Yet again, the cultures are fighting. The African culuture accepts polygamy as it is prctical and feasible in Africa. It is absurd for a person from the western culture to judge us. There is no culture that is better or more advanced than another.
In Africa, the set up is more about social responsibility than about financial gain. Women get married to acquire status and security and not financial gain. The culture allowed them to have their economic activity and so even if you married 5, they only needed your name and probably a piece of land or some goats to tend. By name, I mean a family to grow in and live in. There is therefore nothing wrong in polygamy in this seting.
In Europe, the setting is very different with women getting married for the feelings and whetever else. They then want to be in control of their men and not want anyone else there. In such cases, since the ladies have learnt to shoot without missing, the men have learnt to fly without perching. They have what they call serial monogamy.
However, let every man choose what he wants and live openly about it. Do not condemn another man or woman nor judge them by your own standards. They too have aright to be here!
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