as if it is not bad enough, 'The Trend' on NTV is now doing 'live streaming' of your sura nationwide as they discuss Dead Beats

people should learn how to masticate

Some guys have been thrown to the curb, others are are now jobless..this $hit is real

I honestly believe that group serves people of a certain caliber and class.
Ironically there are men who would like to take care of their offspring but the women would not have anything to do with them.

Any day i would support a woman who walked out of an abusive relationship, and should one choose this road, they need to protect the kids from any harm and not exposing them on social media.

You cannot force someone to have feelings for a child, if they chose to walk away let them be, KARMA is a bitch.

I know this first hand because my grandfather kept marrying and having babies and moving onto the next wife, so wife number 3 had it all, her kids were taken to good schools, had a better life, the first two wives really struggled to bring up their children.

somehow, not a single one from the 3rd wife's family made it to university, they ended up being drunkards and early marriages for the women, this trickled down to our generation.

That said, there are so many successful people who were raised by their mothers single handedly, probably they wouldn't be who they are had they grown with their deadbeat fathers. President Obama is one such case, I also tend to believe, that as a father, when you ignore your other children, you take away blessings from those you identify with. Ever noticed how the bastard is the bright one in school and the father shows up when they are about to join some national school or university?

@CLK, I really feel for you, how I wish you were from the 2nd family, or even the 1st.
I hope you attend some phombe therapy, please register with the #alcoholic anonymous group!



And I hope huyu hapa chini is not the mzeeiya!

So both his parents were deadbeats?
And you are wrong, picture a family where both mother and father are present and actively involved in the upbringing of children, church on sundays etc.
Also picture a family where both parents are present, dad is a drunkard and an abuser so the mother takes up most of the responsibilities in the upbringing of the kids.

Now picture a family of a single mum/dad, and for this case lets just say one parent is dead and not a deadbeat, but the one parent brings up the kids surrounded with family and a christian background, where are you likely to find your deliquents?

then you agree with me that having a father is not the ultimate, it is having a daddy that really matters, so we should let the single mums be, for heavens' sake, they are doing a good job. As for those busy huko facebook, i got no words for them.

But then those men out there, with perfect families and totally ignoring their offspring, mungu anawaona.

This is almost IMPOSSIBLE, leave alone a few exceptional cases of widows or divorcees whose kids were already somewhat grounded in "family order" and Obama is certainly not raised "single handedly by his mom", his grand parents (grand father) were instrumental, and he had already started slipping into cocaine/drug use as a teenager, Obama is also VERY vocal against this dead beat scenario, very vocal particularly when he speaks to black people who seem to have a problem understanding this today. Again, there will NEVER be "so many cases" of single mothers being succesful particularly where boys (teenage boys) are concerned, it is next to impossible, tell me which mother can manage/discpline a teenage son, unless the boy is totally "saved"?

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