the sooner everybody agrees that it is hardwired into the male psych to be polygamous the better it will be for everybody.

Be careful, very careful, abt painting with broad strokes...some men (now > 50s) have tee'd away matches for long and have never been busted. The obvious clear ones we know are the reported media cases when mamacitas start crawling out of the woodwork shortly after the grand old zak is dead (70s plus yrs) and they suddenly discover haiya, kumbe we were all eating and sharing from the same plate! In some cases it is 2-3 families with kids sharing similar names... .Are these amateurs? All too common, men are stereotyped as bumbling mafalas when it comes to prowess is tee'ing away matches undetected and raising or being left with kids singlehandedly (hence the popularity of such movies as Baby's Day Out, 2 Men and A Baby, etc which further reinforce that stereotype). That bachelors throw their socks anywhere, have dirty pads... increasingly not so. Then again its to men's advantage if the lasses believe we are so... @bkismat - very true, hapo umed*nya point, pewa Tusker Blackcurrant mbili!

Overheard....there are 3 qualities in women that each man needs in his life: 1) Gentle, caring woman able to take care of your visitors/friends/relatives comfortably, 2) An intelligent lady, in good shape, fit, with a well-developed fashion sense 3) A whore in the bedroom It is impt. these 3 women never meet.

Intelligentsia polygamy happened when man got tired of trying to keep his different ladies secret from each other.

It's amazing how women try to come up with explanations for our cheating and fail to see the obvious! You just can't fight nature!!