wasee wrote:Is it really possible to get over 1st love/crush especially in this era of facebook and sms. One is always tempted to check the other's profile, text once in a while to say hi, forward a mail etc.
What happens when the 1st love/crush re-surfaces and just wants to remain friends
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in his wisdom, Zuckerberg ensured a "remove friend" button is available so that you get rid of friends u do not need on face book.. i have been down that road many a times...lessons learnt..scars borne like a victor's helmet..i trudge on.. words that came handy...from wierdest of places.. "Madea goes to Jail"..

... and i quote..
"when you get your heart broken...when something you care about is torn from you..that u feel your insides tear apart....don't fear..wounds heal...hearts mend..bruises fade away with time..no matter the hurt..the pain..
..it's ok to sit around, be depressed for a minute, cry about it, do what you have to, but don't stay there too long. get up and go on with your life..
This is what I’ve learned in all these years I’ve been on this earth: if somebody wants to get up and walk out of your life, Let Them Go.... Especially if you know you’ve done everything you could do.
..u’ve sat around and been the best man or the best woman you could ever be, and they still wanna go? Let - Them - Go!!!
Whatever they’re runnin’ after, they’ll see what they had in a minute, but by then it’s gonna be too late. ...’Cause you’ll sit there and you’ll go cause half these ppl you’ve been sittin around cryin about, in 2-3 years from now you won’t even remember their last name!
How many times you seen folk somewhere and you go, “what the hell was I THINKING?! I’ve been there, thought, What was I going through? I must’ve been lonely as hell to hook up with you!!!"
..Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven...Matt5:16
- 1769 Oxford King James Bible 'Authorized Version