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One man show boss-Poor working environment
Grateful
#1 Posted : Tuesday, March 02, 2010 2:34:44 PM
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Why do bosses like harassing their hapless employees? Have you ever worked in a one man show work environment.You will be grateful if at the end of each day like I am now if you dont get a heart ailment.
Bosses/Masters know that there is a Master in Heaven.If you harass your helpless juniors ,the Master will harass you in one way or another.Guy's I'm looking for a Job in finance and administration.My current environment is slowly killing me .Please help .
muganda
#2 Posted : Tuesday, March 02, 2010 2:54:20 PM
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@Grateful pole. Tell us more - define harassing - Is a one man show really the problem?
Grateful
#3 Posted : Wednesday, March 03, 2010 6:15:36 AM
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Harassment :
A boss who is:

1.belittling, petty and loud.Looks for petty mistakes to capitalise on forgetting no man is perfect.
Is very good on threats and intimidation of firing employees on slight mistakes.


2.who condescends to talk to the individuals in their group, but never listens to their input.

3.constantly berates his people.

4.consider themselves better than everyone else and they don't care who knows it.According to them nobody ever does anything good in the company except them.

5.makes 1001 promises and never satisfy them.


muganda
#4 Posted : Wednesday, March 03, 2010 6:40:35 AM
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@Grateful, pole sana.

Being a boss indeed is a position of resonsibility. Hope you'd take a few minutes to read another thread which explains why most bosses are jerks.
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It has nothing to do with one-man show. Even in a large organization, you report to one boss.

Since it's difficult to change him/her, perhaps you should share on qualities that make employees useless. My drift being it's easier to imbibe good qualities that will prepare you for the next job.
atiriri
#5 Posted : Wednesday, March 03, 2010 6:42:48 AM
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@grateful

secret, Learn your boss. Know what he likes and what he does not like. Do exactly what he wants. Dont show him disrespect in one way or another.though there are limits. If he is our brother from the hills, sometimes they like being bossy. Let them be. there is no harm so long as there are boundaries
atiriri
#6 Posted : Wednesday, March 03, 2010 6:49:06 AM
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Even a house help. She will sometimes do the opposite of what you tell her. When you go to work, she brings other maids your house, sell your shopping, does the opposite of what you would like. Such a person utadeal nao aje?
Euge
#7 Posted : Thursday, March 04, 2010 6:29:53 AM
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@ Grateful, while you are still there, be sure to learn how not to be like him/her.
Lord, thank you!
Wakanyugi
#8 Posted : Thursday, March 04, 2010 8:36:44 AM
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I used to have a similar impatient attitude toward such bosses.

Until I read a book by the late Carlos Castaneda on the training of a Mexican Yaqui Magician. Castaneda wrote several books on this and sorry I can not remember the title. But I do remember this: the most difficult test a candidate had to undergo before graduating as a magician was to find the worst kind of boss possible and serve or work for him faithfully and effectively for months (until his teacher said he could leave).

It was a test in humility, patience and wisdom. For the writer it turned out to be an important lesson in self realization. For instance, he ended up overcoming his original prejudices towards his oppressive boss and becoming his friend but he also identified that he had latent victim tendencies in himself that needed to be resolved, which was why he attracted such 'villains' in the first place. He also learned that wisdom is not a one man show - it can come from 'the mouths of babes' and jerks as the good book says.

Nothing in the universe happens for no reason.
"The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth." (Niels Bohr)
nmt
#9 Posted : Wednesday, March 31, 2010 10:25:44 AM
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I don't know why i'm so tempted to believe you WAKANYUGI. i have a really nasty asian boss. Initially i couldn't take it and i was so bitter and repressed. I have now learnt to deal with him by not taking him seriously..yes..i don't hear half the things he says. I am seriously job hunting but one thing i know for sure its life's hardest lessons....working with a man who has absolutely no regard for your opinions!!!!
Grateful
#10 Posted : Wednesday, March 31, 2010 10:31:01 AM
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Thank God now Im getting some good job offers.I Pray I succeed .I feel you @ nmt
Chaka
#11 Posted : Wednesday, March 31, 2010 10:56:12 AM
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@Grateful,
What is you find your next boss to be worse than the current one?
smooth
#12 Posted : Friday, April 09, 2010 7:11:35 PM
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I think it happens once to a person work life . Plan an exit time when it suits you and have the desire to be on your own at one time. i was there once and for me i picked the best of his traits . Aggressive ,shrewd business thoughts . Been a long while since i saw him but we would chat after i left .
se7en
#13 Posted : Thursday, April 22, 2010 2:38:46 PM
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maaan... grateful and nmt I feel you...poleni... I had one such mortal when I just graduated, though the guy above him was also quite intolerable so he bought 48 laws of power(Cant remember the author, but its a blue little book) and read then gave me the book with the I-know-I'm-a-Jerk look and from then we were quite civil to say the least..lol

Godspeed on the job hunt, but learn to cope with these barbaric mortals... most of the time you'll soon find out their bellowing at you is as a result of probo's at home or elsewhere and energy is only transferred, can not be destroyed...and you happen to be the nearest transfer vessel...
speak softly and carry a big stick, you will go far... Theodore Roosevelt
Cardinal
#14 Posted : Thursday, April 22, 2010 2:52:19 PM
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Personally, i have never had an experience but i understand,

You should , hold on, know what you want there and try to play your game smart.At least you are facing the reality, People dont care about your internal worth.

Perseverance is an option, but have a strategy, dont leave the job coz of a harsh boss, provided he pays you, everything else is detail.
leona
#15 Posted : Thursday, April 22, 2010 3:42:35 PM
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Eh,Poleni. I' once worked under a really cruel ladyboss,and i also remember a friend of mine giving me a certain book,got lots of input regarding diligence,patience and emotional intelligence. It was a long way back,and i cant for the life of me remember the book title or the author,but it really helped me cope with that lady coz i was at par with my emotions,my self control and i worked to my level best. When i finally handed in my resignation letter,the lady was really surprised because i always seemed to be the most comfortable of all her employees! Believe you me,she still calls me every so often,we've had lunch twice and she has given me lots of business referals. Strange enough,she told me she knows she's a bit strict with her juniors,but she acts like that to 'harden' them and teach them some of life's hardest lessons. So,@Grateful, Take heart and look for another job polepole tu. If despite the boss your job is satisfying your pocket and opens up oportunities for you(educational and climbing up the ladder),dont be in a rush to leave if the other option doesnt match up to what you currently have. All the best though. Jipe moyo
Nevermind what haters say, ignore them til they fade away - Just live your life
brav
#16 Posted : Friday, April 23, 2010 8:00:05 AM
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I'm going to be frank, after graduating I got a job at DALC if you've ever worked for Oborah, you just know what im talking about. I worked for 3 months (but they seemed like 3 years), but man working days was sunday to sunday from 8am to 8pm, your opinions basically dont count, you'll never be appreciated even in anything you do, then come end month you get paid in parts.
bkismat
#17 Posted : Tuesday, October 23, 2012 10:08:36 AM
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Bill gates as a boss.
Quote:
Management style

Bill Gates in January 2008
From Microsoft's founding in 1975 until 2006, Gates had primary responsibility for the company's product strategy. He aggressively broadened the company's range of products, and wherever Microsoft achieved a dominant position he vigorously defended it. He gained a reputation for being distant to others; as early as 1981 an industry executive complained in public that "Gates is notorious for not being reachable by phone and for not returning phone calls."[44]

As an executive, Gates met regularly with Microsoft's senior managers and program managers. Firsthand accounts of these meetings describe him as verbally combative, berating managers for perceived holes in their business strategies or proposals that placed the company's long-term interests at risk.[45][46]

He often interrupted presentations with such comments as, "That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard!"[47] and, "Why don't you just give up your options and join the Peace Corps?"[48] The target of his outburst then had to defend the proposal in detail until, hopefully, Gates was fully convinced.[47] When subordinates appeared to be procrastinating, he was known to remark sarcastically, "I'll do it over the weekend."[49][50][51]

Gates's role at Microsoft for most of its history was primarily a management and executive role. However, he was an active software developer in the early years, particularly on the company's programming language products. He has not officially been on a development team since working on the TRS-80 Model 100,[52] but wrote code as late as 1989 that shipped in the company's products.[50] On June 15, 2006, Gates announced that he would transition out of his day-to-day role over the next two years to dedicate more time to philanthropy. He divided his responsibilities between two successors, placing Ray Ozzie in charge of day-to-day management and Craig Mundie in charge of long-term product strategy.[53]
It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt...
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D32
#18 Posted : Friday, November 16, 2012 3:51:37 AM
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Found this quote, not sure by who:

"No one ever made himself great by showing how small someone else is"
They tried to bury us, they didn't know we were seeds.
richdad
#19 Posted : Friday, November 16, 2012 11:59:30 AM
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"When you judge people you have no time to love them" M Teresa.

We are in most cases as bad as our bosses. We feel bad that they do not take our opinions coz we are intolerant.
Keep it simple
2012
#20 Posted : Friday, November 16, 2012 2:08:57 PM
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Grateful wrote:
Why do bosses like harassing their hapless employees? Have you ever worked in a one man show work environment.You will be grateful if at the end of each day like I am now if you dont get a heart ailment.
Bosses/Masters know that there is a Master in Heaven.If you harass your helpless juniors ,the Master will harass you in one way or another.Guy's I'm looking for a Job in finance and administration.My current environment is slowly killing me .Please help .


Believe it or not, these kind of bosses never last. Somehow God miraculously moves them out of the way and I'm sure most of you can attest. So hang in there, don't be desperate, do your job to your best and don't try too hard to please him/her (you will never please some people no matter how hard you try, the better you do the more annoyed they get). It's just a matter of time before this person leaves or you move for better.

BBI will solve it
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