Hey guys. Who would you prefer for a wife:

1.) A working lady who is pretty, sexy, financially stable, a fantastic bedroom player, intelligent, career oriented and very ambitious. But is a 50-50 kind of girl in terms of household chores, responsibilities and respect. Does not believe in the husband is the head of the house stuff and stands on women- men equality.

OR

2.) A stay home, submissive kind of woman who will worship the ground her man will walk on. Wants to stay home and raise her kids and devotes all her time to the family. She does not like going out to socialize and will always put her needs and wants second to that of her family. Never questions her Man as she knows he is the BOSS. She will not let the dude lift a single finger in the house (mzee ako na kengele for when he needs something. Wears rubber shoes, long skirts and fungas a kitambaa on her head all day all week.

@smano

hey pwana...hizo extremes...changanya 1 & 2 and you will get a finer product...

I would like to be either of the two, depending with the type of the man.

at least not number one. mimi nataka number 3.

Can I get both?

I promise that they will never meet!

two evils butI choose no 2.It is better to live with a snake than a contenteous woman

Its interesting to see the derogatory and derisive responses to #2 (and may I be so bold as to add "Chauvinistic" and "Jingoistic"?).

Either some posters here have housemaid's for mothers or their mothers are independent, fashionistas...true? Does not #2 also describe yo mamma and yo grandmamma? Get real guys. I have profound respect for my grandma (and she is a Matriach and pushing on to 96 years this year). I also respect my wife's grandma - none of them are househelps.

Anyhow, for those who think a mix of #1 and #2 - you should know its possible - just look in the right places. I'd like to think that I did...I have reasonable domain but also allow great latitude (anyone who attended the last Mbuzi at the Hutch may attest to that).

Anyway, the assertion that #2 represents a certain stereotype is really really very narrow minded and can only come from a certain type of person (pls feel free to ask what type). BTW I have had househelps who were very easy on the eye, with good fashion sense and also common sense....

So, no offence - its not my intention to use a flamethrower but have some respect - househelps are people too!

Neither but a blend of the two is the perfect match!!