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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/22/2009 Posts: 7,452
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ecstacy wrote:kysse wrote:After 10 yrs;
Seen and heard at the Salvation Healing Ministries.
#Master Writer Master Writer,husband Writer halleluhya#
 Mbegu ya 310/= plus 5,777 pap!!! Ku sumarisa, ku samarisa... Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 9/7/2010 Posts: 1,063 Location: Kenya
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MaichBlack wrote:ecstacy wrote:MaichBlack wrote:ecstacy wrote:kyt wrote:She is just trying to earn a living, a girl has to earn you know? Rich or poor, stoking controversy has become the new way to become a 'celeb' in Kenya. And you guys are giving her too much air time!!! You guys ni akina nani? You'd be surprised how pervasive these attitudes have become amongst the younger generation women. She just said what others can't tell the Kenyan lads to their face. I'm a Nairobian and I meet these "younger generation women" every day and I can tell you the dynamics have changed in favour of men (who are interested). These "younger generation women" with jobs, their own money and a proper education have become the hunters. When you talk about "these attitudes" am a bit lost. But let us not even go there. It might become a non - ending discussion. Kwanza those 25+ years will start talking marriage on the second date! ...But the description about that age bracket of men is true. You sometime wonder whether they have any purpose in life at all.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/22/2009 Posts: 7,452
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Reminds me of this....
What am I doing wrong? Okay, I'm tired of beating around the bush. I'm a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I'm articulate and classy. I'm not from New York. I'm looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million (dollars) a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don't think I'm overreaching at all. Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Any wives? Could you send me some tips? I dated a business man who makes average around 200 - 250. But that's where I seem to hit a roadblock. 250,000 won't get me to central park west. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she's not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. So what is she doing right? How do I get to her level? Here are my questions specifically: - Where do you single rich men hang out? Give me specifics — bars, restaurants, gyms - What are you looking for in a mate? Be honest guys, you won't hurt my feelings - Is there an age range I should be targeting (I'm 25)? - Why are some of the women living lavish lifestyles on the upper east side so plain? I've seen really 'plain jane' boring types who have nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. I've seen drop dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. What's the story there? - Jobs I should look out for? Everyone knows - lawyer, investment banker, doctor. How much do those guys really make? And where do they hang out? Where do the hedge fund guys hang out? - How you decide marriage vs. just a girlfriend? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLY Please hold your insults — I'm putting myself out there in an honest way. Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I'm being up front about it. I wouldn't be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn't able to match them — in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth.
The Reply
I read your posting with great interest and have thought meaningfully about your dilemma. I offer the following analysis of your predicament. Firstly, I'm not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your bill; that is I make more than $500K per year. That said here's how I see it. Your offer, from the prospective of a guy like me, is plain and simple a crappy business deal. Here's why. Cutting through all the B.S., what you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. Fine, simple. But here's the rub, your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity...in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won't be getting any more beautiful! So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset. Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! Let me explain, you're 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you! So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading position, not a buy and hold...hence the rub...marriage. It doesn't make good business sense to "buy you" (which is what you're asking) so I'd rather lease. In case you think I'm being cruel, I would say the following. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. It's as simple as that. So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage. Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets. So, I wonder why a girl as "articulate, classy and spectacularly beautiful" as you has been unable to find your sugar daddy. I find it hard to believe that if you are as gorgeous as you say you are that the $500K hasn't found you, if not only for a tryout. By the way, you could always find a way to make your own money and then we wouldn't need to have this difficult conversation. With all that said, I must say you're going about it the right way. Classic "pump and dump." I hope this is helpful, and if you want to enter into some sort of lease, let me know. Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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ecstacy wrote:[b]
GUYS I SHOULD DATE
I am a few weeks shy of 25 years, "[/i] I read up to this part..... and I moved on quickly to the comments. If you took this seriously, then there is something seriously wrong with YOU. How do you take the write up seriously after reading that? The only problem is, some silly girl somewhere will think that this is the in thing, that the writer actually means what she says and she will quickly dump the young poorer boyfriend for the old married and richer man. What this silly girl fails to see beyond her nose is that this older richer man was once her boyfriend's age behaving and doing the same things that the young man is doing.... He was never born mature, responsible whatever....
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 9/7/2010 Posts: 1,063 Location: Kenya
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Wendz wrote:ecstacy wrote:[b]
GUYS I SHOULD DATE
I am a few weeks shy of 25 years, "[/i] I read up to this part..... and I moved on quickly to the comments. If you took this seriously, then there is something seriously wrong with YOU. How do you take the write up seriously after reading that? The only problem is, some silly girl somewhere will think that this is the in thing, that the writer actually means what she says and she will quickly dump the young poorer boyfriend for the old married and richer man. What this silly girl fails to see beyond her nose is that this older richer man was once her boyfriend's age behaving and doing the same things that the young man is doing.... He was never born mature, responsible whatever.... Ahahahahaha...when i was a teacher, one of my colleagues was a very good storyteller and over lunch time he would crack our ribs with his stories. One day a teacher noticed he was telling a lie. And this was his reply..."hizo story za ukweli za kuwaambia kila siku zitatoka wapi? A girl has to churn out an article every week...and put food on the table and pay varsity fees.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 7/22/2009 Posts: 7,452
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Atalaku wrote:Wendz wrote:ecstacy wrote:
GUYS I SHOULD DATE
I am a few weeks shy of 25 years, "[/i]
I read up to this part..... and I moved on quickly to the comments. If you took this seriously, then there is something seriously wrong with YOU. How do you take the write up seriously after reading that? The only problem is, some silly girl somewhere will think that this is the in thing, that the writer actually means what she says and she will quickly dump the young poorer boyfriend for the old married and richer man. What this silly girl fails to see beyond her nose is that this older richer man was once her boyfriend's age behaving and doing the same things that the young man is doing.... He was never born mature, responsible whatever.... Ahahahahaha...when i was a teacher, one of my colleagues was a very good storyteller and over lunch time he would crack our ribs with his stories. One day a teacher noticed he was telling a lie. And this was his reply..." [b]hizo story za ukweli za kuwaambia kila siku zitatoka wapi? A girl has to churn out an article every week...and put food on the table and pay varsity fees. Never count on making a good sale. Have the purchase price be so attractive that even a mediocre sale gives good returns.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/23/2009 Posts: 2,375
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MaichBlack wrote:Atalaku wrote:Wendz wrote:ecstacy wrote:
GUYS I SHOULD DATE
I am a few weeks shy of 25 years, "[/i]
I read up to this part..... and I moved on quickly to the comments. If you took this seriously, then there is something seriously wrong with YOU. How do you take the write up seriously after reading that? The only problem is, some silly girl somewhere will think that this is the in thing, that the writer actually means what she says and she will quickly dump the young poorer boyfriend for the old married and richer man. What this silly girl fails to see beyond her nose is that this older richer man was once her boyfriend's age behaving and doing the same things that the young man is doing.... He was never born mature, responsible whatever.... Ahahahahaha...when i was a teacher, one of my colleagues was a very good storyteller and over lunch time he would crack our ribs with his stories. One day a teacher noticed he was telling a lie. And this was his reply..." [b]hizo story za ukweli za kuwaambia kila siku zitatoka wapi? A girl has to churn out an article every week...and put food on the table and pay varsity fees. Very true. Never spoil a good story with the truth. It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt...
-Mark Twain
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 10/9/2006 Posts: 1,502
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Atalaku wrote:Wendz wrote:ecstacy wrote:[b]
GUYS I SHOULD DATE
I am a few weeks shy of 25 years, "[/i] I read up to this part..... and I moved on quickly to the comments. If you took this seriously, then there is something seriously wrong with YOU. How do you take the write up seriously after reading that? The only problem is, some silly girl somewhere will think that this is the in thing, that the writer actually means what she says and she will quickly dump the young poorer boyfriend for the old married and richer man. What this silly girl fails to see beyond her nose is that this older richer man was once her boyfriend's age behaving and doing the same things that the young man is doing.... He was never born mature, responsible whatever.... Ahahahahaha...when i was a teacher, one of my colleagues was a very good storyteller and over lunch time he would crack our ribs with his stories. One day a teacher noticed he was telling a lie. And this was his reply..."hizo story za ukweli za kuwaambia kila siku zitatoka wapi? A girl has to churn out an article every week...and put food on the table and pay varsity fees. You crack my ribs. work to prosper
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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Rank: Chief Joined: 5/9/2007 Posts: 13,095
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Kama kweli ndiye Huyu, 
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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washiku wrote:Kama kweli ndiye Huyu, is that kanyari?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2008 Posts: 4,449
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Wendz wrote:ecstacy wrote:
GUYS I SHOULD DATE
I am a few weeks shy of 25 years, "[/i]
[b]I read up to this part..... and I moved on quickly to the comments. If you took this seriously, then there is something seriously wrong with YOU. How do you take the write up seriously after reading that? The only problem is, some silly girl somewhere will think that this is the in thing, that the writer actually means what she says and she will quickly dump the young poorer boyfriend for the old married and richer man. What this silly girl fails to see beyond her nose is that this older richer man was once her boyfriend's age behaving and doing the same things that the young man is doing.... He was never born mature, responsible whatever.... You miss the point by a mile. Drop the assumptions and indulge the mind..
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Rank: Member Joined: 4/26/2011 Posts: 759
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MaichBlack wrote:Reminds me of this....
What am I doing wrong?
Okay, I'm tired of beating around the bush. I'm a beautiful (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I'm articulate and classy. I'm not from New York. I'm looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million (dollars) a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don't think I'm overreaching at all.
Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Any wives? Could you send me some tips? I dated a business man who makes average around 200 - 250. But that's where I seem to hit a roadblock. 250,000 won't get me to central park west. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she's not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. So what is she doing right? How do I get to her level?
Here are my questions specifically:
- Where do you single rich men hang out? Give me specifics — bars, restaurants, gyms
- What are you looking for in a mate? Be honest guys, you won't hurt my feelings
- Is there an age range I should be targeting (I'm 25)?
- Why are some of the women living lavish lifestyles on the upper east side so plain? I've seen really 'plain jane' boring types who have nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. I've seen drop dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. What's the story there?
- Jobs I should look out for? Everyone knows - lawyer, investment banker, doctor. How much do those guys really make? And where do they hang out? Where do the hedge fund guys hang out?
- How you decide marriage vs. just a girlfriend? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLY
Please hold your insults — I'm putting myself out there in an honest way. Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I'm being up front about it. I wouldn't be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn't able to match them — in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth.
The Reply
I read your posting with great interest and have thought meaningfully about your dilemma. I offer the following analysis of your predicament. Firstly, I'm not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your bill; that is I make more than $500K per year. That said here's how I see it.
Your offer, from the prospective of a guy like me, is plain and simple a crappy business deal. Here's why. Cutting through all the B.S., what you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the party and I bring my money. Fine, simple. But here's the rub, your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity...in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won't be getting any more beautiful!
So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset. Not only are you a depreciating asset, your depreciation accelerates! Let me explain, you're 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you!
So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading position, not a buy and hold...hence the rub...marriage. It doesn't make good business sense to "buy you" (which is what you're asking) so I'd rather lease. In case you think I'm being cruel, I would say the following. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. It's as simple as that. So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage.
Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets. So, I wonder why a girl as "articulate, classy and spectacularly beautiful"
as you has been unable to find your sugar daddy. I find it hard to believe that if you are as gorgeous as you say you are that the $500K hasn't found you, if not only for a tryout.
By the way, you could always find a way to make your own money and then we wouldn't need to have this difficult conversation.
With all that said, I must say you're going about it the right way. Classic "pump and dump." I hope this is helpful, and if you want to enter into some sort of
lease, let me know. Best answer ever!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 9/23/2009 Posts: 8,083 Location: Enk are Nyirobi
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Atalaku wrote:MaichBlack wrote:ecstacy wrote:MaichBlack wrote:ecstacy wrote:kyt wrote:She is just trying to earn a living, a girl has to earn you know? Rich or poor, stoking controversy has become the new way to become a 'celeb' in Kenya. And you guys are giving her too much air time!!! You guys ni akina nani? You'd be surprised how pervasive these attitudes have become amongst the younger generation women. She just said what others can't tell the Kenyan lads to their face. I'm a Nairobian and I meet these "younger generation women" every day and I can tell you the dynamics have changed in favour of men (who are interested). These "younger generation women" with jobs, their own money and a proper education have become the hunters. When you talk about "these attitudes" am a bit lost. But let us not even go there. It might become a non - ending discussion. Kwanza those 25+ years will start talking marriage on the second date! ...But the description about that age bracket of men is true. You sometime wonder whether they have any purpose in life at all. Why she turns 35 she will be writing about 24 year old boys and how they are spontaneous, energetic and so on. Ngoja tu. Life is short. Live passionately.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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You people are just hating for the sake of hating; I think the art is on point! ! Why would a right thinking girl waste her time with a man who thinks that impressing a woman is through buying rounds and rounds of drinks for your pals, wasting your money tto naxvegas and masaku sevens? TThere are better and cheaper ways to treat a woman and spend quality time together to the a point of a woman not forgetting you! But again let the lads enjoy themselves, when I was in that age bracket and stupid, I amassed credit and loans amounting to 2M. its a good painful learning experience! If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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ecstacy wrote:kyt wrote:She is just trying to earn a living, a girl has to earn you know? Rich or poor, stoking controversy has become the new way to become a 'celeb' in Kenya. ditto and anywhere else in the world
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Rank: New-farer Joined: 5/3/2019 Posts: 17
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ecstacy wrote:"Why I’m not dating & won’t tie the knot soon" -Njoki CI can see Njoki Chege has made #KOT catch feelings kibao [i]"The last one week, I reconnected with two male friends I had not seen for ages. The lingering question was ‘So are you dating?” Or ‘Iko kajamaa kamekufurahisha?” (Is there a young man that has impressed you?). I am not dating anyone right now, I tell them as I hastily move on to the next topic before they demand answers. Even my mother, who for as long as I can remember always told me how ‘boys are bad’, is now asking if I am bringing a ‘friend’ this Christmas. Sorry mom, I will be flying solo this Christmas, and the next one too. I sigh every time a well-meaning person asks me why I am not dating. Mostly, the answers I give skirt around ‘I am too busy with work and school,” or ‘Jesus is the only man in my life’. Okay, maybe the second answer is a lie, there are quite a number of them but that is not the story here. The real answer, ladies and gentlemen, is because there is simply no men my age to date. GUYS I SHOULD DATE I am a few weeks shy of 25 years, which means that the guys I should date should be aged around 28-30 years. Maybe 33 years if I am to stretch it. But the unfortunate thing I have come to realise is that the young men I am supposed to date are far from being men. They are boys. Tall boys with blue Subaru Imprezzas who drink cheap liquor on weekday nights and show up to their workplaces the next morning hangovered, smelling like a brewery. Now, I lead quite a busy life. Actually, my life is busier than a brothel in a sailor town. (Hahaha, wrong example). I am either at work or at school or sleeping off the fatigue on weekends. My nights are late, either working or studying. Or maybe binge watching episodes of Scandal and Covert Affairs. This means I am a rare woman to pin down. Which also means that I give you an hour of my time from my busy schedule, then you must have really impressed me. I am not wasting any more time with this i-Phone wielding 29-year-old jamaaz whose only goal in life is to catch a few drinks at that goddamn strip club on Baricho Road that has very few millionaires.I cannot have a coherent, meaningful conversation with these young Instagram braggats who feel the need to take photos of every bottle of cheap lager they imbibe. I am way beyond them and their intelligence levels are nowhere near half of mine. We are on different wavelengths. you know, I guess that age is not a obstacle. Really, you're free to date even a man of 50 y.o. if he will be in good physical condition. For example, I'm a man of 27 y.o. and I'm not shy to say that I'm dating a woman of 35 y.o, because she is so lovely, gorgeous and simply attractive person. She knows a lot, and I'm thankful to Qeep dating app about which you can read Qeep App Review where I met my present girlfriend, and you know, I'm happy with her and due to the fact, that that dating app found a match in our profiles and offered us to get acquainted :)
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