yet the guy is still very much respected. We also remember kosewe being shot just the other day. As a society we can't have one set of rules for men who are cheated on and another for women who are cheated on.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/18/2011 Posts: 12,069 Location: Kianjokoma
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I get where you're coming from...sawa
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/30/2008 Posts: 6,029
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Bigchick wrote:AlphDoti wrote:After reading this story, I noticed this "wife" had too much freedom to do what she wanted to do anytime she wanted without any question from the late husband. Is this the women liberation you gguys have been agitating for? Why would your wife be driving herself out at night alone to "buy" sth (actually to.see the off the emn) leaving you (man) in the house waiting for chips....!!! I agree.This man sounds like he was sat on.From the story the woman was in charge of the relationship.That is why it is her who picked him to go sleep in her house in Kiambu.It is her who was showing him where a plot was being sold in Witeithie,she went to buy chips instead of cooking a home meal for her husband. That story alludes to a loveless marriage where there was little respect for the man. Evil woman she is,hope she is hanged. Typical Kiambu women....
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/30/2008 Posts: 6,029
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/30/2008 Posts: 6,029
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/18/2008 Posts: 3,434 Location: Kerugoya
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hardwood wrote:Fact is if there was no adultery, everyone would be happy and well. People like to condemn the victims of adultery (and the actions they take after learning of the betrayal) instead of focusing on the culprit who cheated and caused all the manenos. If you rattle a snake, you cant blame the snake for biting back.
Also our newspapers are full of stories nearly daily of men who slash others to death when they find them in bed with their wives, with the wives sometimes being slashed too. And yet we never call for the hanging of people who commit those crimes. In such cases society normally says that the cheating spouse and the lover deserved what they got. So why should it be different in this case ya madam principal. She also reacted to extreme provocation and dispatched the cheaters to the next world - at least one is lucky to be alive.
Remember too that not so long ago a certain prominent figure is said to have dispatched a guy who was eating his wife to the next world, and yet the guy is still very much respected. We also remember kosewe being shot just the other day.
As a society we can't have one set of rules for men who are cheated on and another for women who are cheated on. Hear, hear.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/18/2008 Posts: 3,434 Location: Kerugoya
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Rank: Elder Joined: 4/30/2008 Posts: 6,029
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/4/2006 Posts: 13,823 Location: Nairobi
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hardwood wrote:
Fact is if there was no adultery, everyone would be happy and well. People like to condemn the victims of adultery (and the actions they take after learning of the betrayal) instead of focusing on the culprit who cheated and caused all the manenos. If you rattle a snake, you cant blame the snake for biting back.
Also our newspapers are full of stories nearly daily of men who slash others to death when they find them in bed with their wives, with the wives sometimes being slashed too. And yet we never call for the hanging of people who commit those crimes. In such cases society normally says that the cheating spouse and the lover deserved what they got. So why should it be different in this case ya madam principal. She also reacted to extreme provocation and dispatched the cheaters to the next world - at least one is lucky to be alive.
Remember too that not so long ago a certain prominent figure is said to have dispatched a guy who was eating his wife to the next world, and yet the guy is still very much respected. We also remember kosewe being shot just the other day.
As a society we can't have one set of rules for men who are cheated on and another for women who are cheated on.
Murder is death with PREMEDITATION. One sat and connived just how to kill a person. The men who slash or beat up to death others especially fall into crimes of passion categories which is manslaughter (to a large extent) but kama umeketi and evaluated which is the most humane way to send people to makueni - murder PAP! All Mushrooms are edible! Some Mushroom are only edible ONCE!
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