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atiriri
#1 Posted : Thursday, March 25, 2010 12:19:57 PM
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Here are eight symptoms of the male midlife crisis

1.life is a bore.

2.Thinking about (or already) having an affair.

3.Suddenly making impetuous decisions about money and career.

4.Dramatic change in personal style or appearance and suddenly spending lots of time in front of a mirror.

5.little interest in spending time (or having sex)with the spouse.

6.Drinking too much or abusing other substances.

7.Displaying classic signs of depression -- sleeping more, loss of appetite, malaise.

8.Overly nostalgic and constantly reminiscing about one's youth or his first love.

How did you or how are you handling it?
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Magigi
#2 Posted : Thursday, March 25, 2010 12:28:25 PM
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...sleeping and waking up in Njoguoini Bar and Restaurant...
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Mel Munyua
#3 Posted : Thursday, March 25, 2010 3:34:40 PM
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looking forward to my midlife crisis, so going to rock!!
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#4 Posted : Thursday, March 25, 2010 4:57:34 PM
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Mid-life crisis? Huyu ni nani?
The Governor of Nyeri - 2017
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kadonye
#5 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 7:49:01 AM
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U forgot 'Denying that u have mid life crisis'.Thats why guka n his agemates r quiet about this important topic
What a wicked man I am!The things I want to do,I don't do.The things I don't want to do I find myself doing
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palto
#6 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 8:27:50 AM
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to my understanding, middle life crisis is when you are supposed to have accomplished something in a given period and when the period is about to end, you look back to what you have accomplished.
if you think you have not accomplished enough, you suffer middle life crisis but if you think you have accomplished enough, well and good.
guys get it when they r about to retire & they havent saved enough for old age.
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Intelligentsia
#7 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 8:42:10 AM
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Life expectancy in Kenya is about 44 years, so mid-life for wazuans kicked in zamani at 22yrs old. Yes, 4 years after you get you qualify ID!
There's comfort in numbers, knowing we are all middle aged.
Unfortunately or otherwise, going by the same token, that would make the 2 principal MPIgs well,er...fossils.
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Wendz
#8 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 10:18:33 AM
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Meaning am on my "second middle age"?? Ngai fafa!
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centerbolt
#9 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 11:06:42 AM
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this topic is depressing!!!!!
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callaspade
#10 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 11:11:39 AM
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d'oh! am in the middle of life and crisis.
.....crisis are just ending and life begins now !!
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gogeta
#11 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 2:22:56 PM
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Someone once told me that when you get to 40 and you are not yet wealthy...not rich....then chances are that you wil never be. may be this is one thing that troubles us when we get there.
Think the unthinkable but wear a dark suit
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Fundaah
#12 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 2:40:05 PM
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gogeta wrote:
Someone once told me that when you get to 40 and you are not yet wealthy...not rich....then chances are that you wil never be. may be this is one thing that troubles us when we get there.


Being rich is not a ticket to heaven ...did you know that 13 billionares listed in 2008 forbes magazine died last year ? all the billions could not save their lives
Isaiah 65:17-Look! I am creating new heavens and a new earth, and no one will even think about the old ones anymore
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Magigi
#13 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 2:50:24 PM
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...Gogeta
True. Read something somewhere like this. ...if you are 40 and you have not made your first million, stop trying. Some men (women) were made to serve...
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gogeta
#14 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 3:28:48 PM
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@Fundaa notice my emphasis on the wealthy part. Wealth is all rounded its not about how much money you have in the bank.
Think the unthinkable but wear a dark suit
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Intelligentsia
#15 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 4:13:29 PM
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@gogeta - tru dat considering you could be a zimbabwean billionaire...
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mlefu
#16 Posted : Friday, March 26, 2010 5:15:17 PM
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had read..."how did you cope with midwife crisis"Laughing out loudly
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annsal
#17 Posted : Saturday, March 27, 2010 9:36:31 AM
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just a thought, is midlife crisis only for men,do women experience the same or them they only undergo menopause?
God loves a Trier!
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JkMwatha
#18 Posted : Saturday, March 27, 2010 4:15:46 PM
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atiriri wrote:

Here are eight symptoms of the male midlife crisis

1....

2.Thinking about (or already) having an affair.

3....



point 2. is not a symptom of midlife crisis.... it's usually part of your relationship/marriage ...
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atiriri
#19 Posted : Monday, March 29, 2010 6:10:56 AM
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In women it is called menopause which starts at around 45. Someone once told me that there are many divorce cases in court, because people are not aware when they suffer from it. The spouse keeps on blaming the other for one thing or another.
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atiriri
#20 Posted : Monday, March 29, 2010 6:11:42 AM
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When your spouse is making choices that have a negative affect on your life and your children’s lives what do you do in such a case?
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