@ Atiriri.....
Atiriri wanyina (if u know what that means).... No one is perfect until u fall in love with them, once u drift out of love or change focus no matter how slight the change is u start seeing faults, the faults develop into problems n before u notice u start asking questions like the one's am reading on ur post. this applies to both the guy n the chic .. like Mc reague's free advice on his signature (i salute u mc) do not go past the mark u aimed for; in victory learn when to stop,
This guy ceased to be "perfect" when he got the job upcountry, the things they used to do together died with that change, the only way to stop the faults before they become problems is communication n more of it that should have commenced immediately the change took place.. by communicating she can rekindle the love they once had, that is if she still loves him as she says,,,,, u never know maybe the husband is asking the same question.... but thats upon her to find out with ur help offcourse....