ACHANA NA MABWANA ZA WENYEWE .He is not your..you ve been watching to much 'storm over paradises'.Do you know that now you are a mpango wa kando? 'MABIBI WACHENI MPANGO WA KANDO'.AIDS KILLS.Im suprised you are not afraid of aids.Mara mtoto hapa , Mtoto pale .NOOO

That sounds like a soap. Apart from that, i dont think it is really a big problem. It is only a big problem if it is bigger than what you can solve on your own..... You only need to stop seeing your ex and give a chance to your husband. You cheated on each other, now do you really think you can trust this ex of yours again? do you think he can trust you? He is only enjoying the game before he is caught by the wife.... may be the thrill of nearly getting caught.... May be the reason why you are not able to "love" your husband is because you are still seeing your ex and your emotional needs are being satisfied there hence you feel you do not need your husband.

Ok, if he introduces you to his parents, then? you gonna leave your husband? Where is your husband when you are with your ex for loooooong hours at night? i think you are the one being selfish here.

Men have vasectomies. Get the women version.

I believe all you ever wanted, what you really want, is to be with your first lover. Ask him to leave everybody else and call you into his life, permanently.

My penny thoughts.

You are the only one who knows what you want.If you want to divorce your husband to go to this rogue ,It's all upon you.Or do you want us to tell you to get married to the two men.This story is too fictitious ,Cant be true.I see a hand in someone trying to bring life to Fridays.

so what is so hard here? just leave the guy you cant love back and see if the married ex(that you cheated on) will leave his family for you.baff.

Pthow!! U frigging remind me of ma ex! Kindly go jump off a plane b$%$*€!

Guys thank for your suggestion. I am a counselor and this is my toughest situation in my 6 years experience. I do not know what to tell this gal. She seems much in love with the Ex and also i judged that the ex must also be in love coz i am wondering where on earth can u get a man who clings to a woman after she has done all those dirty things??? And he s well aware of it??? Also wants to take the relationship to a higher notch by taken her to the wife and parents. This s absurd. I felt like changing my profession.