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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/20/2008 Posts: 6,275 Location: Kenya
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@guys and what is wrong with a married man? If somebody is suitable,within your social circles,able to take care of you,you like him and is legal,what is the problem?
I can do it myself if I want to upto 4 wives. There are conditions that I must meet. To be able to afford to maintain all of them equally with fairness.
AKS
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/18/2009 Posts: 175
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@tetra nothing wrong with society its women who want single guys to have characters of a married guy. It happens when single ladies hang around her married friends they start expectig their BF to belike the husbands of friends or lookingfor a man with such characters.well he can only be married what elsedo they expect Some you win,Some you lose Some you win some you lose
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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@Djinn
hahahahahaha! thats a killer!!
Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/13/2008 Posts: 1,565
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@Wendz - thanks. I'm trying to help @tetra not to rush in where angels fear to tread.....
Father and son in supermarket.
'Dad,what are these?'
'That's a 3pack of condoms son for secondary school lads. 1 for Friday night,1 for Saturday night and 1 for Sunday night.'
'What about the 6pack dad?'
'Those are for University lads. 2 for Friday night,2 for Satuday night and 2 for Sunday night.'
'Well dad,what about the 12pack then?'
'Married men son. 1 for January,1 for February,1 for March ...'
The problem with equality is that we desire that it be with those that have more than us rather that those that have less
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Rank: Elder Joined: 11/19/2008 Posts: 1,267
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Tetra- ...... 'seriously need a man'...NO COMMENT .Thought it was another Friday Pervert.......Djinn....hehehehehehe what is it that you smoke.... Rules of the game here: Before you post anything think.give facts only..It's a serious blog for serious people....Do not insult your brother....respect one another...Just be good.... It's good to live a honest life....life without guilt.... Jeremiah 17:11 As a partridge that hatches eggs which it has not laid,So is he who makes a fortune,but unjustly; In the midst of his days it will forsake him,And in the end he will be a fool.' From the SK Anti-hate/anti- corruption campaigner.. Isaiah 65:17-Look! I am creating new heavens and a new earth, and no one will even think about the old ones anymore
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Rank: Member Joined: 2/3/2009 Posts: 112
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Hi mein schwester,please register at lovefindme.com and who knows you will be smiling again. I found my friend there
Sleeping like a little baby
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/26/2009 Posts: 326 Location: Nairobi
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@ tetra,
You would have received hundreds of them by now.
Pls push some to me for my 2 friends (28-31) who will pay if we get them good husbands. We shall share the $$$
Both of them are so pretty,nice and rich,you wonder what happened to men of these days.
Healthy eating = nutritious urine. Nyama choma anytime!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 3/2/2007 Posts: 8,776 Location: Cameroon
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@wa p,all was well till u mentioned 'rich'...Im off to the hills,sorry.... Can silence be misquoted? TULIA.........UFUNZWE!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 5/27/2008 Posts: 3,760
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Seriously need a second wife. 30 yrs max. Im mid 4 decades,2 kids,house and some stocks. Pepe iko kwa profile.......
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Rank: Member Joined: 8/29/2008 Posts: 573
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I need a 3rd wife,must be between 18-22.
Ali Baba
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Rank: Member Joined: 5/26/2009 Posts: 326 Location: Nairobi
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@simonkabz,
LOL!! Its truth 'well' told. Try substituting rich with poor and see how tasteless it becomes.
But honestly,those 2 gals have sent SOS. One is in business,the other is a top doggess at KRA. No kidding.
Healthy eating = nutritious urine. Nyama choma anytime!
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Rank: Elder Joined: 10/23/2008 Posts: 3,966
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@wa P,tell them to look no further. I am in my late 20s,single,learned,ambitious (who isnt when the lady in question is rich and has sent an SOS). But seriously,how long do such relationships last? @tetra,I believe what you need is friendship that will grow into love. Start looking around your circle of friends. otherwise if you get a hook up from sk,dating sites,your expectations may never be met. my two Zim dollars The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience,but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy Luck is when Preparation meets Opportunity. ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/23/2007 Posts: 604
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You're not alone but to get and keep this man you need to use the best skills in doing so.
I appreciate the advice given here but without going in circles - PLEASE Seek the Will and Hand of God in your search.
After breaking up with a chic of three years,actually being dumped, I went out to test my worth and it was really exciting until i realized the emptiness.
To cut a really long story short I'd suggest you start with God and the rest will fall in place and you will be guaranteed peace.
'Seek ye first the Kingdom of God,and all these things you want will be given unto you' - I know singlehood can be very empty and lonely but so is a marriage without God involved.
If most married people would be honest with you,they'd tell you without God that institution is like a Nazi concentration camp.
Evry journey starts somewhere- start with God - seek God and again i repeat the rest will be given unto you. Then you can follow some of the advices given here.
In Him i have found peace and no loneliness because i know My good wife will come from the Lord. First trust God and He will lead you to that man.
Be Blessed.
Cool Bull
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/29/2009 Posts: 25
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@ Tetra
Sorry for the loss of a fiancé. I understand the pain that goes with such an event as I have a friend who lost a newly wed husband. Am glad that you have taken time to heal before making the decision to start again.
However,I don’t think long term relationship is something you need to put to public for tender. The way I understand love (I may be wrong) is that it should either be on first sight or it develops from a mutual relationship/friendship. If you want love that grows naturally,I wouldn’t think a public site like this would be the best starting point. There may be examples of similar situations that have worked before but each of us have our own way or unique circumstances.
I don’t think love is something you can transfer freely from one person to the other in search of the ‘perfect’ match. It is a careful decision especially if you are looking for a long-term relationship. You are only 28 and you are looking for someone to live with for the next possible 50+ years (assuming that you will die at approx 80) and therefore this is not a decision to take lightly- and this has to start from the inception (and conception) of the decision.
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Rank: Member Joined: 11/10/2009 Posts: 23
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@tetra,
I don't know what to say but having lived abroad for some time,i will tell you that you are still very young (by western standards). I understand that Kenyan society imposes certain values and expectations when you reach a certain age..not discounting the fact that there are a lot of young girls vying for the same needs as you. I know this from experience (not me personally but some of my relatives) . I know some girls who attend their friends' kids' birthday parties always feel miserable. This places tremendous pressure to find a soulmate/hubby.
All i can say is have faith in God. Network in your social circles and probably extend your reach outside Kenya ! You will be surprised. I know a lot of Kenyan chicks happily married to Ghanain guys ! Think outside the box. I know it's hard. West african guys have a serious crush on our kenyan sisters....i don't know why ?
It is so disheartening when gals in their late 20's or early 30's are resigning to fate (becoming a mpango wa kando ). I know fellas will lynch me for this but i say no to mpango wa kando...unless things are really bad.
Singependa kuchanganywa kama roiko mchuzi mix my favourite spice !
It takes two to tango.........
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Rank: Member Joined: 9/6/2007 Posts: 132
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@tetra
Pray about it and ask God to protect you and send the right person your way.A word of caution though as you receive emails from prospects be very careful there are evil pple out there.
jnn
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 2/25/2009 Posts: 973
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Hmmmmmhhh...@tetra - Very Interesting! I happen to know a few very eligible bachelors (26-38) so if legit,I can matchmake. @wa P - same applies. Things may come to those who wait,but only what’s left behind by those that hustle.
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Rank: Member Joined: 10/6/2009 Posts: 164
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Title sounds desperate. You probably have good intentions but the title might easily attract knuckleheads. Bold move,good luck.
Marriages are made in heaven. But so are thunder and lightning.
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Rank: Veteran Joined: 10/6/2007 Posts: 1,177 Location: Nairobi - Kenya
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@ tetra frankly if you need someone urgently try mocospace... @ djinn 12 pack for married men....lol! When you run so fast to get somewhere,you miss the fun of getting there... Life is not a race,so take it slowly.... When you hear what I say, you will not understand. When you see what I do, you will not comprehend
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Rank: Elder Joined: 6/19/2008 Posts: 4,268
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LOL!!! We started by one lady looking for a man.... seems we are finishing with more men looking for 2nd,3rd,4th wives and matchmakers.... I love the way things mutate here.....
Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want.
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