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Getting over 1st love
wasee
#1 Posted : Monday, May 03, 2010 7:22:33 AM
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Is it really possible to get over 1st love/crush especially in this era of facebook and sms. One is always tempted to check the other's profile, text once in a while to say hi, forward a mail etc.

What happens when the 1st love/crush re-surfaces and just wants to remain friendsThink
Wendz
#2 Posted : Monday, May 03, 2010 8:09:45 AM
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wasee wrote:

What happens when the 1st love/crush re-surfaces and just wants to remain friendsThink


Depends on how you parted ways..... but generally, run... and dont look back!
famooz
#3 Posted : Monday, May 03, 2010 8:18:06 AM
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@ wasee,

sasa swali hapa ni nini? what happens if X comes and just wants to be JUST friends? Is just that - be friends. unless you want to re-frame your thread,you have the answer.


kadonye
#4 Posted : Monday, May 03, 2010 3:30:52 PM
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This is not an easy 1.a few mths bac i catch up with an old flame after 10yrs.we do quite a bit of catching up thru fb inbox.i learn she's nw married for 6 yrs with 2 kids.later, she finds my no n starts texting.most start innocently then she somehow shifts the topic to a recollection of our old days.At tyms i had 2 plead with her to let me sleep coz she was doin text, after text mpaka past midnite.Run guy run!
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mukhamba!
#5 Posted : Tuesday, May 04, 2010 10:31:37 AM
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These are things that are hard to run away from..especially if the lungula was good...not even first love.even exes..if you can..run
ProverB
#6 Posted : Tuesday, May 04, 2010 12:38:19 PM
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wasee wrote:
Is it really possible to get over 1st love/crush especially in this era of facebook and sms. One is always tempted to check the other's profile, text once in a while to say hi, forward a mail etc.

What happens when the 1st love/crush re-surfaces and just wants to remain friendsThink

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in his wisdom, Zuckerberg ensured a "remove friend" button is available so that you get rid of friends u do not need on face book.. i have been down that road many a times...lessons learnt..scars borne like a victor's helmet..i trudge on.. words that came handy...from wierdest of places.. "Madea goes to Jail"..smilesmile
... and i quote..

"when you get your heart broken...when something you care about is torn from you..that u feel your insides tear apart....don't fear..wounds heal...hearts mend..bruises fade away with time..no matter the hurt..the pain..

..it's ok to sit around, be depressed for a minute, cry about it, do what you have to, but don't stay there too long. get up and go on with your life..
This is what I’ve learned in all these years I’ve been on this earth: if somebody wants to get up and walk out of your life, Let Them Go.... Especially if you know you’ve done everything you could do.
..u’ve sat around and been the best man or the best woman you could ever be, and they still wanna go? Let - Them - Go!!!
Whatever they’re runnin’ after, they’ll see what they had in a minute, but by then it’s gonna be too late. ...’Cause you’ll sit there and you’ll go cause half these ppl you’ve been sittin around cryin about, in 2-3 years from now you won’t even remember their last name!
How many times you seen folk somewhere and you go, “what the hell was I THINKING?! I’ve been there, thought, What was I going through? I must’ve been lonely as hell to hook up with you!!!"Applause Applause
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Magigi
#7 Posted : Wednesday, May 05, 2010 2:20:53 PM
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@Wasee
...and can you imagine they text while their men lie beside them snoring and farting like constipated elephants!!! Life can sometimes be boring. Man, the minute you want to explore what happened down there after the birth of the 2 kids, you are in serious trouble. Besides other problems her husband will find out and your two balls will be gone!!!
wasee
#8 Posted : Thursday, May 06, 2010 6:13:21 AM
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so are you guys saying that if one is sent a polite text, or e-mail to always ignore it. Changing Number might be too re-active. How do i run??????
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