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Wendz wrote:Homelygirl wrote:@Surealligator Quote:My argument was that a wife who is submissive to her husband will most often than not make the husband love her automatically even when there are unavoidable differences in the home. Well Surealligator, I believe the reverse works better. A husband who loves his wife (and shows it by action) will more ofter than not receive submissiveness from her. My argument is, how can I not submit to a man who is good to me, loves me and shows it to me, it is an automatic reaction. On the contrary, failure to love me (hence failure to exhibit related actions) will be met with same reaction, read zero submissiveness. @homelygirl Let me play the devils advocate..... how will a man love a woman who is not submissive to him? I think these things would have to go together.... not waiting for one to prove himself/herself. its a commitment to love her and for her to submit without on condition that..... it wont work..... what if the man is waiting for you to be submissive so that he can love you unconditionally and you are waiting for him to love you so that you can submit? you get my drift? which came first, the egg or the hen? meeting in the middle would be a better way. each person plays there part.
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