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Swenani wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Tebes wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Been quiet about this issue, let me say mine.
You see these ladies are not telling us why they were left. Why are we seeing men being forced to accept women? Yes, they are coming out on Internet... But we're only hearing one sided story. If it were possible to listen to man's story, we'd see where she made mistake.
You see God created male and female. It's not people who force people to live together. It's God who does. And God created the desire between the hearts, and He forbid woman from seeing any other man in whole world other than the ONE husband! And he only allowed the man to see upto 4 if he can afford, and no other woman is he allowed to look outside the 1 or 2 or 3 or 4! Those who go against the intention of God, namely attacking animals, or vaceline etc.
This is how we can have people live each other and avoid dead-beating. Those who protect their private parts other than from their wives/husbands! When the urge comes, it should be done within the boundaries of marriage. @ Alphadoti haha vaceline brings some memories of another member here but on another note; How was it determined that 4 and not any other number was adequate to satisfy a man??? What of solomon who had 300 wives??? Again supposing all men decide to give in, by marrying 4 women each; what happens to the remaining bachelors? they marry who since the male:female population hardly goes beyond 47-53% variance? finally, Are muslim women allowed to divorce and remarry? any permitted grounds? If they have children? I don't want this to be religious. 1. Nowhere does Islam say 4 wives is the best. But Islam gives permission. But it puts a max limit of 4. For your information, only 2% of all Muslim men in the world have more than one wife, 98% have only one. 2. Not everyone can marry, leave alone marrying 4! The women are so many my friend, let me give you stats. In America alone there are 7.8 milion female more than male. In UK there are 4 milion female more than male. In germany there are 5 milion female more than male. In Russia there are 9 milion female more than male. God alone knows how many female more than male in the world! So you realize that Some men don't even want, some is satisfied with one, some are not satisfied with one, these later ones should marry more according to their capability physically, time and financially. 3. Women are allowed to remarry after 4 months 10 days (don't ask me why if your intention is to argue). I agree with you, women are many taking into consideration the ever increasing men who are gays @swenani, you're right. In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!! More women will not get husbands because of that, on top of the 7.8 million! Also, their prison population is 98% male!!! More women won't get husbands because the dudes are in prison. It is a compounding problem!  
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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But @swenani even if you happen to have so much testosterone boiling in your blood, don't resort to sleeping around with mistresses or prostitutes or single mums or school girls. You will be lying to yourself. And you will be lying to your wife  I advised you once to think of marrying more than one woman and be faithful and responsible for all of them. But it does not mean everybody must have more women. Many don't want more women. As I told you, Muslims have the permission, but worldly statistics say 98% Muslim men have only one wife. But this is a solution to those who may want, and also a solution to excess women.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,328 Location: Masada
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AlphDoti wrote:Swenani wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Tebes wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Been quiet about this issue, let me say mine.
You see these ladies are not telling us why they were left. Why are we seeing men being forced to accept women? Yes, they are coming out on Internet... But we're only hearing one sided story. If it were possible to listen to man's story, we'd see where she made mistake.
You see God created male and female. It's not people who force people to live together. It's God who does. And God created the desire between the hearts, and He forbid woman from seeing any other man in whole world other than the ONE husband! And he only allowed the man to see upto 4 if he can afford, and no other woman is he allowed to look outside the 1 or 2 or 3 or 4! Those who go against the intention of God, namely attacking animals, or vaceline etc.
This is how we can have people live each other and avoid dead-beating. Those who protect their private parts other than from their wives/husbands! When the urge comes, it should be done within the boundaries of marriage. @ Alphadoti haha vaceline brings some memories of another member here but on another note; How was it determined that 4 and not any other number was adequate to satisfy a man??? What of solomon who had 300 wives??? Again supposing all men decide to give in, by marrying 4 women each; what happens to the remaining bachelors? they marry who since the male:female population hardly goes beyond 47-53% variance? finally, Are muslim women allowed to divorce and remarry? any permitted grounds? If they have children? I don't want this to be religious. 1. Nowhere does Islam say 4 wives is the best. But Islam gives permission. But it puts a max limit of 4. For your information, only 2% of all Muslim men in the world have more than one wife, 98% have only one. 2. Not everyone can marry, leave alone marrying 4! The women are so many my friend, let me give you stats. In America alone there are 7.8 milion female more than male. In UK there are 4 milion female more than male. In germany there are 5 milion female more than male. In Russia there are 9 milion female more than male. God alone knows how many female more than male in the world! So you realize that Some men don't even want, some is satisfied with one, some are not satisfied with one, these later ones should marry more according to their capability physically, time and financially. 3. Women are allowed to remarry after 4 months 10 days (don't ask me why if your intention is to argue). I agree with you, women are many taking into consideration the ever increasing men who are gays @swenani, you're right. In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!! More women will not get husbands because of that, on top of the 7.8 million! Also, their prison population is 98% male!!! More women won't get husbands because the dudes are in prison. It is a compounding problem! On that account I wish I was an American at this age of mine!  Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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AlphDoti wrote:Swenani wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Tebes wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Been quiet about this issue, let me say mine.
You see these ladies are not telling us why they were left. Why are we seeing men being forced to accept women? Yes, they are coming out on Internet... But we're only hearing one sided story. If it were possible to listen to man's story, we'd see where she made mistake.
You see God created male and female. It's not people who force people to live together. It's God who does. And God created the desire between the hearts, and He forbid woman from seeing any other man in whole world other than the ONE husband! And he only allowed the man to see upto 4 if he can afford, and no other woman is he allowed to look outside the 1 or 2 or 3 or 4! Those who go against the intention of God, namely attacking animals, or vaceline etc.
This is how we can have people live each other and avoid dead-beating. Those who protect their private parts other than from their wives/husbands! When the urge comes, it should be done within the boundaries of marriage. @ Alphadoti haha vaceline brings some memories of another member here but on another note; How was it determined that 4 and not any other number was adequate to satisfy a man??? What of solomon who had 300 wives??? Again supposing all men decide to give in, by marrying 4 women each; what happens to the remaining bachelors? they marry who since the male:female population hardly goes beyond 47-53% variance? finally, Are muslim women allowed to divorce and remarry? any permitted grounds? If they have children? I don't want this to be religious. 1. Nowhere does Islam say 4 wives is the best. But Islam gives permission. But it puts a max limit of 4. For your information, only 2% of all Muslim men in the world have more than one wife, 98% have only one. 2. Not everyone can marry, leave alone marrying 4! The women are so many my friend, let me give you stats. In America alone there are 7.8 milion female more than male. In UK there are 4 milion female more than male. In germany there are 5 milion female more than male. In Russia there are 9 milion female more than male. God alone knows how many female more than male in the world! So you realize that Some men don't even want, some is satisfied with one, some are not satisfied with one, these later ones should marry more according to their capability physically, time and financially. 3. Women are allowed to remarry after 4 months 10 days (don't ask me why if your intention is to argue). I agree with you, women are many taking into consideration the ever increasing men who are gays @swenani, you're right. In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!! More women will not get husbands because of that, on top of the 7.8 million! Also, their prison population is 98% male!!! More women won't get husbands because the dudes are in prison. It is a compounding problem! Please put a link to the research that has been used to arrive at the finding that "In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!!" failure to which uwache pang'ang'a.
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Impunity wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Swenani wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Tebes wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Been quiet about this issue, let me say mine.
You see these ladies are not telling us why they were left. Why are we seeing men being forced to accept women? Yes, they are coming out on Internet... But we're only hearing one sided story. If it were possible to listen to man's story, we'd see where she made mistake.
You see God created male and female. It's not people who force people to live together. It's God who does. And God created the desire between the hearts, and He forbid woman from seeing any other man in whole world other than the ONE husband! And he only allowed the man to see upto 4 if he can afford, and no other woman is he allowed to look outside the 1 or 2 or 3 or 4! Those who go against the intention of God, namely attacking animals, or vaceline etc.
This is how we can have people live each other and avoid dead-beating. Those who protect their private parts other than from their wives/husbands! When the urge comes, it should be done within the boundaries of marriage. @ Alphadoti haha vaceline brings some memories of another member here but on another note; How was it determined that 4 and not any other number was adequate to satisfy a man??? What of solomon who had 300 wives??? Again supposing all men decide to give in, by marrying 4 women each; what happens to the remaining bachelors? they marry who since the male:female population hardly goes beyond 47-53% variance? finally, Are muslim women allowed to divorce and remarry? any permitted grounds? If they have children? I don't want this to be religious. 1. Nowhere does Islam say 4 wives is the best. But Islam gives permission. But it puts a max limit of 4. For your information, only 2% of all Muslim men in the world have more than one wife, 98% have only one. 2. Not everyone can marry, leave alone marrying 4! The women are so many my friend, let me give you stats. In America alone there are 7.8 milion female more than male. In UK there are 4 milion female more than male. In germany there are 5 milion female more than male. In Russia there are 9 milion female more than male. God alone knows how many female more than male in the world! So you realize that Some men don't even want, some is satisfied with one, some are not satisfied with one, these later ones should marry more according to their capability physically, time and financially. 3. Women are allowed to remarry after 4 months 10 days (don't ask me why if your intention is to argue). I agree with you, women are many taking into consideration the ever increasing men who are gays @swenani, you're right. In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!! More women will not get husbands because of that, on top of the 7.8 million! Also, their prison population is 98% male!!! More women won't get husbands because the dudes are in prison. It is a compounding problem! On that account I wish I was an American at this age of mine! Would you want to be a male american in prison or a gay american? If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2009 Posts: 26,328 Location: Masada
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Swenani wrote:Impunity wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Swenani wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Tebes wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Been quiet about this issue, let me say mine.
You see these ladies are not telling us why they were left. Why are we seeing men being forced to accept women? Yes, they are coming out on Internet... But we're only hearing one sided story. If it were possible to listen to man's story, we'd see where she made mistake.
You see God created male and female. It's not people who force people to live together. It's God who does. And God created the desire between the hearts, and He forbid woman from seeing any other man in whole world other than the ONE husband! And he only allowed the man to see upto 4 if he can afford, and no other woman is he allowed to look outside the 1 or 2 or 3 or 4! Those who go against the intention of God, namely attacking animals, or vaceline etc.
This is how we can have people live each other and avoid dead-beating. Those who protect their private parts other than from their wives/husbands! When the urge comes, it should be done within the boundaries of marriage. @ Alphadoti haha vaceline brings some memories of another member here but on another note; How was it determined that 4 and not any other number was adequate to satisfy a man??? What of solomon who had 300 wives??? Again supposing all men decide to give in, by marrying 4 women each; what happens to the remaining bachelors? they marry who since the male:female population hardly goes beyond 47-53% variance? finally, Are muslim women allowed to divorce and remarry? any permitted grounds? If they have children? I don't want this to be religious. 1. Nowhere does Islam say 4 wives is the best. But Islam gives permission. But it puts a max limit of 4. For your information, only 2% of all Muslim men in the world have more than one wife, 98% have only one. 2. Not everyone can marry, leave alone marrying 4! The women are so many my friend, let me give you stats. In America alone there are 7.8 milion female more than male. In UK there are 4 milion female more than male. In germany there are 5 milion female more than male. In Russia there are 9 milion female more than male. God alone knows how many female more than male in the world! So you realize that Some men don't even want, some is satisfied with one, some are not satisfied with one, these later ones should marry more according to their capability physically, time and financially. 3. Women are allowed to remarry after 4 months 10 days (don't ask me why if your intention is to argue). I agree with you, women are many taking into consideration the ever increasing men who are gays @swenani, you're right. In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!! More women will not get husbands because of that, on top of the 7.8 million! Also, their prison population is 98% male!!! More women won't get husbands because the dudes are in prison. It is a compounding problem! On that account I wish I was an American at this age of mine! Would you want to be a male american in prison or a gay american? OBVIOUS, THE FREE N' STRAIGHT AMERICAN!  Portfolio: Sold
You know you've made it when you get a parking space for your yatcht.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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ecstacy wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Swenani wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Tebes wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Been quiet about this issue, let me say mine.
You see these ladies are not telling us why they were left. Why are we seeing men being forced to accept women? Yes, they are coming out on Internet... But we're only hearing one sided story. If it were possible to listen to man's story, we'd see where she made mistake.
You see God created male and female. It's not people who force people to live together. It's God who does. And God created the desire between the hearts, and He forbid woman from seeing any other man in whole world other than the ONE husband! And he only allowed the man to see upto 4 if he can afford, and no other woman is he allowed to look outside the 1 or 2 or 3 or 4! Those who go against the intention of God, namely attacking animals, or vaceline etc.
This is how we can have people live each other and avoid dead-beating. Those who protect their private parts other than from their wives/husbands! When the urge comes, it should be done within the boundaries of marriage. @ Alphadoti haha vaceline brings some memories of another member here but on another note; How was it determined that 4 and not any other number was adequate to satisfy a man??? What of solomon who had 300 wives??? Again supposing all men decide to give in, by marrying 4 women each; what happens to the remaining bachelors? they marry who since the male:female population hardly goes beyond 47-53% variance? finally, Are muslim women allowed to divorce and remarry? any permitted grounds? If they have children? I don't want this to be religious. 1. Nowhere does Islam say 4 wives is the best. But Islam gives permission. But it puts a max limit of 4. For your information, only 2% of all Muslim men in the world have more than one wife, 98% have only one. 2. Not everyone can marry, leave alone marrying 4! The women are so many my friend, let me give you stats. In America alone there are 7.8 milion female more than male. In UK there are 4 milion female more than male. In germany there are 5 milion female more than male. In Russia there are 9 milion female more than male. God alone knows how many female more than male in the world! So you realize that Some men don't even want, some is satisfied with one, some are not satisfied with one, these later ones should marry more according to their capability physically, time and financially. 3. Women are allowed to remarry after 4 months 10 days (don't ask me why if your intention is to argue). I agree with you, women are many taking into consideration the ever increasing men who are gays @swenani, you're right. In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!! More women will not get husbands because of that, on top of the 7.8 million! Also, their prison population is 98% male!!! More women won't get husbands because the dudes are in prison. It is a compounding problem! Please put a link to the research that has been used to arrive at the finding that "In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!!" failure to which uwache pang'ang'a. Contribute to the thread or leave it to those who "panganga". At your age, you should know Google is your mate. The 30% was 1998 report. Link 1 (Gallup report 2011) At that time, Americans estimated that 21% of men were gay and that 22% of women were lesbian.Link 2 If "homosexual experience" means intimate contact with another male to the point of orgasm, then the Kinsey figures of 30% of males are about the most reliable statistics we have -- for men.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 2/26/2008 Posts: 4,449
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AlphDoti wrote:ecstacy wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Swenani wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Tebes wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Been quiet about this issue, let me say mine.
You see these ladies are not telling us why they were left. Why are we seeing men being forced to accept women? Yes, they are coming out on Internet... But we're only hearing one sided story. If it were possible to listen to man's story, we'd see where she made mistake.
You see God created male and female. It's not people who force people to live together. It's God who does. And God created the desire between the hearts, and He forbid woman from seeing any other man in whole world other than the ONE husband! And he only allowed the man to see upto 4 if he can afford, and no other woman is he allowed to look outside the 1 or 2 or 3 or 4! Those who go against the intention of God, namely attacking animals, or vaceline etc.
This is how we can have people live each other and avoid dead-beating. Those who protect their private parts other than from their wives/husbands! When the urge comes, it should be done within the boundaries of marriage. @ Alphadoti haha vaceline brings some memories of another member here but on another note; How was it determined that 4 and not any other number was adequate to satisfy a man??? What of solomon who had 300 wives??? Again supposing all men decide to give in, by marrying 4 women each; what happens to the remaining bachelors? they marry who since the male:female population hardly goes beyond 47-53% variance? finally, Are muslim women allowed to divorce and remarry? any permitted grounds? If they have children? I don't want this to be religious. 1. Nowhere does Islam say 4 wives is the best. But Islam gives permission. But it puts a max limit of 4. For your information, only 2% of all Muslim men in the world have more than one wife, 98% have only one. 2. Not everyone can marry, leave alone marrying 4! The women are so many my friend, let me give you stats. In America alone there are 7.8 milion female more than male. In UK there are 4 milion female more than male. In germany there are 5 milion female more than male. In Russia there are 9 milion female more than male. God alone knows how many female more than male in the world! So you realize that Some men don't even want, some is satisfied with one, some are not satisfied with one, these later ones should marry more according to their capability physically, time and financially. 3. Women are allowed to remarry after 4 months 10 days (don't ask me why if your intention is to argue). I agree with you, women are many taking into consideration the ever increasing men who are gays @swenani, you're right. In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!! More women will not get husbands because of that, on top of the 7.8 million! Also, their prison population is 98% male!!! More women won't get husbands because the dudes are in prison. It is a compounding problem! Please put a link to the research that has been used to arrive at the finding that "In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!!" failure to which uwache pang'ang'a. Contribute to the thread or leave it to those who "panganga". At your age, you should know Google is your mate. The 30% was 1998 report. Link 1 (Gallup report 2011) At that time, Americans estimated that 21% of men were gay and that 22% of women were lesbian.Link 2 If "homosexual experience" means intimate contact with another male to the point of orgasm, then the Kinsey figures of 30% of males are about the most reliable statistics we have -- for men. Got no time for that. Did a Lesbian turn you down or what? You hate lesbians with a passion, even more than child murderers. Unafanya nini Wazua? It's midday Friday, chukua bakora na uiingie Masjid.
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Swenani wrote:Impunity wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Swenani wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Tebes wrote:AlphDoti wrote:Been quiet about this issue, let me say mine.
You see these ladies are not telling us why they were left. Why are we seeing men being forced to accept women? Yes, they are coming out on Internet... But we're only hearing one sided story. If it were possible to listen to man's story, we'd see where she made mistake.
You see God created male and female. It's not people who force people to live together. It's God who does. And God created the desire between the hearts, and He forbid woman from seeing any other man in whole world other than the ONE husband! And he only allowed the man to see upto 4 if he can afford, and no other woman is he allowed to look outside the 1 or 2 or 3 or 4! Those who go against the intention of God, namely attacking animals, or vaceline etc.
This is how we can have people live each other and avoid dead-beating. Those who protect their private parts other than from their wives/husbands! When the urge comes, it should be done within the boundaries of marriage. @ Alphadoti haha vaceline brings some memories of another member here but on another note; How was it determined that 4 and not any other number was adequate to satisfy a man??? What of solomon who had 300 wives??? Again supposing all men decide to give in, by marrying 4 women each; what happens to the remaining bachelors? they marry who since the male:female population hardly goes beyond 47-53% variance? finally, Are muslim women allowed to divorce and remarry? any permitted grounds? If they have children? I don't want this to be religious. 1. Nowhere does Islam say 4 wives is the best. But Islam gives permission. But it puts a max limit of 4. For your information, only 2% of all Muslim men in the world have more than one wife, 98% have only one. 2. Not everyone can marry, leave alone marrying 4! The women are so many my friend, let me give you stats. In America alone there are 7.8 milion female more than male. In UK there are 4 milion female more than male. In germany there are 5 milion female more than male. In Russia there are 9 milion female more than male. God alone knows how many female more than male in the world! So you realize that Some men don't even want, some is satisfied with one, some are not satisfied with one, these later ones should marry more according to their capability physically, time and financially. 3. Women are allowed to remarry after 4 months 10 days (don't ask me why if your intention is to argue). I agree with you, women are many taking into consideration the ever increasing men who are gays @swenani, you're right. In fact, 30% of American population is gay!!! More women will not get husbands because of that, on top of the 7.8 million! Also, their prison population is 98% male!!! More women won't get husbands because the dudes are in prison. It is a compounding problem! On that account I wish I was an American at this age of mine! Would you want to be a male american in prison or a gay american? just ask yourself which one swings hips. 
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urstill wrote:Why are there so many single mothers? Single by choice and other factors not associated to death. What does this say about our society? What kind of society should we be ready for in the near future? This is a very difficult question and no single answer would comprehensively respond to this. The society has played a very big role in this. a)There has been significant change in perception by the society.Previously,single mothers were treated as outcasts and as people or low moral standing.The family would disown you and this was big shame to the family.Even in the Bible the reason why Mary the mother of Jesus left after she was informed by angel Gabriel that she will get a son is because it was unacceptable for a woman to have a child out of wedlock. b)It is now very easy to have sex.U just need to go to a club,buy a few drinks to a woman and Volaah!! you have a chips funga. c)Women empowerment.Our women are now very educated.They are well paid,driving good cars and are able to make decisions like whom she should have sex with.Traditionally women had sex to please men but with the empowerment a woman needs to also have satisfying sex.She wants to experience the big O. d)We have irresponsible men.Due to the women empowerment the traditional roles of men have changed.We have men who wants to share duties like paying rent,food,school fees etc.This brings a sense of disrespect and conflict because some of these roles should be done by the man as the head of the family. The guy could be 40 and still stays with his parents and doesnt pay any bills.His salary is purely for alcohol and entertainment.When he gets married,he doesnt know what responsibility is. Consistency is better than intensity
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Seems @Alphadoti is a persona non grata in wazua. @Ecstacy,give @Alphadoti space bwana If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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PeterReborn wrote:urstill wrote:Why are there so many single mothers? Single by choice and other factors not associated to death. What does this say about our society? What kind of society should we be ready for in the near future? This is a very difficult question and no single answer would comprehensively respond to this. The society has played a very big role in this. a)There has been significant change in perception by the society.Previously,single mothers were treated as outcasts and as people or low moral standing.The family would disown you and this was big shame to the family.Even in the Bible the reason why Mary the mother of Jesus left after she was informed by angel Gabriel that she will get a son is because it was unacceptable for a woman to have a child out of wedlock. b)It is now very easy to have sex.U just need to go to a club,buy a few drinks to a woman and Volaah!! you have a chips funga. c)Women empowerment.Our women are now very educated.They are well paid,driving good cars and are able to make decisions like whom she should have sex with.Traditionally women had sex to please men but with the empowerment a woman needs to also have satisfying sex.She wants to experience the big O. d)We have irresponsible men.Due to the women empowerment the traditional roles of men have changed.We have men who wants to share duties like paying rent,food,school fees etc.This brings a sense of disrespect and conflict because some of these roles should be done by the man as the head of the family. The guy could be 40 and still stays with his parents and doesnt pay any bills.His salary is purely for alcohol and entertainment.When he gets married,he doesnt know what responsibility is. Point d above so u want to say that you live with a woman who earns an income but should not participate in any of the said roles even though she can afford to! One's first step in wisdom is to question everything - and one's last is to come to terms with everything
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Swenani wrote:Seems @Alphadoti is a persona non grata in wazua.
@Ecstacy,give @Alphadoti space bwana bbuh
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mburuke wrote:PeterReborn wrote:urstill wrote:Why are there so many single mothers? Single by choice and other factors not associated to death. What does this say about our society? What kind of society should we be ready for in the near future? This is a very difficult question and no single answer would comprehensively respond to this. The society has played a very big role in this. a)There has been significant change in perception by the society.Previously,single mothers were treated as outcasts and as people or low moral standing.The family would disown you and this was big shame to the family.Even in the Bible the reason why Mary the mother of Jesus left after she was informed by angel Gabriel that she will get a son is because it was unacceptable for a woman to have a child out of wedlock. b)It is now very easy to have sex.U just need to go to a club,buy a few drinks to a woman and Volaah!! you have a chips funga. c)Women empowerment.Our women are now very educated.They are well paid,driving good cars and are able to make decisions like whom she should have sex with.Traditionally women had sex to please men but with the empowerment a woman needs to also have satisfying sex.She wants to experience the big O. d)We have irresponsible men.Due to the women empowerment the traditional roles of men have changed.We have men who wants to share duties like paying rent,food,school fees etc.This brings a sense of disrespect and conflict because some of these roles should be done by the man as the head of the family. The guy could be 40 and still stays with his parents and doesnt pay any bills.His salary is purely for alcohol and entertainment.When he gets married,he doesnt know what responsibility is. Point d above so u want to say that you live with a woman who earns an income but should not participate in any of the said roles even though she can afford to! @mburuke nope.Regardless of how much your woman earns,there are those responsibilities that a man should take care of such as paying rent and school fees.The moment you allow your woman to take care of your business is the beginning of your downfall. Consistency is better than intensity
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PeterReborn wrote:mburuke wrote:PeterReborn wrote:urstill wrote:Why are there so many single mothers? Single by choice and other factors not associated to death. What does this say about our society? What kind of society should we be ready for in the near future? This is a very difficult question and no single answer would comprehensively respond to this. The society has played a very big role in this. a)There has been significant change in perception by the society.Previously,single mothers were treated as outcasts and as people or low moral standing.The family would disown you and this was big shame to the family.Even in the Bible the reason why Mary the mother of Jesus left after she was informed by angel Gabriel that she will get a son is because it was unacceptable for a woman to have a child out of wedlock. b)It is now very easy to have sex.U just need to go to a club,buy a few drinks to a woman and Volaah!! you have a chips funga. c)Women empowerment.Our women are now very educated.They are well paid,driving good cars and are able to make decisions like whom she should have sex with.Traditionally women had sex to please men but with the empowerment a woman needs to also have satisfying sex.She wants to experience the big O. d)We have irresponsible men.Due to the women empowerment the traditional roles of men have changed.We have men who wants to share duties like paying rent,food,school fees etc.This brings a sense of disrespect and conflict because some of these roles should be done by the man as the head of the family. The guy could be 40 and still stays with his parents and doesnt pay any bills.His salary is purely for alcohol and entertainment.When he gets married,he doesnt know what responsibility is. Point d above so u want to say that you live with a woman who earns an income but should not participate in any of the said roles even though she can afford to! @mburuke nope.Regardless of how much your woman earns,there are those responsibilities that a man should take care of such as paying rent and school fees.The moment you allow your woman to take care of your business is the beginning of your downfall. Ditto, In fact,regardless of how much your woman earns,you still need to give her money for salon,chama,shopping and chama. Otherwise,if you expect her to contribute then weweni wale mnakuja kwa nyumba 9;30pm unapata chakula iko kwa microwave. I believe that a man should be simba wa nyumba.Ig i come home 3.00 am,she has to wake up and prepare ugali for me(not warm food) and watch me eat Women need to be conditioned(Washiku you need to read this) If Obiero did it, Who Am I?
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Swenani wrote:PeterReborn wrote:mburuke wrote:PeterReborn wrote:urstill wrote:Why are there so many single mothers? Single by choice and other factors not associated to death. What does this say about our society? What kind of society should we be ready for in the near future? This is a very difficult question and no single answer would comprehensively respond to this. The society has played a very big role in this. a)There has been significant change in perception by the society.Previously,single mothers were treated as outcasts and as people or low moral standing.The family would disown you and this was big shame to the family.Even in the Bible the reason why Mary the mother of Jesus left after she was informed by angel Gabriel that she will get a son is because it was unacceptable for a woman to have a child out of wedlock. b)It is now very easy to have sex.U just need to go to a club,buy a few drinks to a woman and Volaah!! you have a chips funga. c)Women empowerment.Our women are now very educated.They are well paid,driving good cars and are able to make decisions like whom she should have sex with.Traditionally women had sex to please men but with the empowerment a woman needs to also have satisfying sex.She wants to experience the big O. d)We have irresponsible men.Due to the women empowerment the traditional roles of men have changed.We have men who wants to share duties like paying rent,food,school fees etc.This brings a sense of disrespect and conflict because some of these roles should be done by the man as the head of the family. The guy could be 40 and still stays with his parents and doesnt pay any bills.His salary is purely for alcohol and entertainment.When he gets married,he doesnt know what responsibility is. Point d above so u want to say that you live with a woman who earns an income but should not participate in any of the said roles even though she can afford to! @mburuke nope.Regardless of how much your woman earns,there are those responsibilities that a man should take care of such as paying rent and school fees.The moment you allow your woman to take care of your business is the beginning of your downfall. Ditto, In fact,regardless of how much your woman earns,you still need to give her money for salon,chama,shopping and chama. Otherwise,if you expect her to contribute then weweni wale mnakuja kwa nyumba 9;30pm unapata chakula iko kwa microwave. I believe that a man should be simba wa nyumba.Ig i come home 3.00 am,she has to wake up and prepare ugali for me(not warm food) and watch me eat Women need to be conditioned(Washiku you need to read this)  Consistency is better than intensity
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"The course of true anything never does run smooth. ~Samuel Butler. If you have been on BB or are a member, am sure you will know " Nobody ever walks alone" it's always has certainly been members. Today our very own needs your support. Jackson Njeru is a wanted man to dare touch where everyone has been so careful to tread on . We need your financial support to help with follow up and miscellaneous. It takes money, to waddle through. If, you are in a position to support with whatever amount please send it to his line on 0700931621, Our target is over 60k and every little adds up. Long live comrade power, long live DBK.
Someone's life is endangered for their selfless deed of trying to reach out. Anyone trolling here will be BANNED. If you have nothing to say, don't do it here. Having said that I believe everyone is on here at least because they can identify with the issues being addressed here, or perhaps keeping a keen eye if their names, better others, brothers, sisters etc do ever pop up? Either way, let's keep civil please. Regards"
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urstill1 wrote:
"The course of true anything never does run smooth. ~Samuel Butler. If you have been on BB or are a member, am sure you will know " Nobody ever walks alone" it's always has certainly been members. Today our very own needs your support. Jackson Njeru is a wanted man to dare touch where everyone has been so careful to tread on . We need your financial support to help with follow up and miscellaneous. It takes money, to waddle through. If, you are in a position to support with whatever amount please send it to his line on 0700931621, Our target is over 60k and every little adds up. Long live comrade power, long live DBK.
Someone's life is endangered for their selfless deed of trying to reach out. Anyone trolling here will be BANNED. If you have nothing to say, don't do it here. Having said that I believe everyone is on here at least because they can identify with the issues being addressed here, or perhaps keeping a keen eye if their names, better others, brothers, sisters etc do ever pop up? Either way, let's keep civil please. Regards"
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Rank: Elder Joined: 1/17/2013 Posts: 4,693 Location: Earth
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Swenani wrote:
I believe that a man should be simba wa nyumba.Ig i come home 3.00 am,she has to wake up and prepare ugali for me(not warm food) and watch me eat
Women need to be conditioned(Washiku you need to read this)
You should go back to your ancestors where you belong. This is slavery in the name of God knows what. It doesn't even have any basis in the bible or whatever human traditions. 1.What is a married man doing outside till 3.00am and in Nbo? Only dogs and thugs are allowed out at that hour. 2.Why risk your life walking/driving home at night instead of sleeping in a hotel? 3.What kind of food is this that requires a long painful stare to swallow? Please Note: Your wife is not your slave but a friend and a lover, so treat her the same way you'd like to be treated, with dignity!. And fyi.Married men are the worst adulterers. The chances of being hit on by a married man are triple that of a single guy. It gets worse when they attempt to marry more women because they end up creating Akuku Village. Lust begats lust.
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Rank: User Joined: 8/15/2013 Posts: 13,237 Location: Vacuum
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urstill1 wrote:
"The course of true anything never does run smooth. ~Samuel Butler. If you have been on BB or are a member, am sure you will know " Nobody ever walks alone" it's always has certainly been members. Today our very own needs your support. Jackson Njeru is a wanted man to dare touch where everyone has been so careful to tread on . We need your financial support to help with follow up and miscellaneous. It takes money, to waddle through. If, you are in a position to support with whatever amount please send it to his line on 0700931621, Our target is over 60k and every little adds up. Long live comrade power, long live DBK.
Someone's life is endangered for their selfless deed of trying to reach out. Anyone trolling here will be BANNED. If you have nothing to say, don't do it here. Having said that I believe everyone is on here at least because they can identify with the issues being addressed here, or perhaps keeping a keen eye if their names, better others, brothers, sisters etc do ever pop up? Either way, let's keep civil please. Regards"
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